There is a high possibility that I'm pregnant and my boyfriend will want it one day and the next day he wont be so sure that he wants it. He keeps changing his mind. Does this have to do with fear of actually becoming a dad? He says he want to be and than hes not to sure. Help?
My boyfriend keeps changing his mind?
Sounds like he's just playing with your head. Make sure he looks at you straight in your eyes when he gives you an answer. If he can't look at you straight in the eyes then he's probably lying to you. I wish you the best of luck.
P.s: just because he doesn't want to be a father doesn't mean you should get an abortion. A baby is a blessing and if you are a strong woman you can take care of the baby yourself.
My boyfriend keeps changing his mind?
He wants to be a dad but he is scared and that is normal so just be patient and don't do anything rash. He will get used to the idea and then be really happy.
You have to make this decision for yourself. If you want the baby you should keep it no matter what anyone says. If you choose to have an abortion or adoption, that is your choice, too. You don't say how old you are, but I bet you are young. Talk to your parents or someone else you trust. You need help! And, if it turns out you are not pregnant, get some birth control PDQ!!!!
No matter what your boyfriend wants or doesn't want, if you're pregnant, the final and ultimate decision is up to you ! If he doesn't want the baby, don't just abort because he says so. Only do what you feel is right :) Your boyfriend has a little growing up to do.
I don't care what his decision is you should not make an innocent baby pay for it with his or her life. He (depending on his age) is totally confused about being a dad. Unfortunately, he (and you) made that choice when you guys had sex.
