ok so her husband is a great guy and always taking great care of her and she is really looking forward to haveing kids and so is he. but the problem is she is getting her birth control taken out TOMORROW and he is still changing his mind about when about twice a day. one min he really wants to start trying tomorrow night wen he gets home and the next he wants to wait awhile. and sometimes he sound really convincng that he wants to start now and so it gets her hopes up only to get shattered later when he changes his mind back. what is she supposed to do she has talked to him about it and he still keeps getting her hopes up to later have them crushed
How would a girl deal with a guy who keeps changing his mind about when he wants kids?
how about not being involved in other peoples lives?
How would a girl deal with a guy who keeps changing his mind about when he wants kids?
Just get off birth control and when she gets pregnant it will be a nice surprise!
What are the motives for him wanting to wait? I can understand wanting both at the same time. Part of him is ready for that next step, but part of him is probably mature enough to realize what a huge commitment that is. A child is fully dependent on you. Free time? Gone. Extra cash(if there was some)? Gone. It can be a pretty scary thing. So I would start by making sure you have really talked about the things that are making him hesitant. Maybe he is even worried about how the relationship between the two of you will change.
