In August, I got a $150 speeding ticket and I felt it was unfairly issued, so I requested an appeal. On November 13th, I was notified by mail that my requested had been scheduled for December 11th. Long story short, I have a prior commitment on this day that is worth far more than $150 and I want to just go ahead and pay the ticket. I live in Massachusetts.
How do I go about doing this at this stage? Will I be fined for changing my mind?
Can I change my mind and just pay the speeding ticket?
Don't Pay the ticket. Get Legal Help. My Profile will guide you.
Can I change my mind and just pay the speeding ticket?
Call the Clerk of the Court and talk to them about it. They might move your date, if you have a Valid reason (valid to the court, not just you). Good luck!
Just send the money in and get a hold of the office and say nevermind you decided to pay it.
Saturday 24 September 2011
Why does my gf keep changing her mind?
Like she would tell me shes coming over on a certain weekend...then later doesn't answer her phone..Sometimes she seems loving but other times it seems like she lose interest in the relationship..We've been dating for 5 years but at times shes nice and other times unberable...help??
Why does my gf keep changing her mind?
Sounds like she has another in her life
Linda
Why does my gf keep changing her mind?
Heck that sounds normal to me! LOL
It means that something better came up. She made other plans so she does not answer. She might be hanging on while she is looking for something else.
cause she thought you were hanging out then something better came up..unacceptable tell her next time that you don't want to be with someone that can't keep plans because its not fair to wait around and wonder if you found something better to do... who does she think she is treating someone this way... why do you put up with it?
Simple she is cheating or not happy, I would communicate with her on how you feel, if she doesn't respect what you have to say then I'm sorry from what you have told I would leave.
It gives you an idea of what's at stake for your future%26gt; At least you haven't married her yet%26gt;
Why does my gf keep changing her mind?
Sounds like she has another in her life
Linda
Why does my gf keep changing her mind?
Heck that sounds normal to me! LOL
It means that something better came up. She made other plans so she does not answer. She might be hanging on while she is looking for something else.
cause she thought you were hanging out then something better came up..unacceptable tell her next time that you don't want to be with someone that can't keep plans because its not fair to wait around and wonder if you found something better to do... who does she think she is treating someone this way... why do you put up with it?
Simple she is cheating or not happy, I would communicate with her on how you feel, if she doesn't respect what you have to say then I'm sorry from what you have told I would leave.
It gives you an idea of what's at stake for your future%26gt; At least you haven't married her yet%26gt;
The probability of winning a prize out of 3 options with the option of changing your selection?
In a game show, there is a prize in one of the 3 boxes, A, B and C. After the contestant chooses one, the host opens one of the 2 other boxes that has nothing. The contestant is given a choice of changing their mind to the other box left or stick to their original choice. Which option will give a higher probability of winning the prize?
The probability of winning a prize out of 3 options with the option of changing your selection?
This called the Monty Hall problem. It has been the source of much debate and issues. The problem becomes very complicated with you consider all the different possible assumptions that have to go into solving the problem.
Check this site for some history on the question and links to the solutions.
http://math.rice.edu/~pcmi/mathlinks/mon鈥?/a>
The probability of winning a prize out of 3 options with the option of changing your selection?
This involves variable chance. When he chose a box say Box A, his chances of winning is 33.33% against 66.66% but when one of the other boxes was opened, his chances for box A became 50%. I would change my mind and select the other box because it's one of the box that has 66.66% winning against the 50% of box A. Smile..
Switch... for pete's sake, switch!
The probability of picking the prize originally is 1/3.
So 1/3 of the time, you pick the prize and switch, you lose.
(1/3 of the time, you pick the prize and stay and win)
The probability of NOT picking the prize is 2/3.
Since the host shows the other empty box, if you switch, you win.
So 2/3 of the time, you pick nothing, switch and win.
(2/3 of the time, you pick nothing, stay and lose)
Combining this: 2/3 of the time, if you switch you win.
1/3 of the time, you switch and lose.
2/3 of the time, you stay and lose
1/3 of the time you stay and win.
The odds favor switching (because the host will always show a box with nothing in it)
This is a great question for causing arguments!
The probability of winning a prize out of 3 options with the option of changing your selection?
This called the Monty Hall problem. It has been the source of much debate and issues. The problem becomes very complicated with you consider all the different possible assumptions that have to go into solving the problem.
Check this site for some history on the question and links to the solutions.
http://math.rice.edu/~pcmi/mathlinks/mon鈥?/a>
The probability of winning a prize out of 3 options with the option of changing your selection?
This involves variable chance. When he chose a box say Box A, his chances of winning is 33.33% against 66.66% but when one of the other boxes was opened, his chances for box A became 50%. I would change my mind and select the other box because it's one of the box that has 66.66% winning against the 50% of box A. Smile..
Switch... for pete's sake, switch!
The probability of picking the prize originally is 1/3.
So 1/3 of the time, you pick the prize and switch, you lose.
(1/3 of the time, you pick the prize and stay and win)
The probability of NOT picking the prize is 2/3.
Since the host shows the other empty box, if you switch, you win.
So 2/3 of the time, you pick nothing, switch and win.
(2/3 of the time, you pick nothing, stay and lose)
Combining this: 2/3 of the time, if you switch you win.
1/3 of the time, you switch and lose.
2/3 of the time, you stay and lose
1/3 of the time you stay and win.
The odds favor switching (because the host will always show a box with nothing in it)
This is a great question for causing arguments!
How old where you when you basically quit changing your opinions?
If you haven't quit changing your opinions, what's the last issue you changed your mind about? Thanks for answering!
How old where you when you basically quit changing your opinions?
hmm, i would have to say that to some degree i have quit changing my opinions. however, the other day someone asked me about abortion and for the past few years i have always had the same opinion about it and when i opened my mouth to answer my opinion had suddenly changed. at first i thought maybe i was embarrassed about my answer, but the simple fact was my opinion had just changed. for me i will draw a conclusion rather fast, but then once i learn to better understand what i have decided it changes.
How old where you when you basically quit changing your opinions?
I don't constantly change my mind, but I do occasionally, I do not think there is an age where this stops, but I'm 16, so I guess I'm not old enough to say this for sure.
18 (after graduating highschool) is when a lot of my views on life drastically changed. for the better =)
people are in change accordingly to their needs
Opinions are based upon available information on a given subject thus when this knowledge pool changes or is corrected the opinion should change with it.
Opinions on morality, however, are, or should be, a bit more rigid do to the long term consequences of changing %26quot;or modernizing%26quot; them to fit current cultural ideas. The concept that some things never change is quite true so is the concept that change is the one constant.
My opinions are based upon what I know at this point, I habitually allow for them to change so that I can be right more often later...hehe.
maybe, as long as i am aging..i think it's normal...we can never be too confident with ourselves, and admitting that what we thought first was wrong is never a sin.. :)
People don't 'quit' changing their opinions. It depends on how effectively they can sustain the ones they have for them to keep them. Like, I have opinions that I've kept since I can remember and others that I change whenever I discuss them or hear sth about the topic in question on the news or sth. If there was a particular age at which you were supposed to stop changing opinions, the world would become a very static and boring place indeed.
A person who is not a socialist at the age of twenty has a hard heart.
A person who is a socialist at the age of forty has a soft head.web server software msdn
How old where you when you basically quit changing your opinions?
hmm, i would have to say that to some degree i have quit changing my opinions. however, the other day someone asked me about abortion and for the past few years i have always had the same opinion about it and when i opened my mouth to answer my opinion had suddenly changed. at first i thought maybe i was embarrassed about my answer, but the simple fact was my opinion had just changed. for me i will draw a conclusion rather fast, but then once i learn to better understand what i have decided it changes.
How old where you when you basically quit changing your opinions?
I don't constantly change my mind, but I do occasionally, I do not think there is an age where this stops, but I'm 16, so I guess I'm not old enough to say this for sure.
18 (after graduating highschool) is when a lot of my views on life drastically changed. for the better =)
people are in change accordingly to their needs
Opinions are based upon available information on a given subject thus when this knowledge pool changes or is corrected the opinion should change with it.
Opinions on morality, however, are, or should be, a bit more rigid do to the long term consequences of changing %26quot;or modernizing%26quot; them to fit current cultural ideas. The concept that some things never change is quite true so is the concept that change is the one constant.
My opinions are based upon what I know at this point, I habitually allow for them to change so that I can be right more often later...hehe.
maybe, as long as i am aging..i think it's normal...we can never be too confident with ourselves, and admitting that what we thought first was wrong is never a sin.. :)
People don't 'quit' changing their opinions. It depends on how effectively they can sustain the ones they have for them to keep them. Like, I have opinions that I've kept since I can remember and others that I change whenever I discuss them or hear sth about the topic in question on the news or sth. If there was a particular age at which you were supposed to stop changing opinions, the world would become a very static and boring place indeed.
A person who is not a socialist at the age of twenty has a hard heart.
A person who is a socialist at the age of forty has a soft head.
My ex signed over legal custody to me 5months ago, now is changing his mind? Can I lose custody of my child?
He signed willingfully, already approved by court. Now changing his mind, and is taking me back to court. I have been the only one caring for my child since the divorce, (he picks and chooses when he wants to see my child) all of his needs are well taken care of. I've had the same job for 6years, no drugs, no convictions, all I do is work to support my child (since the ex has stopped paying any CS), please help
My ex signed over legal custody to me 5months ago, now is changing his mind? Can I lose custody of my child?
He can try and take you back to court but based on the fact that he willingly signed over custody, he's not going to have a leg to stand on. Courts don't work that way. They see a parent who didn't want to be in the child's life, who didn't help with the upbringing, yet stands before them demanding custody? On what grounds? If anything, it shows instability on his part and immaturity. The guardian adlitem and social worker see right through this. In fact, I can almost guarantee that he is a man who likes to have control, is doing this only because of child support arrears or you've started to move on with your life.
Hold your ground honey. It'll suck the life out of you, but this is a fight worth fighting and you will be fine in the end. Just don't waiver and don't give an inch. This is about what is best for your child.
I wish you well sweetie and you hold your chin up, you've been doing everything you are suppose to be doing. Things will be okay in the end.
My ex signed over legal custody to me 5months ago, now is changing his mind? Can I lose custody of my child?
That may be why he wants to get custody so he cannot be taken to court for not paying child support( you can get it taken from his check as well). You need to get someone to check out his background and activities to see if he is fit and when you are in front of a judge and your lawyer, then tell them what you just told all of us.
do you mean he gave you sole custody or that he terminated his rights to his child?
If he terminated his rights - that can't be reversed...if he gave you sole custody, he has every right to change his mind and want to be more a part of the child's life. You won't lose custody, but he is entitled to joint custody.
No judge will take custody away from a woman unless that woman is a bad parent and that is pretty hard to prove. The most the judge will do is grant joint custody, but you will still be the custodial parent.
I believe the judge (unless he is not in his right mind) will only grant a temporary change (probationary) for probably 6 months to a year. The judge will probably question heavily what changed his mind and why should he believe him now!
In the end, you will be the custodial parent. The real question for you, is can you share this with the %26quot;father%26quot; and not get into pointing fingers and saying what a jerk he is, etc. Do not make your child a battle ground between you. All 3 of you will lose, especially your two's child.
Good Luck %26amp; Happy New Year!! 2008 will be better!!!!!!!!!
I think his case is very weak, and yours is very strong. You have been caring for your child...he gave up his legal right to custody. You have been allowing your child to see him. upon request. You are supporting your child financially. He is not paying child support.
You are doing all the right things for your child.
If all is true. There is no way you would lose custody. They may not even give him partial custody. So just continue to do what you are doing and it will pass.
what caused him to sign over custody, judges are loath to change a custody arrangement unless there is a very good reason, so unless there is a good reason a judge probably won't change it and i don't know the reason but the 2 of you cannot be bouncing this child back and forth like this so if i were you i would fight it and just leave it the way it is now as you cannot have a dad just picking and choosing when he wants to see a child
If he signed it over without any sort of duress, hopefully he's SOL. Get a good lawyer.
My ex signed over legal custody to me 5months ago, now is changing his mind? Can I lose custody of my child?
He can try and take you back to court but based on the fact that he willingly signed over custody, he's not going to have a leg to stand on. Courts don't work that way. They see a parent who didn't want to be in the child's life, who didn't help with the upbringing, yet stands before them demanding custody? On what grounds? If anything, it shows instability on his part and immaturity. The guardian adlitem and social worker see right through this. In fact, I can almost guarantee that he is a man who likes to have control, is doing this only because of child support arrears or you've started to move on with your life.
Hold your ground honey. It'll suck the life out of you, but this is a fight worth fighting and you will be fine in the end. Just don't waiver and don't give an inch. This is about what is best for your child.
I wish you well sweetie and you hold your chin up, you've been doing everything you are suppose to be doing. Things will be okay in the end.
My ex signed over legal custody to me 5months ago, now is changing his mind? Can I lose custody of my child?
That may be why he wants to get custody so he cannot be taken to court for not paying child support( you can get it taken from his check as well). You need to get someone to check out his background and activities to see if he is fit and when you are in front of a judge and your lawyer, then tell them what you just told all of us.
do you mean he gave you sole custody or that he terminated his rights to his child?
If he terminated his rights - that can't be reversed...if he gave you sole custody, he has every right to change his mind and want to be more a part of the child's life. You won't lose custody, but he is entitled to joint custody.
No judge will take custody away from a woman unless that woman is a bad parent and that is pretty hard to prove. The most the judge will do is grant joint custody, but you will still be the custodial parent.
I believe the judge (unless he is not in his right mind) will only grant a temporary change (probationary) for probably 6 months to a year. The judge will probably question heavily what changed his mind and why should he believe him now!
In the end, you will be the custodial parent. The real question for you, is can you share this with the %26quot;father%26quot; and not get into pointing fingers and saying what a jerk he is, etc. Do not make your child a battle ground between you. All 3 of you will lose, especially your two's child.
Good Luck %26amp; Happy New Year!! 2008 will be better!!!!!!!!!
I think his case is very weak, and yours is very strong. You have been caring for your child...he gave up his legal right to custody. You have been allowing your child to see him. upon request. You are supporting your child financially. He is not paying child support.
You are doing all the right things for your child.
If all is true. There is no way you would lose custody. They may not even give him partial custody. So just continue to do what you are doing and it will pass.
what caused him to sign over custody, judges are loath to change a custody arrangement unless there is a very good reason, so unless there is a good reason a judge probably won't change it and i don't know the reason but the 2 of you cannot be bouncing this child back and forth like this so if i were you i would fight it and just leave it the way it is now as you cannot have a dad just picking and choosing when he wants to see a child
If he signed it over without any sort of duress, hopefully he's SOL. Get a good lawyer.
Babies father keeps changing his mind?
i am 28 weeks pregnant with a little girl and the babies father keeps changing his mind on whether or not he wants to be involved. mainly i think it is because of his new gf...what should i say to him to keep him involved?
Babies father keeps changing his mind?
Tell him he can%26#039;t go back and forth once she is born, because you won%26#039;t put up with it. It%26#039;s no good for the child.
It%26#039;s not your job to make him be a dad...not matter how bad you may want him in yours or her life. I know that you might think that him being in her life is the best thing for her....but that is not necessarily true. If he comes in and out of her life the way he%26#039;s doing during the pregnancy, she is better off without him. It is too hard on a child to have a parent come and go, appear and disappear on them. It hurts them more than the parent not being there at all...because when the parent comes and goes, they are leaving that child over and over again. If they leave once....the child doesn%26#039;t have to go through the hurt and emotions from them leaving, repeatedly.
Be strong, pray, and make sure to surround your baby with love! If here father doesn%26#039;t want to participate, you can%26#039;t make him-and you shouldn%26#039;t. You will have way to many things to do in your life without adding the job of making him be a daddy!
Babies father keeps changing his mind?
Marry me?
This is a classic example of why marriage should come first THEN babies!
Dont tell him anything. Go to the childrens revenue office and get child support for one. You%26#039;re not going to be able to talk this guy into anything. You should let him see the baby and have him at the hospital, he%26#039;s probably scared and has this girl in his ear trying to keep him away because she%26#039;s jealous that you%26#039;re having his baby. When he sees that little girl i%26#039;m sure it will all change..
how old is he?
you don%26#039;t want him in the baby%26#039;s life if he doesn%26#039;t want to be there or has any questions. He may end up resenting the baby and she%26#039;ll see that and it won%26#039;t be good for her. Tell him to bugger off until he makes up his mind. Don%26#039;t do that to your precious baby. She doesn%26#039;t need to ever feel that her daddy doesn%26#039;t love her
I would tell him %26quot;I will make the decision for you. You are not going to be in her life and I will see you in court for child support and medical bills, loser.%26quot;
there is no reason to be bitchy like the other girl who responded
what you need to do is kick him to the curb honey
i had my son who is almost two now when i was 15
i did it without his father but with help from my family
you can do this
and ignore any negative responses
they have no idea what they are talking about
i go to church and belive in god and still got pregnant at 15
so tell them to shove it!
you will do whats best for you and your baby
its in a mothers DNA
I agree, he needs to be involved but you can%26#039;t force it. Make sure that a DNA test is done right away because next his new gf will be convincing him that it%26#039;s not his baby. Besides you%26#039;ll need the proof to be sure he pays child support....Good Luck!
if he doesn%26#039;t want to be involved with his children, well sorry to say that but i don%26#039;t think you can do anything about it!!!!! and please don%26#039;t have more babies with such an a$$holes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck
Dont let him do that to you if he doesn%26#039;t want to be there FULL time all the time, then screw him. Get him for child support and live your life with your baby the way you want.
Therer is nothing you can do to convince him to be involve but that doesn%26#039;t mean that he should get away without helping support your baby. Maybe when she is here and he sees her he will come around. It just isn%26#039;t real enough for him yet.
Id try and not worry to much about him until after the baby arrives then if he Still isn%26#039;t interested in playing a part in your child%26#039;s life go and see social services.
Good luck
i would just wait and see what he does after he sees her his gf is jealous that your having his baby and not her. he doesent want to be there then go get childsupport.
This guy is pulling you along... You don%26#039;t need him. As long as supports the baby emotionally and financially that%26#039;s all that matters. If he%26#039;s being wishy-washy you don%26#039;t need him in your life anyway. That%26#039;ll do nothing but stress you out during your pregnancy.
nothing, if he doesn%26#039;t want to be involved that%26#039;s his own problem, maybe then the kid and you are better off without him in you lives. a man shouldn%26#039;t be able to pick and chose when he wants to be there for the kid, but the sad truth is, they don%26#039;t have to worry about leaving their family, we do. we are stuck taking care of the kids while they go out and do whatever they want to do, and if they don%26#039;t want to come back they don%26#039;t have to. if he doesn%26#039;t chose to be there for the kid, than don%26#039;t make him it will just make things worse.
Tell him it%26#039;s his baby whether he likes it or not. I would also add that if this girl sees him treating you like this, she%26#039;s going to wise up with a quickness and their relationship won%26#039;t last very long. His daughter should be #1 in his life.
Personally I would tell him to get lost until he makes up his mind. It would be terrible if he kept popping in and out of her life once she was here!! He needs to make up his mind BEFORE you have her!
he%26#039;s not a great guy. either they want to be with you or not. my sisters is 19 and her boyfriend has been there with her from day one. he even asked her to marry him and he%26#039;s going to school and getting all the things together for their baby. i don%26#039;t know how old you guys are but there is no excuse for him to be with someone else and leave you when you need him the most. i know that%26#039;s not what you want to hear, but you don%26#039;t have to put up with that. don%26#039;t even worry about him. you only priority is your precious baby.
Babies father keeps changing his mind?
Tell him he can%26#039;t go back and forth once she is born, because you won%26#039;t put up with it. It%26#039;s no good for the child.
It%26#039;s not your job to make him be a dad...not matter how bad you may want him in yours or her life. I know that you might think that him being in her life is the best thing for her....but that is not necessarily true. If he comes in and out of her life the way he%26#039;s doing during the pregnancy, she is better off without him. It is too hard on a child to have a parent come and go, appear and disappear on them. It hurts them more than the parent not being there at all...because when the parent comes and goes, they are leaving that child over and over again. If they leave once....the child doesn%26#039;t have to go through the hurt and emotions from them leaving, repeatedly.
Be strong, pray, and make sure to surround your baby with love! If here father doesn%26#039;t want to participate, you can%26#039;t make him-and you shouldn%26#039;t. You will have way to many things to do in your life without adding the job of making him be a daddy!
Babies father keeps changing his mind?
Marry me?
This is a classic example of why marriage should come first THEN babies!
Dont tell him anything. Go to the childrens revenue office and get child support for one. You%26#039;re not going to be able to talk this guy into anything. You should let him see the baby and have him at the hospital, he%26#039;s probably scared and has this girl in his ear trying to keep him away because she%26#039;s jealous that you%26#039;re having his baby. When he sees that little girl i%26#039;m sure it will all change..
how old is he?
you don%26#039;t want him in the baby%26#039;s life if he doesn%26#039;t want to be there or has any questions. He may end up resenting the baby and she%26#039;ll see that and it won%26#039;t be good for her. Tell him to bugger off until he makes up his mind. Don%26#039;t do that to your precious baby. She doesn%26#039;t need to ever feel that her daddy doesn%26#039;t love her
I would tell him %26quot;I will make the decision for you. You are not going to be in her life and I will see you in court for child support and medical bills, loser.%26quot;
there is no reason to be bitchy like the other girl who responded
what you need to do is kick him to the curb honey
i had my son who is almost two now when i was 15
i did it without his father but with help from my family
you can do this
and ignore any negative responses
they have no idea what they are talking about
i go to church and belive in god and still got pregnant at 15
so tell them to shove it!
you will do whats best for you and your baby
its in a mothers DNA
I agree, he needs to be involved but you can%26#039;t force it. Make sure that a DNA test is done right away because next his new gf will be convincing him that it%26#039;s not his baby. Besides you%26#039;ll need the proof to be sure he pays child support....Good Luck!
if he doesn%26#039;t want to be involved with his children, well sorry to say that but i don%26#039;t think you can do anything about it!!!!! and please don%26#039;t have more babies with such an a$$holes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck
Dont let him do that to you if he doesn%26#039;t want to be there FULL time all the time, then screw him. Get him for child support and live your life with your baby the way you want.
Therer is nothing you can do to convince him to be involve but that doesn%26#039;t mean that he should get away without helping support your baby. Maybe when she is here and he sees her he will come around. It just isn%26#039;t real enough for him yet.
Id try and not worry to much about him until after the baby arrives then if he Still isn%26#039;t interested in playing a part in your child%26#039;s life go and see social services.
Good luck
i would just wait and see what he does after he sees her his gf is jealous that your having his baby and not her. he doesent want to be there then go get childsupport.
This guy is pulling you along... You don%26#039;t need him. As long as supports the baby emotionally and financially that%26#039;s all that matters. If he%26#039;s being wishy-washy you don%26#039;t need him in your life anyway. That%26#039;ll do nothing but stress you out during your pregnancy.
nothing, if he doesn%26#039;t want to be involved that%26#039;s his own problem, maybe then the kid and you are better off without him in you lives. a man shouldn%26#039;t be able to pick and chose when he wants to be there for the kid, but the sad truth is, they don%26#039;t have to worry about leaving their family, we do. we are stuck taking care of the kids while they go out and do whatever they want to do, and if they don%26#039;t want to come back they don%26#039;t have to. if he doesn%26#039;t chose to be there for the kid, than don%26#039;t make him it will just make things worse.
Tell him it%26#039;s his baby whether he likes it or not. I would also add that if this girl sees him treating you like this, she%26#039;s going to wise up with a quickness and their relationship won%26#039;t last very long. His daughter should be #1 in his life.
Personally I would tell him to get lost until he makes up his mind. It would be terrible if he kept popping in and out of her life once she was here!! He needs to make up his mind BEFORE you have her!
he%26#039;s not a great guy. either they want to be with you or not. my sisters is 19 and her boyfriend has been there with her from day one. he even asked her to marry him and he%26#039;s going to school and getting all the things together for their baby. i don%26#039;t know how old you guys are but there is no excuse for him to be with someone else and leave you when you need him the most. i know that%26#039;s not what you want to hear, but you don%26#039;t have to put up with that. don%26#039;t even worry about him. you only priority is your precious baby.
Dean dime from hell or gibson bfg? i play rock/metal and use effects pedals(i don't mind changing pickups)
Please answer with the aesthetics in mind too.
Dean dime from hell or gibson bfg? i play rock/metal and use effects pedals(i don't mind changing pickups)
Dean sucks. It's a completely different company vs back in Dime's day. They spend an awful lot of time exploiting his name, though!
You should always consider sound before looks.... but in this case you get the best of both worlds... Gibson!
It%26quot;s not that i'm against inexpensive guitars... I'm just against cheap guitars.
It's possible to take an Epiphone and replace pickups, etc and have it sound just about as good as any Gibson... but the Gibson will still be made, on average, with better wood, better construction techniques, etc.
Saul
Dean dime from hell or gibson bfg? i play rock/metal and use effects pedals(i don't mind changing pickups)
Dean Dime if your a hard rocker like me!!!
But i have a les paul
Dean dime from hell or gibson bfg? i play rock/metal and use effects pedals(i don't mind changing pickups)
Dean sucks. It's a completely different company vs back in Dime's day. They spend an awful lot of time exploiting his name, though!
You should always consider sound before looks.... but in this case you get the best of both worlds... Gibson!
It%26quot;s not that i'm against inexpensive guitars... I'm just against cheap guitars.
It's possible to take an Epiphone and replace pickups, etc and have it sound just about as good as any Gibson... but the Gibson will still be made, on average, with better wood, better construction techniques, etc.
Saul
Dean dime from hell or gibson bfg? i play rock/metal and use effects pedals(i don't mind changing pickups)
Dean Dime if your a hard rocker like me!!!
But i have a les paul
If "not even the Son of man knows when he shall return", did he end up changing his mind ?
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If %26quot;not even the Son of man knows when he shall return%26quot;, did he end up changing his mind ?
If you want the correct answer I advise you to pray about it! Not the answer you want huh? :)
If %26quot;not even the Son of man knows when he shall return%26quot;, did he end up changing his mind ?
Only God, the Father knows when. The son, being a separate being, knows he will return, he is just waiting for the Father to say when.
He never changed his mind. He he never said he is the son of GOD himself before!
Its the preachers and bible thumpers that put the words in his mouth. By doing this they not only commit blasphemy but also ridicule Jesus who never ever said in the bible that he was the son of God or was god himself.
May the Almighty guide un to the straight path and protect us from the whisperings of Satan the accursed.
No he did not change his mind because he wouldn't lie or break a promise and he clearly stated only the father knows so that is the way it will stay.
Matthew 26:62-64 (NIV)
62Then the high priest stood up and said to Jesus, %26quot;Are you not going to answer? What is this testimony that these men are bringing against you?%26quot; 63But Jesus remained silent.
The high priest said to him, %26quot;I charge you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Christ,[a] the Son of God.%26quot;
64%26quot;Yes, it is as you say,%26quot; Jesus replied. %26quot;But I say to all of you: In the future you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven.%26quot;
I was given a $100 deposit on a leather sectional Im selling. Buyer changed mind and wants $ back. Should I?
She gave me $100 to save the sectional for her until she could arrange for it to be picked up. Two days later she found a different sectional and wants her money back promising to give me something for my troubles. Meanwhile Ive turned away interested buyers. Nothing was in writing. Should I refund her deposit?
I was given a $100 deposit on a leather sectional Im selling. Buyer changed mind and wants $ back. Should I?
I tend to agree with the board, no.
However, if you wanted to be nice. You could tell her no, but, if the couch sells within the week without a problem, I'll consider refunding you $xx amount.
I'm not sure how you posted the couch, but advertising is not free. If you had to repost your couch, thats time and money too.
Also, if you tell her No, but that you'll consider refunding a portion of her deposit if you don't have any problems relisting and selling it. She might go away and leave you alone, and then when the couch hasn't sold in a two weeks, she might feel bad that she aided to that, and leave you alone too.
I think that its sweet that you're trying to do the right thing, you putting up the post shows that you're a nice guy. But even nice guys need to draw a line.
Good luck.
I was given a $100 deposit on a leather sectional Im selling. Buyer changed mind and wants $ back. Should I?
what deposit? She left money in earnest for a couch then changed her mind? I would say that the mind change just cost her to the tune of $100. tell her to be grateful she did not put 200 down %26quot;as a holding deposit%26quot;.
She paid you to hold it. You held it. She decided after paying you that she had buyers remorse and wants her $$ back?
Sorry charlie. No refunds, no exchanges. Nothing in writing either?
What deposit? give the money to the person who WANTS to buy your sectional------for now you can afford to knock 100 bux off the price!
What deposit? I dont see any deposit?-
A deposit is a guarantee that they will be back to get the item. If they change their mind the deposit is lost.
But that being said, if it was someone you know, you may want to settle on a smaller amount so that you dont cause problems with them down the road.
If it were me, and they were not a stranger, i would inform them of the definition of a deposit... and offer to sell the item to them again, upholding your end of the deposit. If they still refuse to buy it.. the deposit covers the lack of sale period that they caused you.get time from datetime get time from datetime
I was given a $100 deposit on a leather sectional Im selling. Buyer changed mind and wants $ back. Should I?
I tend to agree with the board, no.
However, if you wanted to be nice. You could tell her no, but, if the couch sells within the week without a problem, I'll consider refunding you $xx amount.
I'm not sure how you posted the couch, but advertising is not free. If you had to repost your couch, thats time and money too.
Also, if you tell her No, but that you'll consider refunding a portion of her deposit if you don't have any problems relisting and selling it. She might go away and leave you alone, and then when the couch hasn't sold in a two weeks, she might feel bad that she aided to that, and leave you alone too.
I think that its sweet that you're trying to do the right thing, you putting up the post shows that you're a nice guy. But even nice guys need to draw a line.
Good luck.
I was given a $100 deposit on a leather sectional Im selling. Buyer changed mind and wants $ back. Should I?
what deposit? She left money in earnest for a couch then changed her mind? I would say that the mind change just cost her to the tune of $100. tell her to be grateful she did not put 200 down %26quot;as a holding deposit%26quot;.
She paid you to hold it. You held it. She decided after paying you that she had buyers remorse and wants her $$ back?
Sorry charlie. No refunds, no exchanges. Nothing in writing either?
What deposit? give the money to the person who WANTS to buy your sectional------for now you can afford to knock 100 bux off the price!
What deposit? I dont see any deposit?-
A deposit is a guarantee that they will be back to get the item. If they change their mind the deposit is lost.
But that being said, if it was someone you know, you may want to settle on a smaller amount so that you dont cause problems with them down the road.
If it were me, and they were not a stranger, i would inform them of the definition of a deposit... and offer to sell the item to them again, upholding your end of the deposit. If they still refuse to buy it.. the deposit covers the lack of sale period that they caused you.
I'm ready for a baby, but my husband keeps changing his mind?
Me and my husband has been married to little over 2 yrs, and i am ready for a baby, we both talked about having a family before he deployed to guam,and desided that when i start working and my next ovulation date we will try for a baby , well after finding out i had a job he called his mom and told his mom and while talking about the baby situation my husband desided that he agrreed with his mom about us not having a baby, how sould i talk with him abotu this without sounding selfish?
I'm ready for a baby, but my husband keeps changing his mind?
Ultimately, it'd be wrong to bring a baby into an unwanted, unstable environment. However, I'm thinking that maybe it's just cold feet. Don't punish him - but you should really talk to him, I promise, it's not selfish. Remind him that it was something he wanted. And, as someone else here said, most men aren't fathers until they see their babies, whereas a woman can be a mother as soon as the idea is there. Good luck! Remember - COMMUNICATION!
I'm ready for a baby, but my husband keeps changing his mind?
oh it took my hubby about 5 years before i talked him into it. They just need to take their baby steps to fatherhood. I dont think that any of them are ready until they actually have the baby in their arms
His mom has no right to be included in this conversation. He said ok, I'd go with that. Stop the birth control and make him responsible. If he's the one with the issues, he should be the one taking care of the birth control issue.
Your not going to sound selfish, he knew you wanted kids before you got married, so either your going to have to tell him how your really feeling or deal with not havin kids.
his MOM?! he's married and he listens to his mom? please - unless he is a minor, you should tell him to be a man and make his own decisions and then discuss them with you - not someone else. it's unfair for him to discuss your personal matters with his mother and make decisions without you. if he is really young, however, you should consider that in your decision because he may chicken out if you had the baby %26amp; then go back with his mom %26amp; you'd be on your own. i would have to wait if it were me because he doesn't seem stable enough to do that yet and you don't want all of the responsibility to fall on you.
convice him about the joy it would be having that little person in his arms, looking up at him, and saying daddy. give him all the positive things of having a baby. and when the baby turns 5, going to kindergarten, not letting go of your hand, saying bye. and when school is over, having your child come running up to him and giving him a hug. he might say he's not ready, but all first time fathers aren't ready, the day they become ready for a baby, is the day he/she is concieved. i hope that helps!
We compromised, I wanted one before he did. I waited for a few milestones and he agreed before the rest of the %26quot;plans%26quot; were over with to start trying.
I was afraid at first too. Men are always afraid of when is the right time to have a baby. Especially if your husband is under 30. Both of my kids are grown now, and looking back, I don't regret a thing.
Marriages are meant for two people, his mother seems to not fit in the picture anymore marriages should have children
This decision should ultimately be made by the two of you only, but since he listened to his mom in this case it seems like maybe he was having doubts before that and she just confirmed it for him. Maybe he wants to have an active role in the childs early life so he wants to wait until after he gets back from Guam. Maybe he thinks you're both too young and he wants to live a little more first. Talk to him about it, ask him what his doubts are. Tell him this is something you want, but that you are also concerned about his feelings. Honesty is key to any good relationship. If you can't be honest about something so crucial, its going to be really tough to make it through a deloyment. I have seen many marriages torn apart by being so far apart for so long if the trust and honesty are not there. Do yourself and your marriage a favor by letting him know how you feel, but do it in a way that is also sympathetic to his feelings.
I'm ready for a baby, but my husband keeps changing his mind?
Ultimately, it'd be wrong to bring a baby into an unwanted, unstable environment. However, I'm thinking that maybe it's just cold feet. Don't punish him - but you should really talk to him, I promise, it's not selfish. Remind him that it was something he wanted. And, as someone else here said, most men aren't fathers until they see their babies, whereas a woman can be a mother as soon as the idea is there. Good luck! Remember - COMMUNICATION!
I'm ready for a baby, but my husband keeps changing his mind?
oh it took my hubby about 5 years before i talked him into it. They just need to take their baby steps to fatherhood. I dont think that any of them are ready until they actually have the baby in their arms
His mom has no right to be included in this conversation. He said ok, I'd go with that. Stop the birth control and make him responsible. If he's the one with the issues, he should be the one taking care of the birth control issue.
Your not going to sound selfish, he knew you wanted kids before you got married, so either your going to have to tell him how your really feeling or deal with not havin kids.
his MOM?! he's married and he listens to his mom? please - unless he is a minor, you should tell him to be a man and make his own decisions and then discuss them with you - not someone else. it's unfair for him to discuss your personal matters with his mother and make decisions without you. if he is really young, however, you should consider that in your decision because he may chicken out if you had the baby %26amp; then go back with his mom %26amp; you'd be on your own. i would have to wait if it were me because he doesn't seem stable enough to do that yet and you don't want all of the responsibility to fall on you.
convice him about the joy it would be having that little person in his arms, looking up at him, and saying daddy. give him all the positive things of having a baby. and when the baby turns 5, going to kindergarten, not letting go of your hand, saying bye. and when school is over, having your child come running up to him and giving him a hug. he might say he's not ready, but all first time fathers aren't ready, the day they become ready for a baby, is the day he/she is concieved. i hope that helps!
We compromised, I wanted one before he did. I waited for a few milestones and he agreed before the rest of the %26quot;plans%26quot; were over with to start trying.
I was afraid at first too. Men are always afraid of when is the right time to have a baby. Especially if your husband is under 30. Both of my kids are grown now, and looking back, I don't regret a thing.
Marriages are meant for two people, his mother seems to not fit in the picture anymore marriages should have children
This decision should ultimately be made by the two of you only, but since he listened to his mom in this case it seems like maybe he was having doubts before that and she just confirmed it for him. Maybe he wants to have an active role in the childs early life so he wants to wait until after he gets back from Guam. Maybe he thinks you're both too young and he wants to live a little more first. Talk to him about it, ask him what his doubts are. Tell him this is something you want, but that you are also concerned about his feelings. Honesty is key to any good relationship. If you can't be honest about something so crucial, its going to be really tough to make it through a deloyment. I have seen many marriages torn apart by being so far apart for so long if the trust and honesty are not there. Do yourself and your marriage a favor by letting him know how you feel, but do it in a way that is also sympathetic to his feelings.
ANY KNOW A SONG ABOUT TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THEN CHANGING YOUR MIND CUZ YOU MET THE REAL THEM?
Stop yelling. Calm down.
ANY KNOW A SONG ABOUT TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THEN CHANGING YOUR MIND CUZ YOU MET THE REAL THEM?
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ANY KNOW A SONG ABOUT TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THEN CHANGING YOUR MIND CUZ YOU MET THE REAL THEM?
all my life ... %26lt;%26lt;search it on youtube
answer my question to please =)
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Get me out of here - Esmee Denters.
ANY KNOW A SONG ABOUT TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THEN CHANGING YOUR MIND CUZ YOU MET THE REAL THEM?
English, Por Favor
ANY KNOW A SONG ABOUT TELLING SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM THEN CHANGING YOUR MIND CUZ YOU MET THE REAL THEM?
all my life ... %26lt;%26lt;search it on youtube
answer my question to please =)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Get me out of here - Esmee Denters.
How do women feel, when they have first sex? And how will their mind change after having sex for the first tim?
If the girl is virgin, how do they feel when they break their virgin? Will they feel pleasure? Orgasm? Will they like to have sex for the next time after having for the first time? How will their mind change after breaking their virgin?
How do women feel, when they have first sex? And how will their mind change after having sex for the first tim?
For me, it hurt a lot. But it's the kind of pain that usually women don't mind, because the whole experience is so truly amazing. The woman's partner needs to go really slow on the entrance so it won't hurt her as much, and be very caring with lots of foreplay.
How do women feel, when they have first sex? And how will their mind change after having sex for the first tim?
It depends on the person and how their body is.
good luck and no stressing!
From my and any other women I know.... while being a virgin the foreplay is the greatest but having sex was a VERY painful experience... and of course no one told me to watch the soap in the shower because of the burn or to lean forward when I peed..... if I knew then what I know now.... :)
I did it like this and sex my first time didn't hurt at all. If you have your guy finger you a little bit using about three or four fingers it won't hurt as bad
if its fast they will orgasm. but only if horny.
How do women feel, when they have first sex? And how will their mind change after having sex for the first tim?
For me, it hurt a lot. But it's the kind of pain that usually women don't mind, because the whole experience is so truly amazing. The woman's partner needs to go really slow on the entrance so it won't hurt her as much, and be very caring with lots of foreplay.
How do women feel, when they have first sex? And how will their mind change after having sex for the first tim?
It depends on the person and how their body is.
good luck and no stressing!
From my and any other women I know.... while being a virgin the foreplay is the greatest but having sex was a VERY painful experience... and of course no one told me to watch the soap in the shower because of the burn or to lean forward when I peed..... if I knew then what I know now.... :)
I did it like this and sex my first time didn't hurt at all. If you have your guy finger you a little bit using about three or four fingers it won't hurt as bad
if its fast they will orgasm. but only if horny.
An Athieist changing his mind, is this possible? I found new proof of a possibility of Gods existence.?
Quantum mechanics is showing us possibility in almost anything, including other universes. Could it be that something could exist outside of our universe and effect our universe? We would have no way of knowing what that thing is of course, but the concept is still there. It would have to be operating on a whole different line of physics as well, so as not to be part of our universe. Just a thought :)
An Athieist changing his mind, is this possible? I found new proof of a possibility of Gods existence.?
Even if that were true (not saying it isn't), I don't think that it would constitute a god figure because we would probably have a similar effect on other universes and that would put us on the same plane as a god figure.
An Athieist changing his mind, is this possible? I found new proof of a possibility of Gods existence.?
i am happy for you to rediscover finding a stronger more powerful being than ourselves someone who you can look to through faith and guidance.i don't profess G-d to have all the answers that make sense.but i do believe we are loved by G-d even where things don't make sense.good for you for taking th
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You misunderstand quantum mechanics if you really think it says anything about a deity.
but something would still have to create that being so it would just esetially be a god like alien
I think a god is only a god if nothing created him her it
otherwise its just essenially a higher form of life
in the same way we are a higher form of life than ants but being higher thn ants doesnt make us gods
Lol, Proof of the possibility?!
Have you ever heard of the butterfly effect? I think that has something to do with our universe vs others. I know there's something beyond the beyond, but who knows if we are in any way connected.
It's possible, but what you've described is hypernatural, not supernatural.
There's quite a bit of difference.
If you have testable proof of course.
So what?
I f you can draw a conclusion between parallel universes and evidence for god ill convert myself.
I love it when former Atheists convert to a non-Christian religion.
And really you're talking apples and oranges here. You say you found proof of God's existence...oh and by the way you'll finish your thought with, %26quot;And don't you want to be a Christian now?%26quot;
Prove God's existence but don't try to convert others to a religion in the process...You lose credibility then.
You don't have to be a Christian to believe in God.
Believe in whatever you want, just make sure you educate yourself.
Yes it is possible. As an Atheist myself i havn't found any proof of the existence of god that is believable to me so i am sticking to Atheism. But if you have found some proof then it is very possible and you should follow your beliefs.
Okay, if you want the unknown to be inhabited by a grouchy old wanker like God, then go ahead and think so... but there is no reason to think it's true.
%26lt;sigh%26gt;
It COULD be, but the onus is still on you to demonstrate that (1) it DID happen, (2) that it was caused by a god or gods, and (3) that the parties responsible bear any resemblance to the deities described in your scripture of choice.
Just as possible as a theist becoming an atheist
The universe is defined as everything known of. If we discover something else it would still be considered part of the universe.
By definition, the universe can not interact with anything outside itself. That is sort of what universe means!
Which is why one of the standard theist 'cop outs' the claim that god 'exists outside of time and space and so is not bound by physical laws' does not hold water.
QED and QM are fascinating areas, but are part of natural physics, not blanket confirmation of the preternatural! And most people who go on about them do not understand them.
Heres a hint: If you can just as easily substitute a giant cosmic leprechaun fart in, instead of god, then it isn't evidence:P lol
Sorry, I missed the part where you provided proof of God. All I saw the scientific ideas of another universe. I'm not sure how this equals; There must be a God!
Humans no longer credit anything we don't understand to deities. We stopped doing that after the dark ages.
that doesn't get you anywhere, all you have said is %26quot;essentially anything is possible, therefore you can't rule out god%26quot;. well sure it's possible, maybe there really is a god it is a non-zero probability. but the key word here is probability not possibility.
it doesn't matter if something is possible. it's possible that i will the lottery every weekend for the rest of my life, it's possible that megan fox will burst through my door any second now, it's possible that there is a planet somewhere in the universe populated by pink leprechauns on pogo sticks. the real question is are any of these things at all likely? well no, and neither is a god.
saying there is reason to think that there is a non-zero probability of a god existing is not a reason to think one does.
We are the believers in miracles and a super natural, all powerful God.
So, yes an atheist can change his spots (I mean mind ;~) )
Sure an Atheist can change their mind.
I once did not like sour cream on my baked potato. Now I do.
new proof of a possibility?
I want proof of proof
Is that a question? Putting a question mark after a statement or %26quot;is this possible%26quot; does not make a statement a question. Ask something real or start a blog.
Athieists are probably the most stabborn religious people on earth! so let time convince them better.
http://www.rc.net/wcc/parable7.htm
I think this one has a lot to do with our brothers and sisters of the world today.
%26quot;The Sower and the Seeds%26quot;.
How about we stop dealing in %26quot;could be%26quot; and start dealing with what we know exists?
yes indeed god is real
Sure, it could be possible that there is a superuniverse that affects ours. And one that affects that one. And one affecting that one. What we call god might just be some other god's puppet.
You see, when you have poorly defined concepts such as gods then you are open to widely variant descriptions of what they might be. And, in the end, the concept that something is possible still does not mean it is probable or existent.
Read up on String Theory and Super String Theory.
Again, there is no evidence of a god or gods.
Perhaps you should read up on Anthony Flew, who was a former atheist who became a theist. He might give you some ideas.
An Athieist changing his mind, is this possible? I found new proof of a possibility of Gods existence.?
Even if that were true (not saying it isn't), I don't think that it would constitute a god figure because we would probably have a similar effect on other universes and that would put us on the same plane as a god figure.
An Athieist changing his mind, is this possible? I found new proof of a possibility of Gods existence.?
i am happy for you to rediscover finding a stronger more powerful being than ourselves someone who you can look to through faith and guidance.i don't profess G-d to have all the answers that make sense.but i do believe we are loved by G-d even where things don't make sense.good for you for taking th
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You misunderstand quantum mechanics if you really think it says anything about a deity.
but something would still have to create that being so it would just esetially be a god like alien
I think a god is only a god if nothing created him her it
otherwise its just essenially a higher form of life
in the same way we are a higher form of life than ants but being higher thn ants doesnt make us gods
Lol, Proof of the possibility?!
Have you ever heard of the butterfly effect? I think that has something to do with our universe vs others. I know there's something beyond the beyond, but who knows if we are in any way connected.
It's possible, but what you've described is hypernatural, not supernatural.
There's quite a bit of difference.
If you have testable proof of course.
So what?
I f you can draw a conclusion between parallel universes and evidence for god ill convert myself.
I love it when former Atheists convert to a non-Christian religion.
And really you're talking apples and oranges here. You say you found proof of God's existence...oh and by the way you'll finish your thought with, %26quot;And don't you want to be a Christian now?%26quot;
Prove God's existence but don't try to convert others to a religion in the process...You lose credibility then.
You don't have to be a Christian to believe in God.
Believe in whatever you want, just make sure you educate yourself.
Yes it is possible. As an Atheist myself i havn't found any proof of the existence of god that is believable to me so i am sticking to Atheism. But if you have found some proof then it is very possible and you should follow your beliefs.
Okay, if you want the unknown to be inhabited by a grouchy old wanker like God, then go ahead and think so... but there is no reason to think it's true.
%26lt;sigh%26gt;
It COULD be, but the onus is still on you to demonstrate that (1) it DID happen, (2) that it was caused by a god or gods, and (3) that the parties responsible bear any resemblance to the deities described in your scripture of choice.
Just as possible as a theist becoming an atheist
The universe is defined as everything known of. If we discover something else it would still be considered part of the universe.
By definition, the universe can not interact with anything outside itself. That is sort of what universe means!
Which is why one of the standard theist 'cop outs' the claim that god 'exists outside of time and space and so is not bound by physical laws' does not hold water.
QED and QM are fascinating areas, but are part of natural physics, not blanket confirmation of the preternatural! And most people who go on about them do not understand them.
Heres a hint: If you can just as easily substitute a giant cosmic leprechaun fart in, instead of god, then it isn't evidence:P lol
Sorry, I missed the part where you provided proof of God. All I saw the scientific ideas of another universe. I'm not sure how this equals; There must be a God!
Humans no longer credit anything we don't understand to deities. We stopped doing that after the dark ages.
that doesn't get you anywhere, all you have said is %26quot;essentially anything is possible, therefore you can't rule out god%26quot;. well sure it's possible, maybe there really is a god it is a non-zero probability. but the key word here is probability not possibility.
it doesn't matter if something is possible. it's possible that i will the lottery every weekend for the rest of my life, it's possible that megan fox will burst through my door any second now, it's possible that there is a planet somewhere in the universe populated by pink leprechauns on pogo sticks. the real question is are any of these things at all likely? well no, and neither is a god.
saying there is reason to think that there is a non-zero probability of a god existing is not a reason to think one does.
We are the believers in miracles and a super natural, all powerful God.
So, yes an atheist can change his spots (I mean mind ;~) )
Sure an Atheist can change their mind.
I once did not like sour cream on my baked potato. Now I do.
new proof of a possibility?
I want proof of proof
Is that a question? Putting a question mark after a statement or %26quot;is this possible%26quot; does not make a statement a question. Ask something real or start a blog.
Athieists are probably the most stabborn religious people on earth! so let time convince them better.
http://www.rc.net/wcc/parable7.htm
I think this one has a lot to do with our brothers and sisters of the world today.
%26quot;The Sower and the Seeds%26quot;.
How about we stop dealing in %26quot;could be%26quot; and start dealing with what we know exists?
yes indeed god is real
Sure, it could be possible that there is a superuniverse that affects ours. And one that affects that one. And one affecting that one. What we call god might just be some other god's puppet.
You see, when you have poorly defined concepts such as gods then you are open to widely variant descriptions of what they might be. And, in the end, the concept that something is possible still does not mean it is probable or existent.
Read up on String Theory and Super String Theory.
Again, there is no evidence of a god or gods.
Perhaps you should read up on Anthony Flew, who was a former atheist who became a theist. He might give you some ideas.
Mental illness in someone who radically and constantly changes their mind?
or would it just be a personality trait? the person who does this also has ADD. he seems to jump into big decisions quickly without thinking about them, thinks unrealistically a lot of the time, and radically and constantly is changing his mind about anything and everything.
does this sound like any type of disorder or illness or the symptoms of one, or just plain ole' personality traits?
Mental illness in someone who radically and constantly changes their mind?
Well, 'ADD' as you call it, would be the cause of the fickleness in decision making. Generally people who are incapable of staying focused on a subject are incapable of being aware of the situation to an extent where a proper decision can be made. The confused mind is one that chooses. When the mind sees something clearly, there is no choice. If i am walking in the woods and there is a cliff in front of me, i dont have to choose whether not to step to my death, i see it quite clearly. there is no choice. Only the confused mind chooses... inability to see something clearly is at the root of your friends fickle mind.; a lack of awareness, or in ability to pay attention long enough to see. True change in the mind can only comes about with a passive awareness, unhindered by thought, cause then you can see something with a fresh mind.
Mental illness in someone who radically and constantly changes their mind?
to me, it sounds like it good be anything, this sounds like something written in a psychiatry book.dog drivers for wow
does this sound like any type of disorder or illness or the symptoms of one, or just plain ole' personality traits?
Mental illness in someone who radically and constantly changes their mind?
Well, 'ADD' as you call it, would be the cause of the fickleness in decision making. Generally people who are incapable of staying focused on a subject are incapable of being aware of the situation to an extent where a proper decision can be made. The confused mind is one that chooses. When the mind sees something clearly, there is no choice. If i am walking in the woods and there is a cliff in front of me, i dont have to choose whether not to step to my death, i see it quite clearly. there is no choice. Only the confused mind chooses... inability to see something clearly is at the root of your friends fickle mind.; a lack of awareness, or in ability to pay attention long enough to see. True change in the mind can only comes about with a passive awareness, unhindered by thought, cause then you can see something with a fresh mind.
Mental illness in someone who radically and constantly changes their mind?
to me, it sounds like it good be anything, this sounds like something written in a psychiatry book.
What is going through this guys head??? He seems to always be changing his mind about me.?
This redneck asked for my number last night, so I gave it to him. He started two conversations in the past day, but when I tried starting the convo, he only said %26quot;hi%26quot; and then stopped replying. Whats going on and what is he thinking?
What is going through this guys head??? He seems to always be changing his mind about me.?
He either got bored with you, or he was busy.
Not worth pursuing....
If you like him, wait for him to get at you, but you'd probably be better off finding someone else.
What is going through this guys head??? He seems to always be changing his mind about me.?
He either got bored with you, or he was busy.
Not worth pursuing....
If you like him, wait for him to get at you, but you'd probably be better off finding someone else.
Does changing the body physically, change the mind?
ie if workout tonnes and get an %26quot;angry%26quot; haircut, will it me a more aggressive person?
if i dress neat and tidy and get a cute comb-over, will it help my mind become alittle more tidy?
coz i noticed on the days i wear an all black outfit, with even a black tie... i get really moody and grumpy, but on the days i wear colour, even if its just my underpants i feel better?
oh maybe this is just me being silly again...
ahhh i gotta study %26gt;.%26lt;
Does changing the body physically, change the mind?
Yes, its true, our body image reflects how we feel and therefore have and affect on our behavior. As for the colors, some colors have been known to have some sort of effect on our moods.
There are even folkloric remedies that use color. One of them is fung shuai. It is believed that the color red brings along prosperity, while other colors like white brings along health. Not only in the spiritual sense, but emotionally as well.
So dress up to alter your grumpy moods, and tone it down a little when you feel your emotions are off the roof ;)
Good luck
Does changing the body physically, change the mind?
You are correct. Old saying- dress for success.
obviously ur r getting silly
but its all about thinking
if u think its like this it will be
yeah it is proved that colors effect moods but asi say it all depends on ur thinking
that makes total sense.
Its the same for me, when i wear colours i'm happier, but when i wear black i feel a bit depressed.
but that's only a mind thing, if you don't focus on it it won't affect you.
I think you're right, everything's energy - however sublte. The energy of colour can impact on emotions. I do want to clarify that (for me at least) it is SUBTLE. I can be just as furious wearing sky blue as I can in angry red. Just as depressed and stressed in powder pink as in black.
Yes, changing the body physically definitely brings a change in the mind.
ofcourse how you appear on the outside will effect how you feels. its called self-worth.
you can trick your mind into thinking your something that you are perhaps not.
Black attracts attention including all those bad vibes floating around.
Libido vs. Mortido, our body's are the emotional center and sends the messages to other aprts as relavant to the circumstances. And in a reverse sense the mind tries to controll a reaction to the message and when there is not solution then we have an %26quot;Inner Conflict!%26quot;
if i dress neat and tidy and get a cute comb-over, will it help my mind become alittle more tidy?
coz i noticed on the days i wear an all black outfit, with even a black tie... i get really moody and grumpy, but on the days i wear colour, even if its just my underpants i feel better?
oh maybe this is just me being silly again...
ahhh i gotta study %26gt;.%26lt;
Does changing the body physically, change the mind?
Yes, its true, our body image reflects how we feel and therefore have and affect on our behavior. As for the colors, some colors have been known to have some sort of effect on our moods.
There are even folkloric remedies that use color. One of them is fung shuai. It is believed that the color red brings along prosperity, while other colors like white brings along health. Not only in the spiritual sense, but emotionally as well.
So dress up to alter your grumpy moods, and tone it down a little when you feel your emotions are off the roof ;)
Good luck
Does changing the body physically, change the mind?
You are correct. Old saying- dress for success.
obviously ur r getting silly
but its all about thinking
if u think its like this it will be
yeah it is proved that colors effect moods but asi say it all depends on ur thinking
that makes total sense.
Its the same for me, when i wear colours i'm happier, but when i wear black i feel a bit depressed.
but that's only a mind thing, if you don't focus on it it won't affect you.
I think you're right, everything's energy - however sublte. The energy of colour can impact on emotions. I do want to clarify that (for me at least) it is SUBTLE. I can be just as furious wearing sky blue as I can in angry red. Just as depressed and stressed in powder pink as in black.
Yes, changing the body physically definitely brings a change in the mind.
ofcourse how you appear on the outside will effect how you feels. its called self-worth.
you can trick your mind into thinking your something that you are perhaps not.
Black attracts attention including all those bad vibes floating around.
Libido vs. Mortido, our body's are the emotional center and sends the messages to other aprts as relavant to the circumstances. And in a reverse sense the mind tries to controll a reaction to the message and when there is not solution then we have an %26quot;Inner Conflict!%26quot;
What can make my mother change her mind ?
moving into a new home the walls in my room r pink and i so dont want that color on my walls and my mother keeps saying that the color is cute and they r going to stay that color b cuz we r not changing them.so any ideas on getting her to change her mind.
What can make my mother change her mind ?
Idea #1: If your birthday is coming up, ask for paint (using suggestions previously mentioned) for your room.
Idea #2: Look at %26quot;oops%26quot; paint at Lowe's or Home Depot. Gallons are usually sold for about $5.00 each. Point out a color you like to your mom when you are there . It is paint people have mixed and they don't like it or it doesn't match what they thought it would.
Idea #3: Offer to keep one wall pink and use a complimentary or neutral color on the other three walls. Find a comforter or bedspread that picks up a bit of the pink but incorporates the colors you like.
Idea #4: Find out about sponging a color (you like) over the pink (your mom likes) as a compromise.
What can make my mother change her mind ?
Maybe if u offer to paint them and suggest to her what u want.
Offer to paint it yourself. Pick a nice neutral color (warm buff) that you can both agree on , and point out how inexpensive it is to do. Plus it will boost the value of the home if the walls aren't PINK!!
Please don't pick white, it's almost as nauseating as pink.
go to lowes or a paint store or even wal-mart carries paint and get some different color paint samples and find out the prices of them and take them to your Mom and tell her these are what you like and explain to her it is your room and you will be spending alot of time in there and don't like the Pink color and tell her you will paint it and if you have money that you will pay for a gallon or 2 of paint your Self or you will work around the house to make the money for the paint.
I don't want to come between you and your mom, but pink really does give me headaches. If I am in a pink room for long periods of time, I actually get sick to my stomach (I am an adult women)
Keep in mind that your mom wants to keep you her sweet precious daughter. For us older women, pink means little girls with blue meaning little boys.
I would sit down with her and very calmly tell her that you have to live in that room and it really makes you uneasy. Ask if you can paint it white. White may not be your color, but it is better than pink. And it is a color a mom would go for.
Before you do anything, please read this link:
http://www.holisticonline.com/Color/colo鈥?/a>
just do it yourself while she's at work or something that way she can't say anything you did it by yourself!
Ugh. . . I know that feeling, as my room at my parents' was literally hot pink (a legacy from previous owners way back when having a hodgepodge of bright room colors in your house was the fashion) and then a lighter pink as a compromise to not having to put 3-4 coats of white paint on just to cover that up until I was into high school. And, however non-girly of me it may be to say this, I hate pink.
Definitely offer to help as much as you can, although I suspect part of your mother's reason for wanting to leave it as-is is that she likes the idea of your room being pink. Do you have much pink stuff at all? If yes, that may work against you a bit since she can justify it as having the walls match what you're putting in it.
My suggestion would be to point out that you're not going to be living there forever and that it might be better to go with something more neutral in case she wants to do something else with the room later or if they sell the house. . . and it's sooo much simpler to paint before there's a bunch of stuff in the room.
if the house is a rental house painting may not be an option. if this is the case perhaps new bed linens with a little of the pink shade and a lot of a color you do like would help.
if your mom is buying the house perhaps she doesn't have the money to paint just yet. you could make it easier on her by suggesting that for your birthday or christmas or whatever you get to have a bedroom make-over.
What can make my mother change her mind ?
Idea #1: If your birthday is coming up, ask for paint (using suggestions previously mentioned) for your room.
Idea #2: Look at %26quot;oops%26quot; paint at Lowe's or Home Depot. Gallons are usually sold for about $5.00 each. Point out a color you like to your mom when you are there . It is paint people have mixed and they don't like it or it doesn't match what they thought it would.
Idea #3: Offer to keep one wall pink and use a complimentary or neutral color on the other three walls. Find a comforter or bedspread that picks up a bit of the pink but incorporates the colors you like.
Idea #4: Find out about sponging a color (you like) over the pink (your mom likes) as a compromise.
What can make my mother change her mind ?
Maybe if u offer to paint them and suggest to her what u want.
Offer to paint it yourself. Pick a nice neutral color (warm buff) that you can both agree on , and point out how inexpensive it is to do. Plus it will boost the value of the home if the walls aren't PINK!!
Please don't pick white, it's almost as nauseating as pink.
go to lowes or a paint store or even wal-mart carries paint and get some different color paint samples and find out the prices of them and take them to your Mom and tell her these are what you like and explain to her it is your room and you will be spending alot of time in there and don't like the Pink color and tell her you will paint it and if you have money that you will pay for a gallon or 2 of paint your Self or you will work around the house to make the money for the paint.
I don't want to come between you and your mom, but pink really does give me headaches. If I am in a pink room for long periods of time, I actually get sick to my stomach (I am an adult women)
Keep in mind that your mom wants to keep you her sweet precious daughter. For us older women, pink means little girls with blue meaning little boys.
I would sit down with her and very calmly tell her that you have to live in that room and it really makes you uneasy. Ask if you can paint it white. White may not be your color, but it is better than pink. And it is a color a mom would go for.
Before you do anything, please read this link:
http://www.holisticonline.com/Color/colo鈥?/a>
just do it yourself while she's at work or something that way she can't say anything you did it by yourself!
Ugh. . . I know that feeling, as my room at my parents' was literally hot pink (a legacy from previous owners way back when having a hodgepodge of bright room colors in your house was the fashion) and then a lighter pink as a compromise to not having to put 3-4 coats of white paint on just to cover that up until I was into high school. And, however non-girly of me it may be to say this, I hate pink.
Definitely offer to help as much as you can, although I suspect part of your mother's reason for wanting to leave it as-is is that she likes the idea of your room being pink. Do you have much pink stuff at all? If yes, that may work against you a bit since she can justify it as having the walls match what you're putting in it.
My suggestion would be to point out that you're not going to be living there forever and that it might be better to go with something more neutral in case she wants to do something else with the room later or if they sell the house. . . and it's sooo much simpler to paint before there's a bunch of stuff in the room.
if the house is a rental house painting may not be an option. if this is the case perhaps new bed linens with a little of the pink shade and a lot of a color you do like would help.
if your mom is buying the house perhaps she doesn't have the money to paint just yet. you could make it easier on her by suggesting that for your birthday or christmas or whatever you get to have a bedroom make-over.
I used to think the McCanns were involved. Have the results from Metado 3 changed anyone elses mind?
I originally thought Murat was being framed and the McCanns did it. But with Metado 3 so close to finding the little girl now and all the new evidence against Murat and his Girlfriend i am changing my mind.
Am i right?
I used to think the McCanns were involved. Have the results from Metado 3 changed anyone elses mind?
I dunno, but I just wish they'd find her soon!
I used to think the McCanns were involved. Have the results from Metado 3 changed anyone elses mind?
the truth is out there.
Why do you think Metodo 3 are close to finding her? The fact that they would say that is, rather, evidence against it!
There is no new evidence against Murat or his girlfriend - her alibi is supported by witnesses
Until the Portuguese police start listening to what evidence they have gathered they are about as much use as a chocolate fireguard.
Who or what are %26quot;The McCanns%26quot; ?
Pie in the sky! I will believe they can find the little girl when they do. Til then its all sound bites for the media, rub Murat's name in the muck to divert attention from any other suspects, and pick up a nice fat check from the McCanns.
I never thought that the McCannes where involved. they wouldn`t be spending so much money on investigations
lol .... yeah right.
Funny how Metado 3 have managed to find ALL this evidence against Murat and his girlfriend yet the Portugese police, who have access to far better resources couldnt.
Also funny how the information this lot are getting are from people who have somehow had their head buried in the sand and now all of a sudden remember that they saw Murat looking suspicious 7 months down the line.
Give me a break ............. I tell you what. If metado 3 are so CERTAIN of finding Madeleine (they said they were 100% sure they will find her) why dont they say that if they dont find her within a year they will refund all money paid to them for the search. After all he is 100% certain, so it cant possibly be a loser right?
Lord give me strength. Metado 3 are just another bunch of charlatans who are fleecing the Fund while its still available.
What results from Methodo 3? All we have had so far is a load of spin. Has anything changed? They go in gung ho style in farms in Morocco because that makes headlines but there has been no results so far. Just a whopping bill of 2000 pounds sterling per day. They have to justify their expenses somehow and talking big seems to be all they have done as far as I am concerned.
I don't know, you don't know, none of us know yet so lets just wait and see.
hmmmmm, they always claim to be %26quot;so close%26quot; to finding her. I reckon it is just more mcspin....especially now that the others from the tapas9 could be looked at as suspects (that was the last I heard anyway)
I think so.
Ive never thought the McCanns were involved in the disappearance of Madeline.
Lets hope that whether its Metado 3, the Portuguese police or whoever, finds her, that Madeline is found alive and well.
Every newspaper says a different story every day, lets just hope whoever has her/had her, has not panicked with all the press/TV publicity.
Murat and his Girlfriend? Who knows? Lets wait and see.
Also, If Metado 3 are saying they are 100% sure they know who has got her, then why havent they got her back yet? Hurry up!
after watching the episode of panarama on bbc1 last week i still think that the parents had something to do with it. they either killed her or they know who has took her. in the programme even maddie's gran couldn't understand why they had left the kids on their own in the apartment. it also showed where the parent's where sitting that night in the bar and there is no way they could have seen their apartment from where they were sitting. in the paper today it is saying that the police are looking in to the possibility that they had sold her. as they have already dipped into the find the maddie fund to pay the mortgage on their house (twice). also in the uk there is pressure for the police to bring charges of neglect against maddie's parents in the star survey 86% wanted them prosecuted for it.
You honestly think Metodo is closer to finding Madeline?. I also think you believe that pigs can fly. Metodo is just doing the same as Clarence Mitchell - spin, spin, spin. Metodo is just re-hashing old news to suit their purposes. I'm sure they are unable to even find their own way home.
You are so wrong.
I don't believe the McCanns had anything to do with Maddy's disappearance. They were with friends who all had their children in their rooms and popped in from time to time to check on them. They thought they were safe. The Portuguese police don't care because it's not a Portuguese national who's missing, but a foreigner. Also I don't think they are very efficient! Who knows whether Metado 3 really has anything new. We have to wait and see. I just hope the little girl is alive and they get her back soon. It doesn't bear thinking about, what has happened to her.
I still the parents had something to do with it; Or at least know what did happen to her.
I wouldn't believe with a thing the McCanns allow to be said, i wouldn't trust that two to be honest at the pearly gates x
If Metodo 3 had a clue what they were doing, they wouldn't be announcing their findings to everyone. They are supposed to be private, but they aren't operating that way. I want to know how they've dug all this %26quot;evidence%26quot; up on Robert Murat and his girlfriend, when the police couldn't do it. If you look at their website, there's not one mention of finding missing persons, they're a financial company who specialise in fraud. I want Madeleine found as much as the next person, but this company is not the way to go. Two weeks ago, they were certain she was in Morocco. A week ago, it was Bosnia. Now it's Portugal. Telling everyone where they 'know' she is will only put the kidnapper on alert and drive them underground, or even panic them enough to kill her. They're playing Russian Roulette with her life, and it's wrong.
I dont think the parents had anything to do with her disappearence but I dont know about Murat either.We will have to wait and see.
GOSH--------another pro-McCann trying a different approach.Are we talking about the McCanns detective agency, the same one who was a 100% certain that the missing child was spotted in Morocco.the week before.Lets deal with hard facts-The Portuguese Police have stated that Madeline is dead---killed inside the holiday apartment.Now who do we believe-the Police-or a detective agency ,hired by the possible killers-an agency not even allowed into Portugal to investigate-------------hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hard one.And where is all this evidence against Murat coming from???Wow.its coming from the McCann camp,not the Police.THEY KILLED THAT CHILD AND SOONER THAN LATER THEY WILL PAY FOR IT
Dave's gonna be very cross with you! LOL
Dave:seen in the papers today they're working on a cure for OCD so there's hope for you yet. ;)
Don't hold your breath Metado 5 are known for promising much and achieving little !
who are the macanns
I have always suspected Robert Murat, even before he became a suspect. I have an apartment in Praia-Da-Luz, and Murat is well known there for being an %26quot;odd bod%26quot; People have been avoiding him for years, and when Maddie first went missing, most of the residents of the small town thought he was involved, and still do. He has been reported many times for hanging around the beach, and young children before, a fact that has never been mentioned, and he is also %26quot;banned%26quot; from going anywhere near his own children, another fact that has never been brought into the open, but he is half Portugese, and the Portugese police would rather the McCanns took the rap than one of their own.
I did read at the weekend, that a woman has come forward and told British police that he was stalking her, and her 4 year old daughter whilst she was on holiday a couple of years ago. She reported the incident to Portugese police at the time, but they ignored her. Now why am I not surprised?
cocojo, Why would a heart surgeon, and a family G.P. find the need to sell their child. Can't you lot see that it is more rubbish made up by the Portugese police, who are intent on pinning the blame on the McCanns.
I cannot believe the hatred towards these people, would they have gotten the same negative reaction off everyone if they had chosen to employ the baby listening services, who, incidentally, only stand at the door, and listen for crying children EVERY HALF AN HOUR. Less frequently, and less thouroughly than the McCanns, and their friends were checking the kid's?
The fees for metodo 3 are around 2,000 pounds per day, which will cost the fund 750k in the six months of the contract, so far, Metodo 3 have been 100% certain Madeleine was in Morroco, then Spain, then Boznia, now they are 100% certain she is being held by one of a list of 10 paedophiles, the list has already been checked by the Police of course, as were all of the other sightings reported, Metodo 3 are running a premium rate helpline service for the McCanns, who share the profits from calls made, they say they have 40 PI's on the case, but, they only employ 27 people.
They claim a 100% (that figure again) record of finding children, but will not provide a list of satisfied customers. The owners of the agency were all arrested for illegally tapping phones....
Metodo 3 are an embarrasment. IMHO.
I think a lot of people have quietened down with the smears and slurs against Madeleines parents since the Panorama programme and the reports that Michaela Walczuch's alibi doesn't hold water. She is banned from the JW church in Luz and has been for a year. Madeleine was abducted at the time that MW was supposed to be at a JW meeting. How very convenient. Yes of course, MW knows the times of the meetings. Yes she can say she was there, but Not one member of that Church has come forward to say, She was there. They have however come forward to say, %26quot;actually she's banned for being an adultress%26quot;..
I also read that another abduction was attemped before Madeleine was taken, at the same apartments. Both Robert Murat and Michaela walczuch were identified by a housekeeper as being in the vicinity at the time, and Michaela was seen on another occasion with Murat trying to open the shutters on the very same apartment 5A that Madeliene eventually stayed in, and was snatched from. They had planned this months in advance. It was all practiced and they have had their stories set in stone for months, who knows, maybe years. They are an odd couple and in fact, they are an odd threesome. Do not leave out Jose Antonio, Michaela's husband, who to me, looks like the photofit of the man seen walking away with Madeleine. He too is involved.
I still have very strong suspicions about John Hill. Hotel Manager who did not call the police quickly enough in my opinion. I can not get my head around why he did not call them immediately. He also allocates rooms. He allocated The McCanns that room. One of the most remote, easily accesible rooms on the complex.
Am i right?
I used to think the McCanns were involved. Have the results from Metado 3 changed anyone elses mind?
I dunno, but I just wish they'd find her soon!
I used to think the McCanns were involved. Have the results from Metado 3 changed anyone elses mind?
the truth is out there.
Why do you think Metodo 3 are close to finding her? The fact that they would say that is, rather, evidence against it!
There is no new evidence against Murat or his girlfriend - her alibi is supported by witnesses
Until the Portuguese police start listening to what evidence they have gathered they are about as much use as a chocolate fireguard.
Who or what are %26quot;The McCanns%26quot; ?
Pie in the sky! I will believe they can find the little girl when they do. Til then its all sound bites for the media, rub Murat's name in the muck to divert attention from any other suspects, and pick up a nice fat check from the McCanns.
I never thought that the McCannes where involved. they wouldn`t be spending so much money on investigations
lol .... yeah right.
Funny how Metado 3 have managed to find ALL this evidence against Murat and his girlfriend yet the Portugese police, who have access to far better resources couldnt.
Also funny how the information this lot are getting are from people who have somehow had their head buried in the sand and now all of a sudden remember that they saw Murat looking suspicious 7 months down the line.
Give me a break ............. I tell you what. If metado 3 are so CERTAIN of finding Madeleine (they said they were 100% sure they will find her) why dont they say that if they dont find her within a year they will refund all money paid to them for the search. After all he is 100% certain, so it cant possibly be a loser right?
Lord give me strength. Metado 3 are just another bunch of charlatans who are fleecing the Fund while its still available.
What results from Methodo 3? All we have had so far is a load of spin. Has anything changed? They go in gung ho style in farms in Morocco because that makes headlines but there has been no results so far. Just a whopping bill of 2000 pounds sterling per day. They have to justify their expenses somehow and talking big seems to be all they have done as far as I am concerned.
I don't know, you don't know, none of us know yet so lets just wait and see.
hmmmmm, they always claim to be %26quot;so close%26quot; to finding her. I reckon it is just more mcspin....especially now that the others from the tapas9 could be looked at as suspects (that was the last I heard anyway)
I think so.
Ive never thought the McCanns were involved in the disappearance of Madeline.
Lets hope that whether its Metado 3, the Portuguese police or whoever, finds her, that Madeline is found alive and well.
Every newspaper says a different story every day, lets just hope whoever has her/had her, has not panicked with all the press/TV publicity.
Murat and his Girlfriend? Who knows? Lets wait and see.
Also, If Metado 3 are saying they are 100% sure they know who has got her, then why havent they got her back yet? Hurry up!
after watching the episode of panarama on bbc1 last week i still think that the parents had something to do with it. they either killed her or they know who has took her. in the programme even maddie's gran couldn't understand why they had left the kids on their own in the apartment. it also showed where the parent's where sitting that night in the bar and there is no way they could have seen their apartment from where they were sitting. in the paper today it is saying that the police are looking in to the possibility that they had sold her. as they have already dipped into the find the maddie fund to pay the mortgage on their house (twice). also in the uk there is pressure for the police to bring charges of neglect against maddie's parents in the star survey 86% wanted them prosecuted for it.
You honestly think Metodo is closer to finding Madeline?. I also think you believe that pigs can fly. Metodo is just doing the same as Clarence Mitchell - spin, spin, spin. Metodo is just re-hashing old news to suit their purposes. I'm sure they are unable to even find their own way home.
You are so wrong.
I don't believe the McCanns had anything to do with Maddy's disappearance. They were with friends who all had their children in their rooms and popped in from time to time to check on them. They thought they were safe. The Portuguese police don't care because it's not a Portuguese national who's missing, but a foreigner. Also I don't think they are very efficient! Who knows whether Metado 3 really has anything new. We have to wait and see. I just hope the little girl is alive and they get her back soon. It doesn't bear thinking about, what has happened to her.
I still the parents had something to do with it; Or at least know what did happen to her.
I wouldn't believe with a thing the McCanns allow to be said, i wouldn't trust that two to be honest at the pearly gates x
If Metodo 3 had a clue what they were doing, they wouldn't be announcing their findings to everyone. They are supposed to be private, but they aren't operating that way. I want to know how they've dug all this %26quot;evidence%26quot; up on Robert Murat and his girlfriend, when the police couldn't do it. If you look at their website, there's not one mention of finding missing persons, they're a financial company who specialise in fraud. I want Madeleine found as much as the next person, but this company is not the way to go. Two weeks ago, they were certain she was in Morocco. A week ago, it was Bosnia. Now it's Portugal. Telling everyone where they 'know' she is will only put the kidnapper on alert and drive them underground, or even panic them enough to kill her. They're playing Russian Roulette with her life, and it's wrong.
I dont think the parents had anything to do with her disappearence but I dont know about Murat either.We will have to wait and see.
GOSH--------another pro-McCann trying a different approach.Are we talking about the McCanns detective agency, the same one who was a 100% certain that the missing child was spotted in Morocco.the week before.Lets deal with hard facts-The Portuguese Police have stated that Madeline is dead---killed inside the holiday apartment.Now who do we believe-the Police-or a detective agency ,hired by the possible killers-an agency not even allowed into Portugal to investigate-------------hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hard one.And where is all this evidence against Murat coming from???Wow.its coming from the McCann camp,not the Police.THEY KILLED THAT CHILD AND SOONER THAN LATER THEY WILL PAY FOR IT
Dave's gonna be very cross with you! LOL
Dave:seen in the papers today they're working on a cure for OCD so there's hope for you yet. ;)
Don't hold your breath Metado 5 are known for promising much and achieving little !
who are the macanns
I have always suspected Robert Murat, even before he became a suspect. I have an apartment in Praia-Da-Luz, and Murat is well known there for being an %26quot;odd bod%26quot; People have been avoiding him for years, and when Maddie first went missing, most of the residents of the small town thought he was involved, and still do. He has been reported many times for hanging around the beach, and young children before, a fact that has never been mentioned, and he is also %26quot;banned%26quot; from going anywhere near his own children, another fact that has never been brought into the open, but he is half Portugese, and the Portugese police would rather the McCanns took the rap than one of their own.
I did read at the weekend, that a woman has come forward and told British police that he was stalking her, and her 4 year old daughter whilst she was on holiday a couple of years ago. She reported the incident to Portugese police at the time, but they ignored her. Now why am I not surprised?
cocojo, Why would a heart surgeon, and a family G.P. find the need to sell their child. Can't you lot see that it is more rubbish made up by the Portugese police, who are intent on pinning the blame on the McCanns.
I cannot believe the hatred towards these people, would they have gotten the same negative reaction off everyone if they had chosen to employ the baby listening services, who, incidentally, only stand at the door, and listen for crying children EVERY HALF AN HOUR. Less frequently, and less thouroughly than the McCanns, and their friends were checking the kid's?
The fees for metodo 3 are around 2,000 pounds per day, which will cost the fund 750k in the six months of the contract, so far, Metodo 3 have been 100% certain Madeleine was in Morroco, then Spain, then Boznia, now they are 100% certain she is being held by one of a list of 10 paedophiles, the list has already been checked by the Police of course, as were all of the other sightings reported, Metodo 3 are running a premium rate helpline service for the McCanns, who share the profits from calls made, they say they have 40 PI's on the case, but, they only employ 27 people.
They claim a 100% (that figure again) record of finding children, but will not provide a list of satisfied customers. The owners of the agency were all arrested for illegally tapping phones....
Metodo 3 are an embarrasment. IMHO.
I think a lot of people have quietened down with the smears and slurs against Madeleines parents since the Panorama programme and the reports that Michaela Walczuch's alibi doesn't hold water. She is banned from the JW church in Luz and has been for a year. Madeleine was abducted at the time that MW was supposed to be at a JW meeting. How very convenient. Yes of course, MW knows the times of the meetings. Yes she can say she was there, but Not one member of that Church has come forward to say, She was there. They have however come forward to say, %26quot;actually she's banned for being an adultress%26quot;..
I also read that another abduction was attemped before Madeleine was taken, at the same apartments. Both Robert Murat and Michaela walczuch were identified by a housekeeper as being in the vicinity at the time, and Michaela was seen on another occasion with Murat trying to open the shutters on the very same apartment 5A that Madeliene eventually stayed in, and was snatched from. They had planned this months in advance. It was all practiced and they have had their stories set in stone for months, who knows, maybe years. They are an odd couple and in fact, they are an odd threesome. Do not leave out Jose Antonio, Michaela's husband, who to me, looks like the photofit of the man seen walking away with Madeleine. He too is involved.
I still have very strong suspicions about John Hill. Hotel Manager who did not call the police quickly enough in my opinion. I can not get my head around why he did not call them immediately. He also allocates rooms. He allocated The McCanns that room. One of the most remote, easily accesible rooms on the complex.
Why does my mind keep on changing each day?
One day I'm asking %26quot;How do I be social?%26quot; the next I'm saying I don't want to.
I don't want friends. Simple as that.
But my mind keeps on saying the opposite. How do I get my mind to stay on one mind set? I think it's my hormones, I do have a hormone problem.
Why does my mind keep on changing each day?
ok
Why does my mind keep on changing each day?
i used to do that too:)
it just takes time
itll get better.
you just have to try not to be as shyeyebrows waxed for first time fan in computer stop
I don't want friends. Simple as that.
But my mind keeps on saying the opposite. How do I get my mind to stay on one mind set? I think it's my hormones, I do have a hormone problem.
Why does my mind keep on changing each day?
ok
Why does my mind keep on changing each day?
i used to do that too:)
it just takes time
itll get better.
you just have to try not to be as shy
K!! After so many times of changing my mind about what to major and minor in college, i came to the decision..
of majoring in communications but i still haven't decided what to minor in. my choices are these: design (communication, interior, jewelery or theater), theater, psychology, photography, music or painting. So what i want to know is if there are people who have majored or minored in these subjects, i would really like to hear what you have to say about it. so talk to me...
thanx a million
K!! After so many times of changing my mind about what to major and minor in college, i came to the decision..
I think you should minor in jewelery design becuase it sound like it would be interesting and it kinda sounds fun! I think you should give it a try. (I posted a question kinda like yours today Esthetician or Manicuring please check it out and give me your answer.)
Thanks %26amp; good luck on finding a minor!
K!! After so many times of changing my mind about what to major and minor in college, i came to the decision..
The only minor you mention that will help you career-wise is Psychology. Artistic endeavors will fill your soul, psychology will fill your checking account, interior design will fill your coffee table with pamphlets.
You have a solid major that should give you a chance to get a job if you show some ability in that field. Now you need to find a minor that will either 1) help you make money 2) help you get into grad school or 3) be something you really enjoy.
Your minor really doesn't matter...it's only 6 courses, and it's not like you get recognition for it. I got a BS in Psychology and minored in political science...but I could have easily minored in theology or history.
thanx a million
K!! After so many times of changing my mind about what to major and minor in college, i came to the decision..
I think you should minor in jewelery design becuase it sound like it would be interesting and it kinda sounds fun! I think you should give it a try. (I posted a question kinda like yours today Esthetician or Manicuring please check it out and give me your answer.)
Thanks %26amp; good luck on finding a minor!
K!! After so many times of changing my mind about what to major and minor in college, i came to the decision..
The only minor you mention that will help you career-wise is Psychology. Artistic endeavors will fill your soul, psychology will fill your checking account, interior design will fill your coffee table with pamphlets.
You have a solid major that should give you a chance to get a job if you show some ability in that field. Now you need to find a minor that will either 1) help you make money 2) help you get into grad school or 3) be something you really enjoy.
Your minor really doesn't matter...it's only 6 courses, and it's not like you get recognition for it. I got a BS in Psychology and minored in political science...but I could have easily minored in theology or history.
If a first grade class voted on which candidate changed his mind over major issues lately, who would win?
Take a first grade class of say 25 students and ask them which candidate consistantly makes the headline news changing his mind, would it be Obama or McCain? Who would be the YES/NO YES/NO winner? A pair of golden flippers to the most funny answer...and 10 points.
If a first grade class voted on which candidate changed his mind over major issues lately, who would win?
They'd vote for Barry cause Kool-aids involved
If a first grade class voted on which candidate changed his mind over major issues lately, who would win?
That's why first graders aren't allowed to vote.
First graders are immature--not educated--have no street smarts--no sense of history
so with THOSE credentials-----they'd vote McCain
Obama. I don't need the points.
Who ever there socialist teacher told them to vote for!
They would vote for more cookies... Kind of like what the McCain supporters think when they get older..
Why would we ask first graders?
Changing one's mind isn't a bad thing. The inability to do this can lead you to pursue a faulty strategy for 4 years until your party is voted out of the majority in congress.
Obama.
Obama hasn't changed his position, he just said he's willing to enter discussion, just as he always has. McCain, has flip-flopped on abortion, taxes, states rights (he wants to permit drilling off the coast of Florida even though Floridians don't want it), the lists go on. McCain isn't a Conservative even though he'd have you believe he is; but he is a betrayer of the Middle.
Change is good. We like change. We want more cookies, and kool-aid instead of milk. Mommy and Daddy say Obama is for lots of change, every day.
Mcain drilling and Fema
They would say McCain
Because 1st graders have the intellect of a liberal
If a first grade class voted on which candidate changed his mind over major issues lately, who would win?
They'd vote for Barry cause Kool-aids involved
If a first grade class voted on which candidate changed his mind over major issues lately, who would win?
That's why first graders aren't allowed to vote.
First graders are immature--not educated--have no street smarts--no sense of history
so with THOSE credentials-----they'd vote McCain
Obama. I don't need the points.
Who ever there socialist teacher told them to vote for!
They would vote for more cookies... Kind of like what the McCain supporters think when they get older..
Why would we ask first graders?
Changing one's mind isn't a bad thing. The inability to do this can lead you to pursue a faulty strategy for 4 years until your party is voted out of the majority in congress.
Obama.
Obama hasn't changed his position, he just said he's willing to enter discussion, just as he always has. McCain, has flip-flopped on abortion, taxes, states rights (he wants to permit drilling off the coast of Florida even though Floridians don't want it), the lists go on. McCain isn't a Conservative even though he'd have you believe he is; but he is a betrayer of the Middle.
Change is good. We like change. We want more cookies, and kool-aid instead of milk. Mommy and Daddy say Obama is for lots of change, every day.
Mcain drilling and Fema
They would say McCain
Because 1st graders have the intellect of a liberal
Is Hollywood changing their mind about socialism? Whoopie Goldberg (rich) doesn't want?
to see her money go to taxes ... well if you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen is what I say to you Whoopie.
Is Hollywood changing their mind about socialism? Whoopie Goldberg (rich) doesn't want?
Yeah I watched it, she's finally woke herself up from the Obama dream
Is Hollywood changing their mind about socialism? Whoopie Goldberg (rich) doesn't want?
Stupid liberals, tax is for you.
They didn't see pass the promise and now have to worry about their change.
whoopie must not be feeling like she is part of the social elite club anymore!
Sounds like she has finally realized the %26quot;change%26quot; meant what the rich will have left
Limbaugh the Hut: you need to redo your math. You need to use value for value comparison not dollar for dollar. You can not compare a dollar in 1930 to a dollar in 2000. In 1930 a pound of sugar was 5 cents now its $2.00. Obama is on track to spend more in one year then Bush in 8.
She certainly did a 180, folks are learning that Obama is a great orator and that's about it.
she's afraid the people will take %26quot;her%26quot; money back.
My goodness she woke up. Amazing isn't it?
Seems the Spread the Wealth is not all that popular with girls from the hood who have made millions. This is so funny that Whoop thinks she deserves to keep the money she earns, such a conservative concept.
Interestingly enough, Steven Spielberg gave a similar statement the other day as well by basically endorsing a stimulus payment for Hollywood, but emphatically saying that they (as artists) should not be taxed or restricted by the government any more than they already are. If this isn't either blind ignorance or blatant hypocrisy, I don't know what it is.
Buckle up kids; we're in for a wild ride!
Wow , was i surprised to see that clip form her of all people, maybe there is hope for liberals waking up and seeing the light !
I was not aware that there was ever a consensus in Hollywood favoring Socialism. Seems Republicans get started labeling people %26quot;socialist%26quot; and just don't know where to stop.
She is very talented and works hard for her money.
She has earned every dollar.
Who gives a fug about Hollywood? Liberals don't need someone telling us how to think, but you cons wouldn't know about anything like that.
Taxation now must go toward the lack of adequate taxation by the previous administration while the National debt was doubled- did you know that half of your taxes will go merely to service the debt that was doubled by Bush. I'd be pissed off too. unfortunately it remains what the Republicans left us with. It is the money that is lost forever going to foreign governments and investors of virtually every ilk-quite likely even Saudi, terror-supporting investors.
See what happens when the pocket book is affected Whoopie has enough money to last her 10 life times, but she turn coated at the first sign of deficit in her account, she advocated this change, now she cries foul ......I hate her for her hypocrisy
Edit: No I did not vote for Barrack, I feel sorry for those who did
If it's true then Whoopie Goldberg is a traitor to herself.
Yeah I saw it . It looked like she was %26quot;channeling%26quot; a conservative ,the way she did in the movie Ghost .
Seriously, you need to get your head around the fact that Obama is nowhere near socialist. Politics 101 for you my friend.
A Conservative is a liberal who becomes successful.
I'm reminded of the words of one Mr. Karl Marx, from his seminal work known as the Communist Manifesto.
Karl Marx believed that the government would gain too much power, mostly through back-alley deals with various businesses and corporations; and that this would give the government the wealth necessary to screw the worker, and the business world the authority to do the same.
Who let that one happen?
Karl Marx then said that the workers would be unable to take this oppression, and would move toward Revolution.
Who just asked for a revolution?
Karl Marx said that the workers would then establish their own government %26quot;of the people.%26quot; This would be a temporary situation as this government cleared out the last vestiges of the old and corrupted government. When this was done, the workers would get rid of government entirely.
Who is calling for revolution, so they can return power to the people, then shrink government down to practically no power?
When one country (Russia) tried to do this process as laid out by Karl Marx, what emerged was a Fascist state (that only called itself Communist); and that believed that it was its duty to spread its ideas to the rest of the world through any means necessary, even war.
Who has been calling for %26quot;spreading democracy%26quot; to the rest of the world, even through war?
Yet the three biggest spenders in American history were (in order from most to 3rd most):
1) George W. Bush (R)
2) Richard Nixon (R)
3) Ronald Reagan (R)
Ronald Reagan also happened to have raised taxes on everyone (except the top 1%) for the last 7 of his 8 years in office. The tax rates during Reagan's entire time in office were higher than the tax rates during the entire time Clinton was in office.
The biggest expansion of government occurred in 2002, done by a Republican Congress and approved by Republican President George W. Bush (who came up with the legislation in the first place, mind you).
In every way, Republicans are following the Communist Manifesto to a T. Yet they show the same %26quot;big government%26quot; tendencies that they complain is present in Democrats, and the same %26quot;big government%26quot; tendencies that Stalin showed when he took what was to be the no-government solution of Communism into the total government control of Fascism.
So perhaps you should channel one Mr. William Shakespeare, who once said, %26quot;We have seen our enemy, and he is us.%26quot;
Is Hollywood changing their mind about socialism? Whoopie Goldberg (rich) doesn't want?
Yeah I watched it, she's finally woke herself up from the Obama dream
Is Hollywood changing their mind about socialism? Whoopie Goldberg (rich) doesn't want?
Stupid liberals, tax is for you.
They didn't see pass the promise and now have to worry about their change.
whoopie must not be feeling like she is part of the social elite club anymore!
Sounds like she has finally realized the %26quot;change%26quot; meant what the rich will have left
Limbaugh the Hut: you need to redo your math. You need to use value for value comparison not dollar for dollar. You can not compare a dollar in 1930 to a dollar in 2000. In 1930 a pound of sugar was 5 cents now its $2.00. Obama is on track to spend more in one year then Bush in 8.
She certainly did a 180, folks are learning that Obama is a great orator and that's about it.
she's afraid the people will take %26quot;her%26quot; money back.
My goodness she woke up. Amazing isn't it?
Seems the Spread the Wealth is not all that popular with girls from the hood who have made millions. This is so funny that Whoop thinks she deserves to keep the money she earns, such a conservative concept.
Interestingly enough, Steven Spielberg gave a similar statement the other day as well by basically endorsing a stimulus payment for Hollywood, but emphatically saying that they (as artists) should not be taxed or restricted by the government any more than they already are. If this isn't either blind ignorance or blatant hypocrisy, I don't know what it is.
Buckle up kids; we're in for a wild ride!
Wow , was i surprised to see that clip form her of all people, maybe there is hope for liberals waking up and seeing the light !
I was not aware that there was ever a consensus in Hollywood favoring Socialism. Seems Republicans get started labeling people %26quot;socialist%26quot; and just don't know where to stop.
She is very talented and works hard for her money.
She has earned every dollar.
Who gives a fug about Hollywood? Liberals don't need someone telling us how to think, but you cons wouldn't know about anything like that.
Taxation now must go toward the lack of adequate taxation by the previous administration while the National debt was doubled- did you know that half of your taxes will go merely to service the debt that was doubled by Bush. I'd be pissed off too. unfortunately it remains what the Republicans left us with. It is the money that is lost forever going to foreign governments and investors of virtually every ilk-quite likely even Saudi, terror-supporting investors.
See what happens when the pocket book is affected Whoopie has enough money to last her 10 life times, but she turn coated at the first sign of deficit in her account, she advocated this change, now she cries foul ......I hate her for her hypocrisy
Edit: No I did not vote for Barrack, I feel sorry for those who did
If it's true then Whoopie Goldberg is a traitor to herself.
Yeah I saw it . It looked like she was %26quot;channeling%26quot; a conservative ,the way she did in the movie Ghost .
Seriously, you need to get your head around the fact that Obama is nowhere near socialist. Politics 101 for you my friend.
A Conservative is a liberal who becomes successful.
I'm reminded of the words of one Mr. Karl Marx, from his seminal work known as the Communist Manifesto.
Karl Marx believed that the government would gain too much power, mostly through back-alley deals with various businesses and corporations; and that this would give the government the wealth necessary to screw the worker, and the business world the authority to do the same.
Who let that one happen?
Karl Marx then said that the workers would be unable to take this oppression, and would move toward Revolution.
Who just asked for a revolution?
Karl Marx said that the workers would then establish their own government %26quot;of the people.%26quot; This would be a temporary situation as this government cleared out the last vestiges of the old and corrupted government. When this was done, the workers would get rid of government entirely.
Who is calling for revolution, so they can return power to the people, then shrink government down to practically no power?
When one country (Russia) tried to do this process as laid out by Karl Marx, what emerged was a Fascist state (that only called itself Communist); and that believed that it was its duty to spread its ideas to the rest of the world through any means necessary, even war.
Who has been calling for %26quot;spreading democracy%26quot; to the rest of the world, even through war?
Yet the three biggest spenders in American history were (in order from most to 3rd most):
1) George W. Bush (R)
2) Richard Nixon (R)
3) Ronald Reagan (R)
Ronald Reagan also happened to have raised taxes on everyone (except the top 1%) for the last 7 of his 8 years in office. The tax rates during Reagan's entire time in office were higher than the tax rates during the entire time Clinton was in office.
The biggest expansion of government occurred in 2002, done by a Republican Congress and approved by Republican President George W. Bush (who came up with the legislation in the first place, mind you).
In every way, Republicans are following the Communist Manifesto to a T. Yet they show the same %26quot;big government%26quot; tendencies that they complain is present in Democrats, and the same %26quot;big government%26quot; tendencies that Stalin showed when he took what was to be the no-government solution of Communism into the total government control of Fascism.
So perhaps you should channel one Mr. William Shakespeare, who once said, %26quot;We have seen our enemy, and he is us.%26quot;
Can you remember a time when you changed your mind on a big personal issue? What was the thought process B4 it?
What I'm interested in is how major shifts in beliefs occur in peoples minds. I'm NOT interested in when external circumstances change %26amp; your mind changes as a result. I'm interested in how YOU change from one strongly held belief to a different belief at an internal level. Please give examples about the subject %26amp; state what thought processes kicked in to make you change - be analytical.
Can you remember a time when you changed your mind on a big personal issue? What was the thought process B4 it?
I was sent to Sunday school until I ran away at age 7, because I decided there was no God. I am still an Atheist.
I prayed very hard every week at Sunday school for my father to stop abusing and beating me; it never worked, so I lost my belief.
Once I worked out that religion had nothing to do with life, but that I had to make my own way in the world, I worked hard at school and did well.
I always thought for myself; whilst at Sunday school, or ordinary school, or anywhere else, really; I was (and still am) surprised by how many people don't read, listen, and make their own decisions.
Can you remember a time when you changed your mind on a big personal issue? What was the thought process B4 it?
There was a tuning point in my life. When I had severe mental set back. It happened somewhere in the year 1981, July. Exact date I do not remember. It happens generally during adolescent stages. At that time if we are really lucky, we will be able to get a wise Mentor, we can keep him as our guide for our whole life.
Can you remember a time when you changed your mind on a big personal issue? What was the thought process B4 it?
I was sent to Sunday school until I ran away at age 7, because I decided there was no God. I am still an Atheist.
I prayed very hard every week at Sunday school for my father to stop abusing and beating me; it never worked, so I lost my belief.
Once I worked out that religion had nothing to do with life, but that I had to make my own way in the world, I worked hard at school and did well.
I always thought for myself; whilst at Sunday school, or ordinary school, or anywhere else, really; I was (and still am) surprised by how many people don't read, listen, and make their own decisions.
Can you remember a time when you changed your mind on a big personal issue? What was the thought process B4 it?
There was a tuning point in my life. When I had severe mental set back. It happened somewhere in the year 1981, July. Exact date I do not remember. It happens generally during adolescent stages. At that time if we are really lucky, we will be able to get a wise Mentor, we can keep him as our guide for our whole life.
Will changing the name of "Bailout" to "Rescue Plan" change your mind about it?
How about %26quot;boondoggle%26quot;?
Will changing the name of %26quot;Bailout%26quot; to %26quot;Rescue Plan%26quot; change your mind about it?
No but calling it a %26quot;bailout%26quot; was pretty stupid..
Will changing the name of %26quot;Bailout%26quot; to %26quot;Rescue Plan%26quot; change your mind about it?
No. A pig is a pig is a pig. I don't care how much lipstick you put on it.
No Bil Out. Sign the petition. And then pass it on.
http://www.sanders.senate.gov/index.cfm
And this one too.
http://www.votenobailout.org/
Ha! Ha! Ha!
Good point from the earlier poster about what a bad name %26quot;Bail Out%26quot; was. They should have called it %26quot;Save the wealth of our citizens initiative%26quot; or something.
no it is what it is, weather or not it has a stupid name
Nope. I have always had a keen eye in seeing right through politically correct bullsh!t. I have no patience with those who try to manipulate the truth. It's comical that they've change the name to %26quot;rescue plan%26quot;. Only the feeble-minded would buy that nonsense.
Heck no. The name has nothing to do with what it is.
No! Wallstreet Junkies jones'n for a quick fix really nails this down to what is actually happening there. The next best 'term' to describe it would be %26quot; Reality restoration%26quot;.
No more than substituting %26quot;undocumented workers%26quot; for %26quot;illegal immigrants%26quot; did.dynamic editing thin hair
Will changing the name of %26quot;Bailout%26quot; to %26quot;Rescue Plan%26quot; change your mind about it?
No but calling it a %26quot;bailout%26quot; was pretty stupid..
Will changing the name of %26quot;Bailout%26quot; to %26quot;Rescue Plan%26quot; change your mind about it?
No. A pig is a pig is a pig. I don't care how much lipstick you put on it.
No Bil Out. Sign the petition. And then pass it on.
http://www.sanders.senate.gov/index.cfm
And this one too.
http://www.votenobailout.org/
Ha! Ha! Ha!
Good point from the earlier poster about what a bad name %26quot;Bail Out%26quot; was. They should have called it %26quot;Save the wealth of our citizens initiative%26quot; or something.
no it is what it is, weather or not it has a stupid name
Nope. I have always had a keen eye in seeing right through politically correct bullsh!t. I have no patience with those who try to manipulate the truth. It's comical that they've change the name to %26quot;rescue plan%26quot;. Only the feeble-minded would buy that nonsense.
Heck no. The name has nothing to do with what it is.
No! Wallstreet Junkies jones'n for a quick fix really nails this down to what is actually happening there. The next best 'term' to describe it would be %26quot; Reality restoration%26quot;.
No more than substituting %26quot;undocumented workers%26quot; for %26quot;illegal immigrants%26quot; did.
Do hormonal changes and chemical imbalances change the wiring in a woman's mind?
I read this somewhere. Is this true? What way does the mind change? Do the male mind go through something similar?
Do hormonal changes and chemical imbalances change the wiring in a woman's mind?
Yes, and in a man's mind too. Chemical imbalances are the cause of many neurological disorders, such as depression, anxiety, and ADHD. This is why prescription medications treat these disorders- because the active ingredient in them corrects the chemical imbalances.
Do hormonal changes and chemical imbalances change the wiring in a woman's mind?
Any type of stimuli will affect the way the mind works. So the answer is %26quot;yes%26quot;. So will eating different types of foods, the weather, what you watch on TV, exercising, etc.
Everybody's thought processes change constantly, and those changes are due to everything the person is subjected to. You aren't the same person you were ten years ago mentally and won't be the same person ten years from now because of this.
Yes, chemical imbalances by definition change the way your brain functions in both men and women.
Chemical imbalance can affect anyone, whether you're male or female...and, yes, it has a huge affect on health and mood.
Yes, men go through it every 20 minutes.
Lets see how balanced you are once a month after discharging a gallon of blood..
Yes it does just as it does for a man.
Do hormonal changes and chemical imbalances change the wiring in a woman's mind?
Yes, and in a man's mind too. Chemical imbalances are the cause of many neurological disorders, such as depression, anxiety, and ADHD. This is why prescription medications treat these disorders- because the active ingredient in them corrects the chemical imbalances.
Do hormonal changes and chemical imbalances change the wiring in a woman's mind?
Any type of stimuli will affect the way the mind works. So the answer is %26quot;yes%26quot;. So will eating different types of foods, the weather, what you watch on TV, exercising, etc.
Everybody's thought processes change constantly, and those changes are due to everything the person is subjected to. You aren't the same person you were ten years ago mentally and won't be the same person ten years from now because of this.
Yes, chemical imbalances by definition change the way your brain functions in both men and women.
Chemical imbalance can affect anyone, whether you're male or female...and, yes, it has a huge affect on health and mood.
Yes, men go through it every 20 minutes.
Lets see how balanced you are once a month after discharging a gallon of blood..
Yes it does just as it does for a man.
Has anyone here ever changed their mind about giving birth and decided to have an abortion after a while?
So far the only thing I've seen is a someone deciding right away to keep the baby. Or deciding right away to abort the baby, not changing their mind at any point.
I'm 22 and pro-choice.
Has anyone here ever changed their mind about giving birth and decided to have an abortion after a while?
not me, but my friend Lynn, she was raped and at first decided to keep the baby, following the train of thought that the rape wasn't the baby's fault... but at about 9 weeks she decided to abort. We got pregnant 1 day apart and i was worried how it would affect our friendship her seeing me being pregnant and having a visual marker of where she would have been...
but then at 12wks when it was time for her appt she changed her mind again and kept it.
we're both now at 33 1/2 wks and she has no regrets about continuing her pregnancy.
Has anyone here ever changed their mind about giving birth and decided to have an abortion after a while?
I'm 32 and (mostly ) pro-life! I only believe in abortions under SERIOUS circumstances! Anyway, I am 8 1/2 weeks pregnant and going through with this pregnancy :) It's the best gift my husband and God could ever give me :)))))))
The thing is there's a time limit for abortion before states outlaw it or women become uncomfortable with the idea. A lot of women don't find out they're pregnant right away, so it could just be that it seems like they decide right away, when in actuality, they're several weeks pregnant and getting close to the time when abortions aren't allowed. It is a huge, serious decision and a lot of consideration goes into it (ideally) so once a woman's mind is made up, it's not likely that she'll change it. Sometimes, it's a completely selfish decision, and in that case, it's not likely that the motivation will change. My husband and I considered abortion. We went to the clinic and had an appointment for the actual procedure and everything. When we left the clinic though, it just felt wrong for us and we decided to keep our baby. I'm sure there are plenty of women who changed their mind, but since the decision needs to be made fairly quickly, there's not a lot of time to wait around to make the choice. Our decision was made then changed in about a week.
I'm 22 and pro-choice.
Has anyone here ever changed their mind about giving birth and decided to have an abortion after a while?
not me, but my friend Lynn, she was raped and at first decided to keep the baby, following the train of thought that the rape wasn't the baby's fault... but at about 9 weeks she decided to abort. We got pregnant 1 day apart and i was worried how it would affect our friendship her seeing me being pregnant and having a visual marker of where she would have been...
but then at 12wks when it was time for her appt she changed her mind again and kept it.
we're both now at 33 1/2 wks and she has no regrets about continuing her pregnancy.
Has anyone here ever changed their mind about giving birth and decided to have an abortion after a while?
I'm 32 and (mostly ) pro-life! I only believe in abortions under SERIOUS circumstances! Anyway, I am 8 1/2 weeks pregnant and going through with this pregnancy :) It's the best gift my husband and God could ever give me :)))))))
The thing is there's a time limit for abortion before states outlaw it or women become uncomfortable with the idea. A lot of women don't find out they're pregnant right away, so it could just be that it seems like they decide right away, when in actuality, they're several weeks pregnant and getting close to the time when abortions aren't allowed. It is a huge, serious decision and a lot of consideration goes into it (ideally) so once a woman's mind is made up, it's not likely that she'll change it. Sometimes, it's a completely selfish decision, and in that case, it's not likely that the motivation will change. My husband and I considered abortion. We went to the clinic and had an appointment for the actual procedure and everything. When we left the clinic though, it just felt wrong for us and we decided to keep our baby. I'm sure there are plenty of women who changed their mind, but since the decision needs to be made fairly quickly, there's not a lot of time to wait around to make the choice. Our decision was made then changed in about a week.
Should I take this as a sign of her mind changing?
There's a girl I like and whenever we're alone watching a movie or something I usually put my arm around her and she doesn't mind, in fact she'll usually slide closer, but she had preveiously said she didn't feel the chemistry was there between us.
However this was only the third time we hung out and since we had met online, I was taking things slow to avoid scaring her off or something. Since then however, she's become comfortable with me putting her arm around her and has actually fallen asleep leaning up against me while we were watching movies.
I'm just trying to figure out if her mind is changing or not. I'd imagine this is a good sign, but I'm not sure if she just sees me as a friend.
And before you suggest I just ask her, I would normally, however given her comment(made about 2-3 weeks ago) I don't want to bring it up again if she's not interested in me like that.
Should I take this as a sign of her mind changing?
Its entirely possible that her mind is changing. Maybe she is the type of girl that likes to get to know the guy first before making any major changes in a relationship. Realistically I say give it about 3-6 months. See how things progress. Be friends first before getting into a relationship. Lasting relationships tend to last longer if there was a %26quot;friendship%26quot; first.
You say that see fell asleep against you while watching a movie. That could be a sign that she is feeling more comfortable. I would suggest taking things slow, don't rush into anything. If she is shy try coaxing her out of her %26quot;shell%26quot;. If she is outgoing... Be outgoing with her. The more time you spend togethet... alone.... The better chance of building a relationship is there.
If you are a gift giving type... find out what her favorite flower is and send her some. same with music, or whatever she is into.
Good Luck!!
Should I take this as a sign of her mind changing?
then give it more time. let her become more comfortable around you, you're definetely doing the right thing by not rushing anything : ) Hang out with her more, go to different places each time and see what happens. and when you think the time is right ask her again
If there is no chemistry for her and she is still seeing you than it means she is comfortable around you. You make her feel safe and beautiful, however she still doesn't want anything more from you. Chances are she only wants your friendship and when the guy comes around that she does feel chemistry for she may end up dropping you like a hot cake. No joke, I see it happen all the time. My sister has a guy friend like you and I always tell her to stop leading him on...
However this was only the third time we hung out and since we had met online, I was taking things slow to avoid scaring her off or something. Since then however, she's become comfortable with me putting her arm around her and has actually fallen asleep leaning up against me while we were watching movies.
I'm just trying to figure out if her mind is changing or not. I'd imagine this is a good sign, but I'm not sure if she just sees me as a friend.
And before you suggest I just ask her, I would normally, however given her comment(made about 2-3 weeks ago) I don't want to bring it up again if she's not interested in me like that.
Should I take this as a sign of her mind changing?
Its entirely possible that her mind is changing. Maybe she is the type of girl that likes to get to know the guy first before making any major changes in a relationship. Realistically I say give it about 3-6 months. See how things progress. Be friends first before getting into a relationship. Lasting relationships tend to last longer if there was a %26quot;friendship%26quot; first.
You say that see fell asleep against you while watching a movie. That could be a sign that she is feeling more comfortable. I would suggest taking things slow, don't rush into anything. If she is shy try coaxing her out of her %26quot;shell%26quot;. If she is outgoing... Be outgoing with her. The more time you spend togethet... alone.... The better chance of building a relationship is there.
If you are a gift giving type... find out what her favorite flower is and send her some. same with music, or whatever she is into.
Good Luck!!
Should I take this as a sign of her mind changing?
then give it more time. let her become more comfortable around you, you're definetely doing the right thing by not rushing anything : ) Hang out with her more, go to different places each time and see what happens. and when you think the time is right ask her again
If there is no chemistry for her and she is still seeing you than it means she is comfortable around you. You make her feel safe and beautiful, however she still doesn't want anything more from you. Chances are she only wants your friendship and when the guy comes around that she does feel chemistry for she may end up dropping you like a hot cake. No joke, I see it happen all the time. My sister has a guy friend like you and I always tell her to stop leading him on...
Does Bush 2 have the chance of a snowball in h*ll of changing your mind about Iraq during Tuesday's speech?
Of course, if you already agree with him (for whatever inexplicable reasons) this issue won't concern you.
Does Bush 2 have the chance of a snowball in h*ll of changing your mind about Iraq during Tuesday's speech?
god himself could not convince me.
Does Bush 2 have the chance of a snowball in h*ll of changing your mind about Iraq during Tuesday's speech?
No. I'll still support our efforts regardless of his comments.
he's like a broken record, he never has anything new to say, so no it probably won't
nnnope
nope. not even a snowball's chance at the north pole!
hahahaha
Yes. I'm waiting to hear what he has to say.
NOT!
And if you already DISAGREE with him, then whatever say won't matter either, right?
Don't ask questions that you really don't want answers to, sport.
Just go chew on your pillow some more.
EDIT: Buzz, If you really think I care about my %26quot;Best Answer Rating%26quot;, then you're sadly deluded. You asked a pointless question by injecting your own opinions on the matter about the futility of his speech and those that might have even the slightest incentive to want to hear what he has to say. So what was the point of the question?
There wasn't one, unless you're just fishing for support in your anti-Bush opinions.
I don't like the man, and I don't like the war. However, if someone even bothered to make a strong case for the war, you're not even remotely interested in hearing it, are you? And no matter what Bush says in his speech, you're not really going to care, are you?
So, this is a pointless question, now isn't it?
the only reason i'd ever support him is if i where about to die a violent slow death.
don't think so. it is clearly a mess, was a mess, gonna be a huge economic diaster. what the hell were they thinking????? must revolutionized our governmental system so it is comprehesible. how can someone not be arrested for making outrageous and incomprehensibly expensive decisions. worse than robbing a bank, shooting into a crown of people, worse than anything you can probably name. there is a reason that is becoming crystal clear as to how we got to this point. it is so outrageous i am stupified why people aren't rioting. damn!
No their was no good reason to go in there then and there is still no good reason.
Nope. To be fair though, that's mostly becuase i cannot stand to watch the man.
No never.... Bush administration is the one that did 9-11 themselves and killed their own country men.... i can never trust that guy or his govt......
Watch these videos made by American Groups and you will never trust him......
Video 1: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=鈥?/a>
Video 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=鈥?/a>
I can think of 20 more military families who may have a different opinion now. There is no good option for Iraq, its past that phase now. Can't help those who can't help themselves.
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Does Bush 2 have the chance of a snowball in h*ll of changing your mind about Iraq during Tuesday's speech?
god himself could not convince me.
Does Bush 2 have the chance of a snowball in h*ll of changing your mind about Iraq during Tuesday's speech?
No. I'll still support our efforts regardless of his comments.
he's like a broken record, he never has anything new to say, so no it probably won't
nnnope
nope. not even a snowball's chance at the north pole!
hahahaha
Yes. I'm waiting to hear what he has to say.
NOT!
And if you already DISAGREE with him, then whatever say won't matter either, right?
Don't ask questions that you really don't want answers to, sport.
Just go chew on your pillow some more.
EDIT: Buzz, If you really think I care about my %26quot;Best Answer Rating%26quot;, then you're sadly deluded. You asked a pointless question by injecting your own opinions on the matter about the futility of his speech and those that might have even the slightest incentive to want to hear what he has to say. So what was the point of the question?
There wasn't one, unless you're just fishing for support in your anti-Bush opinions.
I don't like the man, and I don't like the war. However, if someone even bothered to make a strong case for the war, you're not even remotely interested in hearing it, are you? And no matter what Bush says in his speech, you're not really going to care, are you?
So, this is a pointless question, now isn't it?
the only reason i'd ever support him is if i where about to die a violent slow death.
don't think so. it is clearly a mess, was a mess, gonna be a huge economic diaster. what the hell were they thinking????? must revolutionized our governmental system so it is comprehesible. how can someone not be arrested for making outrageous and incomprehensibly expensive decisions. worse than robbing a bank, shooting into a crown of people, worse than anything you can probably name. there is a reason that is becoming crystal clear as to how we got to this point. it is so outrageous i am stupified why people aren't rioting. damn!
No their was no good reason to go in there then and there is still no good reason.
Nope. To be fair though, that's mostly becuase i cannot stand to watch the man.
No never.... Bush administration is the one that did 9-11 themselves and killed their own country men.... i can never trust that guy or his govt......
Watch these videos made by American Groups and you will never trust him......
Video 1: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=鈥?/a>
Video 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=鈥?/a>
I can think of 20 more military families who may have a different opinion now. There is no good option for Iraq, its past that phase now. Can't help those who can't help themselves.
Not in this lifetime.
Please can someone help me? anyone.. I keep changing my mind about diets?
I keep changing my mind about the diet i want to do. One day i'll be like 'okay i'm going to fast' and the next be like 'i'll eat all 3 meals'' and the next like 'just dinner' and the lack of certainty is making me binge and ruin everything! help me!
Please can someone help me? anyone.. I keep changing my mind about diets?
Ok, the best thing for your body is to eat more frequent smaller meals. Try to aim for 4-6 each day. They'll be smaller portions so you're not eating more but your body thinks you are so it raises your metabolism.
Please can someone help me? anyone.. I keep changing my mind about diets?
Ok, the best thing for your body is to eat more frequent smaller meals. Try to aim for 4-6 each day. They'll be smaller portions so you're not eating more but your body thinks you are so it raises your metabolism.
MY boyfriend of over 4 years keeps changing his mind about marriage what should i do.?
My boyfriend and have been dating for over 4 years now been engaged for over three. Everytime the wedding get close he backs out says he need more time. It hurts worse each time. this last time really sent me over the edge. he willing to let me walk away over it. should i give him more time or leave him?
MY boyfriend of over 4 years keeps changing his mind about marriage what should i do.?
Something as serious as marriage can be a big, scary deal. You maybe ready 100% but he may have doubts. Talk to him. Set a time frame for your relationship. Let him know that he has a decision to make and when that time is over and the decision is not made let him go. Your time is precious. Set guidelines and stick to them love involved or not.
MY boyfriend of over 4 years keeps changing his mind about marriage what should i do.?
what does your gut feeling tell you to do?
Go with that and not your heart.
I did and have been happily married for over 10 years.
And not to the one that I was waiting for to marry me.
Good luck.
If you want a relationship which includes marriage, then walk away.
You realise that you're allowing him to get what he wants without thinking of you - bad basis for any relationship.
100% - go and get on with your life - the hurt will subside.
As hard as it is, you should walk away and not just do that but think about you as a person and have self growth. You should think about your purpose in life. It is for sure not to go through life having your heart broken time and time again by the same person who does not know love. In time he will look back and see what he has done, but in the mean time move on before he takes away ypur total faith in love aand in people
Move on. You get one life. Don't waste it waiting around for the wrong man to finally marry you so you can only get divorced a few years later. You know he isn't into marrying you. Why would you want that for your life?
You have been giving him more than enough time and understanding I admire you for that . I would talk to him and lay down the law and say you have very loving and supportive and you have had a enough and deserve better treatment and I would leave and if its your house tell him to leave I would have distant between the two of you first and in that time if he dosent realize that there is none one quiet like you that he really does love and that you have put up with more than enough from you and truly wants to marry you . I would cut you loses and although it will hurt at first in time you will realize you are better off. I wish you a very happy future who ever that is with.
Walk, if he really truly wanted to be with you forever he would have done it by now. what is there to really think about
You've already given him four years.... been there myself, and it was hard to leave, but you can't spend your life waiting for him to be ready.
I really think that deep inside you know the answer. Its a question of what YOU want. Are you happy to go on being engaged? The thing is pressure is the wrong way to go, it would always be a point of contention. If you can live happily the way you are until he says to you that he wants to put a wedding day to it then all well and good, but if this is not the case I would seriously think about your reasons for being engaged %26amp; his. If he doesn't want to marry you then why get engaged?
I am pretty sure you will come to the right decision for you.
Good Luck
Don't have sex with him, if he is the right man for you this will not matter to him. Marriage preparation classes are also helpful. My guess is he is not ready and should not be pushed. In the mean time keep your legs closed and work on your friendship with him BELIVE me the man who truly loves you will knock your socks off without sex.
Well, i think that he may be afraid of committment.
Firstly, you have to ask yourself whether you think marriage is what you REALLY want, and if you are willing to sacrifice getting married to be with him.
On the otherhand if he is that against getting married, you have to ask yourself why, are there any underlying issues that stop him from marrying?? Has he been married before? If he is willing to lose you over it, then is it worth it? He cant love you that much.
I think you need to sit down and talk to him.
even though you have been going out with your boyfriend for 4 years (and being engaged for 3) do you still love him? if you do i think you should ask him why he is like this before you make the decision of walking away...i know even though i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 1 year my boyfriend had proposed to me on my brothers 19th birthday and that was only 3-4 months since we started going out and just a couple of weeks ago we had this argument and i started to get nervous about the wedding and that day and a few others i said to my boyfriend 'i am not sure bout this any more' but now we are OK about the day now
you have given him enough years and he is not making any positive move about settling down with you the best thing is to tell him to his face that you can be wasting your time with him any more, you have your life to live, years are gone and time waits for nobody. another thing he might not be your real life partner so move on so that you wont miss the right man. and if he really loves you he wont let you go. but do the right thing.
sounds to me that he is scared not of marrying you but of the day its self
IF he's gotten close and then walked away from marrying you at all then that means: he's not ready, he wants to get married, but not to you. or he's just not the marrying type period.
I would personally let him go. Yes he's a wonderful man in your eyes, but he may not be %26quot;the one%26quot; for you.
Good luck. :)
leave him. its really unfair what he's doing to you
if he wants to marry you he will.
you deserve to be with someone who is sure about you
Time's up. Sorry, but he can't just drag you along like this. If he is not ready now, he will never be ready. What is he waiting for anyways? A better woman to come along? If that is the case, than obviously he doesn't think you are good enough.
Sorry you are going through this...
I think you know the answer in your heart - this is just not right. Usually a couple is engaged only long enough to plan the wedding - after dating a few years seriously - I think it's just silly to be engaged for three years.
You may love him, and he may love you, but if he doesn't want marriage and you do - then you two are not a match...
You've given him plenty of time.
Why did he ask you to marry him if he wasn't ready to commit? Ask yourself (then him!) that question. Seriously, as much as it hurts, I'd think about walking. The third time is ridiculous and it sounds like he's just stringing you along. Good luck.
He has cold feet and may not be ready. If I read the above correctly, you were only together 1 year before he popped the Q. Don't leave him. 4 years is a long time to be with the same person. You don't want to regret it later. Wait until you're BOTH ready. This is a huge step. :)
That is so terrible. I would get out now. It just sounds like he has serious doubts and you deserve to be with someone who loves you 100% and is willing to commit to you. You deserve better!
well, we can only tell you what we have done or would hypothetically do. i myself would be hurt, once or twice is understandable as it is a big thing. but 4 times, i don't know. my fiance %26amp; i had a talk after 3 years of being together to feel out how we both feel about marriage and when the time would be right. well we both decided and 7 years later, finally got engaged. because we both stuck to what we said (%26amp; without any hesitation) i feel extremely comfortable that we made the right decision. i feel like we've been married for years anyway. %26amp; i was the one to ask him to marry me.
in your situation, i think he needs to be honest with you. don't try to pressure him into yay or nay, but he needs to tell you exactly what he's feeling and why the delays. and he needs to do it, until you understand why.
i know you dont want to hear this but i honestly would just leave because he is wasting your time and that is not what you need. He is going to keep doing the same thing over and over. he sounds like he isnt ready for commitment
MY boyfriend of over 4 years keeps changing his mind about marriage what should i do.?
Something as serious as marriage can be a big, scary deal. You maybe ready 100% but he may have doubts. Talk to him. Set a time frame for your relationship. Let him know that he has a decision to make and when that time is over and the decision is not made let him go. Your time is precious. Set guidelines and stick to them love involved or not.
MY boyfriend of over 4 years keeps changing his mind about marriage what should i do.?
what does your gut feeling tell you to do?
Go with that and not your heart.
I did and have been happily married for over 10 years.
And not to the one that I was waiting for to marry me.
Good luck.
If you want a relationship which includes marriage, then walk away.
You realise that you're allowing him to get what he wants without thinking of you - bad basis for any relationship.
100% - go and get on with your life - the hurt will subside.
As hard as it is, you should walk away and not just do that but think about you as a person and have self growth. You should think about your purpose in life. It is for sure not to go through life having your heart broken time and time again by the same person who does not know love. In time he will look back and see what he has done, but in the mean time move on before he takes away ypur total faith in love aand in people
Move on. You get one life. Don't waste it waiting around for the wrong man to finally marry you so you can only get divorced a few years later. You know he isn't into marrying you. Why would you want that for your life?
You have been giving him more than enough time and understanding I admire you for that . I would talk to him and lay down the law and say you have very loving and supportive and you have had a enough and deserve better treatment and I would leave and if its your house tell him to leave I would have distant between the two of you first and in that time if he dosent realize that there is none one quiet like you that he really does love and that you have put up with more than enough from you and truly wants to marry you . I would cut you loses and although it will hurt at first in time you will realize you are better off. I wish you a very happy future who ever that is with.
Walk, if he really truly wanted to be with you forever he would have done it by now. what is there to really think about
You've already given him four years.... been there myself, and it was hard to leave, but you can't spend your life waiting for him to be ready.
I really think that deep inside you know the answer. Its a question of what YOU want. Are you happy to go on being engaged? The thing is pressure is the wrong way to go, it would always be a point of contention. If you can live happily the way you are until he says to you that he wants to put a wedding day to it then all well and good, but if this is not the case I would seriously think about your reasons for being engaged %26amp; his. If he doesn't want to marry you then why get engaged?
I am pretty sure you will come to the right decision for you.
Good Luck
Don't have sex with him, if he is the right man for you this will not matter to him. Marriage preparation classes are also helpful. My guess is he is not ready and should not be pushed. In the mean time keep your legs closed and work on your friendship with him BELIVE me the man who truly loves you will knock your socks off without sex.
Well, i think that he may be afraid of committment.
Firstly, you have to ask yourself whether you think marriage is what you REALLY want, and if you are willing to sacrifice getting married to be with him.
On the otherhand if he is that against getting married, you have to ask yourself why, are there any underlying issues that stop him from marrying?? Has he been married before? If he is willing to lose you over it, then is it worth it? He cant love you that much.
I think you need to sit down and talk to him.
even though you have been going out with your boyfriend for 4 years (and being engaged for 3) do you still love him? if you do i think you should ask him why he is like this before you make the decision of walking away...i know even though i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 1 year my boyfriend had proposed to me on my brothers 19th birthday and that was only 3-4 months since we started going out and just a couple of weeks ago we had this argument and i started to get nervous about the wedding and that day and a few others i said to my boyfriend 'i am not sure bout this any more' but now we are OK about the day now
you have given him enough years and he is not making any positive move about settling down with you the best thing is to tell him to his face that you can be wasting your time with him any more, you have your life to live, years are gone and time waits for nobody. another thing he might not be your real life partner so move on so that you wont miss the right man. and if he really loves you he wont let you go. but do the right thing.
sounds to me that he is scared not of marrying you but of the day its self
IF he's gotten close and then walked away from marrying you at all then that means: he's not ready, he wants to get married, but not to you. or he's just not the marrying type period.
I would personally let him go. Yes he's a wonderful man in your eyes, but he may not be %26quot;the one%26quot; for you.
Good luck. :)
leave him. its really unfair what he's doing to you
if he wants to marry you he will.
you deserve to be with someone who is sure about you
Time's up. Sorry, but he can't just drag you along like this. If he is not ready now, he will never be ready. What is he waiting for anyways? A better woman to come along? If that is the case, than obviously he doesn't think you are good enough.
Sorry you are going through this...
I think you know the answer in your heart - this is just not right. Usually a couple is engaged only long enough to plan the wedding - after dating a few years seriously - I think it's just silly to be engaged for three years.
You may love him, and he may love you, but if he doesn't want marriage and you do - then you two are not a match...
You've given him plenty of time.
Why did he ask you to marry him if he wasn't ready to commit? Ask yourself (then him!) that question. Seriously, as much as it hurts, I'd think about walking. The third time is ridiculous and it sounds like he's just stringing you along. Good luck.
He has cold feet and may not be ready. If I read the above correctly, you were only together 1 year before he popped the Q. Don't leave him. 4 years is a long time to be with the same person. You don't want to regret it later. Wait until you're BOTH ready. This is a huge step. :)
That is so terrible. I would get out now. It just sounds like he has serious doubts and you deserve to be with someone who loves you 100% and is willing to commit to you. You deserve better!
well, we can only tell you what we have done or would hypothetically do. i myself would be hurt, once or twice is understandable as it is a big thing. but 4 times, i don't know. my fiance %26amp; i had a talk after 3 years of being together to feel out how we both feel about marriage and when the time would be right. well we both decided and 7 years later, finally got engaged. because we both stuck to what we said (%26amp; without any hesitation) i feel extremely comfortable that we made the right decision. i feel like we've been married for years anyway. %26amp; i was the one to ask him to marry me.
in your situation, i think he needs to be honest with you. don't try to pressure him into yay or nay, but he needs to tell you exactly what he's feeling and why the delays. and he needs to do it, until you understand why.
i know you dont want to hear this but i honestly would just leave because he is wasting your time and that is not what you need. He is going to keep doing the same thing over and over. he sounds like he isnt ready for commitment
John McCain has been scolding Obama for possibly changing his mind about fundraising cap!?
Now John McCain's campaign plans on utlizing GWB to do fundraising for him for the general election. Now, please note IF McCain claims he plans only to use public money which is capped at $85 million, why would he need Bush to fund raise for him? Any money collected for the general would have to be returned if he uses public money!!! So is this being hypocritical by scolding Obama yet getting fundraising done?
John McCain has been scolding Obama for possibly changing his mind about fundraising cap!?
Hypocritical.
McCain only wanted campaign finance reform because he knew back then that he would be running for President and doesn't have the clout to raise the funds that the others have the ability to.
The Republican Party on the whole doesn't seem to REALLY believe in McCain. I believe him to be the right puppet at the right time.
I see weakness and I smell fear on the part of McCain AND Clinton..
Why is McCain attacking Obama instead of spelling out his plan(s) as President of the United States?
Obama hasn’t even won the nomination yet.
The same with Hillary.
Notice that Obama is running a campaign on what he has done and hopes and plans to do as President of the United States.
I agree with the responder using the moniker “none” .
I too want a President that CAN realize that when the course of action initially taken isn’t producing the desired result - CHANGE THE COURSE OF ACTION!!
I guess I SHOULDthank McCain and Mrs. Clinton for showing us that with either she or McCain as President, it WILL be…NEGATIVE POLITICS AS USUAL and neither of them will truly try to work in a bipartisan manner.
John McCain has been scolding Obama for possibly changing his mind about fundraising cap!?
Thanks.
I believe you understood my response.
I am not a McCain fan but I agree with him. Obama made that commiment and he needs to stick with it. If he does not then we is the empty suit of words everyone calls him.
John McCain can still fundraise because he is still competing in the Primaries....it is not the general election yet.
Also, John McCain is 100% correct. OBama is the one that initated the publice financing deal. McCain agreed, and now Obama is going back on his word.....once again.
He's not. Obama took a pledge a long time ago that he would take public funding. Now he says he may not because of all the money he has raised on the net. Why would John McCain screw himself by accepting it before Obama does? John McCain is simply calling Obama out on it. Something a lot of people are unwilling to do.
I think its hysterical (and revealing) that the Republican party has this ideal where you stick with what you said even if it turns out to be a bad idea. i.e. Obama saying he would use public funds. Well if its clear that doing so would leave him short and unable to compete on a level playing field - WHY WOULD HE KEEP DOING IT???
The definition of insane is to do something over and over and expect different results! DUH! I WANT a president that will realize that when course of action initially took is not producing the desired result - CHANGE THE COURSE OF ACTION!!
It is neither wise, nor noble to %26quot;keep your word%26quot; if doing so produces disastrous results! Why does this seen like such a challenging concept for republicans?
all candidates are at each others throats now. i think if they run they should only use funds that are donated or their own money. also, they should not promise something that they can't keep.
John McCain has been scolding Obama for possibly changing his mind about fundraising cap!?
Hypocritical.
McCain only wanted campaign finance reform because he knew back then that he would be running for President and doesn't have the clout to raise the funds that the others have the ability to.
The Republican Party on the whole doesn't seem to REALLY believe in McCain. I believe him to be the right puppet at the right time.
I see weakness and I smell fear on the part of McCain AND Clinton..
Why is McCain attacking Obama instead of spelling out his plan(s) as President of the United States?
Obama hasn’t even won the nomination yet.
The same with Hillary.
Notice that Obama is running a campaign on what he has done and hopes and plans to do as President of the United States.
I agree with the responder using the moniker “none” .
I too want a President that CAN realize that when the course of action initially taken isn’t producing the desired result - CHANGE THE COURSE OF ACTION!!
I guess I SHOULDthank McCain and Mrs. Clinton for showing us that with either she or McCain as President, it WILL be…NEGATIVE POLITICS AS USUAL and neither of them will truly try to work in a bipartisan manner.
John McCain has been scolding Obama for possibly changing his mind about fundraising cap!?
Thanks.
I believe you understood my response.
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I am not a McCain fan but I agree with him. Obama made that commiment and he needs to stick with it. If he does not then we is the empty suit of words everyone calls him.
John McCain can still fundraise because he is still competing in the Primaries....it is not the general election yet.
Also, John McCain is 100% correct. OBama is the one that initated the publice financing deal. McCain agreed, and now Obama is going back on his word.....once again.
He's not. Obama took a pledge a long time ago that he would take public funding. Now he says he may not because of all the money he has raised on the net. Why would John McCain screw himself by accepting it before Obama does? John McCain is simply calling Obama out on it. Something a lot of people are unwilling to do.
I think its hysterical (and revealing) that the Republican party has this ideal where you stick with what you said even if it turns out to be a bad idea. i.e. Obama saying he would use public funds. Well if its clear that doing so would leave him short and unable to compete on a level playing field - WHY WOULD HE KEEP DOING IT???
The definition of insane is to do something over and over and expect different results! DUH! I WANT a president that will realize that when course of action initially took is not producing the desired result - CHANGE THE COURSE OF ACTION!!
It is neither wise, nor noble to %26quot;keep your word%26quot; if doing so produces disastrous results! Why does this seen like such a challenging concept for republicans?
all candidates are at each others throats now. i think if they run they should only use funds that are donated or their own money. also, they should not promise something that they can't keep.
My husband keeps changing his mind about when to conceive.....?
first of all, i am 29, he is 33. we are financially ready but DO need a bigger house and hope to move by summer. we have 2 children -8 %26amp;10 yrs old. they arent biologically his sons but he is their only dad.so hes never had a child of his own. he keeps changing his mind about when to start trying. he'll bring it up one day and say %26quot;i want you to stop your birth control pills at the end of this pack%26quot; then change his mind the next day. hes done this several times and he knows how much im ready NOW. it breaks my heart. i get so excited only to be let down. we've talked about it and he knows how i feel, but says hes scared that we either wont have enough money or a big enough house or that something is going to happen to me in birth, theres always something. i keep reminding him that even if we conceived right away, we still have 9 mos. until the baby comes. i dont know if i should just give up or hold him to his word? i feel like i am obsessing about this and i dont want to do that!
My husband keeps changing his mind about when to conceive.....?
He sounds confused and I feel terrible for you. I would feel the same way and I think what I would do is just let it happen. You two sound ready (financially and emitionally)... do what YOU feel is the right thing to do in your heart.
Have you explained to him how this is tearing you up??
My husband keeps changing his mind about when to conceive.....?
I had the same problem with my husband but he has 2 kids and I have none. He kept changing his mind all the time. I have found a new doctor that has made him fell much more at ease about not losing me. Last month he decided that he wanted to start trying so we will see what happens. If you wish to email please feel free, just add @yahoo.com to my screen name.
It sounds like he is not ready. I wouldn't rush him. He needs to be ready just like you are. Listen to his concerns and support his thinking. He'll come around.
hello just stop taking the birth control and get pregnant and once your pregnant say you know what damn birth control must not have worked so heres the baby you wanted now. He'll either hate you or be happy about it but Im assuming he'll love you for it he's just to nervous to make up his mind on his own so he keeps changing his mind. If you keep waiting on him to fully make up his mind on his own it's looking pretty obvious you'll be waiting a very long time if ever. If he loves you he's going to be happy he's the one who really wants you to have one for him anyway so as a guy I'd say he'll love it when you tell him your pregnant and if not theres always the morning after pill.
stop the pills .guys never get ready til theres a baby on the way
You asked so I am going to tell you based on what you said and what's between the lines.
YOU want to have another child and YOU are sure about it.
HE IS NOT.
You are pressuring him which is not a good thing. If you love him and want to maintain your relationship, BACK OFF!
I think your husband is an insecure, good hearted, caring and a weak decision-making person. As a man of the house, he should just make a strong decision without qualms for you to accept and
follow. Instead he chose not to be and place you in an excited,
led-down situation.
I would advise to you try again with patience and confidence to
persuade him whether it's time to conceive.
I absolutely agree, you shouldn't stop behind his back, he would end up resenting you and the child. You should just sit down and talk to him and tell him to be honest with you. I mean he may just be scared after he says it, then he thinks %26quot;god this could really happen now%26quot; so you just need to sit him down and have a serious talk. Tell him that you are starting to feel that he doesn't want to have a baby.
Well, it's not like you can pick a date on when to conceive. It will definately not happen until you're ovulating. Let your husband know that it takes time. You should have kids when you're still young and physically able to take care of them. Especially when your husband's 2 kids are still young, you want them to feel the connection to your baby.
My youngest brother is 14 years younger than me. I have difficult communicating to him because of our age difference. Now, I'm married with a baby on the way and he's still playing video games and watching cartoons. Besides worrying about my unborn child, I have to babysit my brother on Saturdays. My parents are putting too much pressure on me by telling me to focus on my brother, when my baby can come any minute.
My husband keeps changing his mind about when to conceive.....?
He sounds confused and I feel terrible for you. I would feel the same way and I think what I would do is just let it happen. You two sound ready (financially and emitionally)... do what YOU feel is the right thing to do in your heart.
Have you explained to him how this is tearing you up??
My husband keeps changing his mind about when to conceive.....?
I had the same problem with my husband but he has 2 kids and I have none. He kept changing his mind all the time. I have found a new doctor that has made him fell much more at ease about not losing me. Last month he decided that he wanted to start trying so we will see what happens. If you wish to email please feel free, just add @yahoo.com to my screen name.
It sounds like he is not ready. I wouldn't rush him. He needs to be ready just like you are. Listen to his concerns and support his thinking. He'll come around.
hello just stop taking the birth control and get pregnant and once your pregnant say you know what damn birth control must not have worked so heres the baby you wanted now. He'll either hate you or be happy about it but Im assuming he'll love you for it he's just to nervous to make up his mind on his own so he keeps changing his mind. If you keep waiting on him to fully make up his mind on his own it's looking pretty obvious you'll be waiting a very long time if ever. If he loves you he's going to be happy he's the one who really wants you to have one for him anyway so as a guy I'd say he'll love it when you tell him your pregnant and if not theres always the morning after pill.
stop the pills .guys never get ready til theres a baby on the way
You asked so I am going to tell you based on what you said and what's between the lines.
YOU want to have another child and YOU are sure about it.
HE IS NOT.
You are pressuring him which is not a good thing. If you love him and want to maintain your relationship, BACK OFF!
I think your husband is an insecure, good hearted, caring and a weak decision-making person. As a man of the house, he should just make a strong decision without qualms for you to accept and
follow. Instead he chose not to be and place you in an excited,
led-down situation.
I would advise to you try again with patience and confidence to
persuade him whether it's time to conceive.
I absolutely agree, you shouldn't stop behind his back, he would end up resenting you and the child. You should just sit down and talk to him and tell him to be honest with you. I mean he may just be scared after he says it, then he thinks %26quot;god this could really happen now%26quot; so you just need to sit him down and have a serious talk. Tell him that you are starting to feel that he doesn't want to have a baby.
Well, it's not like you can pick a date on when to conceive. It will definately not happen until you're ovulating. Let your husband know that it takes time. You should have kids when you're still young and physically able to take care of them. Especially when your husband's 2 kids are still young, you want them to feel the connection to your baby.
My youngest brother is 14 years younger than me. I have difficult communicating to him because of our age difference. Now, I'm married with a baby on the way and he's still playing video games and watching cartoons. Besides worrying about my unborn child, I have to babysit my brother on Saturdays. My parents are putting too much pressure on me by telling me to focus on my brother, when my baby can come any minute.
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