So Wenger finally changing his policy and going for established players? Do you think it will pay off?

Arsene finally seems to be changing his policy about big money transfers and buy star players. He will have Usmanov's money behind him if he made such change of mind. Do you think this change of policy is what Arsenal need now, they need those players on the pitch who can fuel and support the other young and blooming gunners in the team? They need those players who will add considerable consistency to the team? What do you think? Feel free to open up
So Wenger finally changing his policy and going for established players? Do you think it will pay off?
What star players, I just hope you don't believe that he is really after Ribery..... Ribery is mission impossible!!!!
So Wenger finally changing his policy and going for established players? Do you think it will pay off?
Probably, but he's only probably buy one or two extablished players, and it shouldnt cost more than 35 mil for both.
may i ask where did you hear this..?

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What percentage of students change their mind about college?

What percent of kids change their mind about what they want to do when they get older by the end of High School? And do they end up staying in the same kind of field of that specific job. for instance i want to go into the medical field but people say that people change their mind like 3 times before college. Is that common?
What percentage of students change their mind about college?
you might change your mind 3 times before college even starts...and then another 3 times when you are in college...and then another 3 times after you get out of college. Seriously, i do not know to many people who are doing what they said they were going to do in high school or even college for that matter.

So to answer your question... yes it is common....and it will continue throughout your life until the day you retire!
What percentage of students change their mind about college?
Many students change their minds while in college: 50% of all college students change their major at least once.
Maybe like 90%.

How would a girl deal with a guy who keeps changing his mind about when he wants kids?

ok so her husband is a great guy and always taking great care of her and she is really looking forward to haveing kids and so is he. but the problem is she is getting her birth control taken out TOMORROW and he is still changing his mind about when about twice a day. one min he really wants to start trying tomorrow night wen he gets home and the next he wants to wait awhile. and sometimes he sound really convincng that he wants to start now and so it gets her hopes up only to get shattered later when he changes his mind back. what is she supposed to do she has talked to him about it and he still keeps getting her hopes up to later have them crushed
How would a girl deal with a guy who keeps changing his mind about when he wants kids?
how about not being involved in other peoples lives?
How would a girl deal with a guy who keeps changing his mind about when he wants kids?
Just get off birth control and when she gets pregnant it will be a nice surprise!
What are the motives for him wanting to wait? I can understand wanting both at the same time. Part of him is ready for that next step, but part of him is probably mature enough to realize what a huge commitment that is. A child is fully dependent on you. Free time? Gone. Extra cash(if there was some)? Gone. It can be a pretty scary thing. So I would start by making sure you have really talked about the things that are making him hesitant. Maybe he is even worried about how the relationship between the two of you will change.

I like this guy and he keeps changing his mind. What do i do?

i really like this guy and i have for a while. i went to a friends house once and he was there and we flirted the entire night. he told me he really liked me and everybody told me that he wouldnt stop talking about me after i left the party. and now days he keeps telling me that he doesnt know if he likes me but then sometimes he says he does and he sometimes acts like he does. but his mind is always changing. im tired of waiting around but i really like him and all my friends say he totally acts like he likes me but then sometimes he sees me but doesnt even say hi. does he like me or what is going on!!!!???? help please
I like this guy and he keeps changing his mind. What do i do?
You need to approach him and ask him out this way you will know for certain if he is serious or simply playing games with your emotions.



Best of Luck
I like this guy and he keeps changing his mind. What do i do?
just ask him out
tell him to make up his mind because girls like you aren't up for that

I've changed my mind about changing my name, what to do?

My husband and got married about a month ago (in NY). When we got married, we decided to change our last names, and that is what it says we plan to do on both the marriage license and certificate. However, neither of us have started the name change process and have decided that we would like to keep our pre-marriage last names for awhile longer, if not indefinitely, because of our professions. Can we update the marriage certificate to reflect this? Or file some sort of paperwork to nullify that request? I know we could likely just carry on and never change our names without issue, but because of other legal and immigration issues, we'd like to set it right. (We accept the fact that if we choose to change our names in the future, we will likely have to pay to do so.)



Thanks!
I've changed my mind about changing my name, what to do?
That's strange, my marriage license doesn't say anything about what I changed my name too. It just shows my husband's info, my info, and then the date that we were married, and who we were married by.



What I was changing my name to was not even discussed by anyone until I went to the DMV to get my new license.



But there is no time-limit on when you have to change your name. I highly doubt it will ever be an issue at all. I'd just contact the court house and see what they have to say.
I've changed my mind about changing my name, what to do?
You need to see what the laws are in NY about this. You don't need a lawyer for this though, I'd make a phone call to the county clerks office--probably the same place you got your marriage licence. They should be able to give you the answer you need.
There isn't a time limit of when you need to change your name by. There isn't a name changing enforcement agency out there who will make you do it. It is nice that you have that option to do it, and you might decide in a few months that you want to stick with your original plan afterall. I think you should let it be, and when you get around to changing it, then you get to it. But when you do change your name with the SSA, then you should start changing the rest of your information with banks, motor vehicles, etc.
Contact the local county clerk's office, they may be able to shed some light on this for you. Dependent upon NY law you may need to get an attorney to file with the court to make the needed changes. It may be possible to amend the documents since you've not started the process.
If you feel that there are legal and immigration issues or other unforseeable tax/social matters that will not benefit you regarding your current status, my advice change/update your your certificate at the lawyers office at once to clear up all this matters at once instead of letting it dilly-dallying to pile up bigger problems under your nose/feet in future.
Ask the Clerk's Office if you can file and amendment to the Marriage License. Must be sworn and Notarized.
Are you sure your license and certificate said that you were changing your name? I've been married eleven (11) times and NONE of the applications or certificates mentioned anything about whether or not I would change my name. Check your paperwork again. There may be something in there directing HOW to change your name if you so choose but I doubt that you had to specify whether you would be doing that or not.

Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?

I'm just wondering. Many of us come here with the hope of changing opinions, or injecting information to inform or influence others.



I wonder if anyone here has changed their opinions based on reading others questions, information, or answers.
Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?
I don't think I have changed my opinion- but I have learned some things.
Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?
I don't want to change opinions. I'm just here to catch people from the other party in lies so I can call them hypocrites.
I used to be suspicious of McCain, now I support him.
I did, about the time Obama first started his campaign I thought he might be okay, but anyone who puts out the airhead posters that support him on here is no one I want within 100 miles of the white house.
Some questions are %26quot;interesting%26quot;, but I don't think anyone would change their mind based on Yahoo or the media.
Yeah, I thought capitalism should be abolished, but now I realize that using socialism to compensate for its abuses is a better solution all around.
i inform like someone brings up that Clinton murdered someone and i bring up Baxter of Enron was going to testify but just before that they found him in a car with a gunshot wound to the head, WITH UNTRACEABLE BULLETS, AND NO NOTE, as well as defensive wounds on his hands,





ENRON SCANDAL: Was John Clifford Baxter Murdered?

by

Hector Carreon

La Voz de Aztlan

Los Angeles, Alta California - 1/26/2002 - (ACN) Statements made by police investigators, wife Carol Baxter and close associates of ex-Enron executive John Clifford Baxter, whose body was found yesterday morning with a bullet in his head, leads one to think of the possibility that he may have been murdered in order to stop him from divulging incriminating information to a congressional committee investigating the Enron scandal and in which he was due to testify. Certain facts point to a %26quot;professional hit%26quot; and not to a suicide as the mainstream media is reporting. It appears that he was murdered and the killing made to look like a suicide.



The first statement by the police was the very quick conclusion that it was definitely a suicide. The conclusion was made within a few hours of the find of the body a few blocks from his home. Baxter's body was inside his black 2002 Mercedes sedan. The body was found around 2:20 A.M. and a %26quot;definite suicide%26quot; was proclaimed by the police around 10:00 in the morning. The police captain in charge of the immediate investigation proclaimed that Baxter had taken his own life and ordered the body be taken to a local mortuary without an autopsy. A judge had to intervene, at the request of Baxter's family, with a counter order that the body be taken from a Rosenberg funeral home to the county morgue for an official autopsy instead.



The police has reported that a %26quot;suicide note%26quot; was found inside the car and that Baxter's right hand was gripping a 38 caliber revolver. They said that the car was locked and that they had to break the window. The police has refused to show evidence of the %26quot;suicide note%26quot; and have been silent of what the note actually says. The purported %26quot;suicide note%26quot; will be key evidence to determine if Baxter's death was actually murder. There has been no real evidence to prove that the death was a suicide up to this point. The whole scenario stills looks like a set up to make it look like a suicide.



Some of Baxter's friends and acquaintances do not believe that Baxter committed suicide. They say he had to much going for him. He had just made over $35 million dollars selling his Enron stock at its peak and was living a very happy life with his wife Carol and two children, a high school age teenager whom he called J.C. and his preteen daughter Lauren. He owned a multi-million dollar home in an upscale suburb of Houston, Texas called Sugar Land and was enjoying his family excursions in his 70 foot yacht he named Tranquility.



Baxter's friend Michael P. Moran, once general counsel for Enron's gas pipeline group, said, %26quot;As long as I've known Cliff, I never knew him to be a person who was depressed, who would bring it to taking his own life, he was an idea guy in very substantial jobs.%26quot;



%26quot;I just can't figure it out. This just isn't him,%26quot; said another friend, Lyndon Taylor, a Houston executive search consultant who worked with Baxter at Enron.



John Clifford Baxter was an avid yachting enthusiast and a member of Houston Yacht Club. Chuck Buckner, the Commodore of the club, said that Baxter had sold his yacht in the last few weeks and then dropped out of sight after expressing worries that he was in imminent danger. Chuck Buckner said that Baxter's troubles began when he was subpoenaed to testify before a congressional committee investigating the Enron scandal. He had received subpoenas this month from the Senate Government Affairs Subcommittee on Permanent Oversight and Investigation and the House Energy and Commerce Committee. A partner at Ernst %26amp; Young in Houston, Buckner had not seen Baxter since right before Christmas. The last thing Baxter expressed to Buckner was his desire to take longer trips with his family in his yacht.



If the death was not a suicide, who and why would anyone want to murder John Clifford Baxter? What would be the motive? Can it be simply that he knew too much about Enron's multi-billion dollar international dirty dealings. What powerful people could he have implicated in the scheduled congressional hearing? Baxter did not deal in peanuts! He had negotiated the $3-billion purchase of Portland General Electric in 1997 and had worked diligently for Enron in an attempt to sell it to a California entity. California, as we all know, is where the public was ripped off of over $70 billion dollars by Enron and other energy companies in collusion with the state's corrupt politicians. Also, Baxter as Vice Chairman of Enron was charged with selling the corporations's under-performing international assets. Was he selling %26quot;junk companies%26quot; to unsuspecting international investors? Were the phoney Enron %26quot;paper%26quot; companies recently uncovered in Mexico part of the %26quot;portfolio%26quot; Baxter was charged to sell? What did Baxter know? One thing for sure, we will never know!
No, I don't come here to change opinions, just to see what others opinions are.
Don't think I have.
Not really. Every once in a while someone in the opposition does a good job of pointing out when someone on 'my side' has gone over the edge, or made a good sound case for their way of thinking. It does not change my mind so much as keep it open and moderate. But my sense of who is mostly right and who is mostly wrong does not vary much.




Issues don't change



History doesn't change



Hate doesn't change



I give information and not my opinion

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Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?

I'm just wondering. Many of us come here with the hope of changing opinions, or injecting information to inform or influence others.



I wonder if anyone here has changed their opinions based on reading others questions, information, or answers.
Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?
I don't think I have changed my opinion- but I have learned some things.
Has Anyone Here Changed Their Mind on Anything?
I don't want to change opinions. I'm just here to catch people from the other party in lies so I can call them hypocrites.
I used to be suspicious of McCain, now I support him.
I did, about the time Obama first started his campaign I thought he might be okay, but anyone who puts out the airhead posters that support him on here is no one I want within 100 miles of the white house.
Some questions are %26quot;interesting%26quot;, but I don't think anyone would change their mind based on Yahoo or the media.
Yeah, I thought capitalism should be abolished, but now I realize that using socialism to compensate for its abuses is a better solution all around.
i inform like someone brings up that Clinton murdered someone and i bring up Baxter of Enron was going to testify but just before that they found him in a car with a gunshot wound to the head, WITH UNTRACEABLE BULLETS, AND NO NOTE, as well as defensive wounds on his hands,





ENRON SCANDAL: Was John Clifford Baxter Murdered?

by

Hector Carreon

La Voz de Aztlan

Los Angeles, Alta California - 1/26/2002 - (ACN) Statements made by police investigators, wife Carol Baxter and close associates of ex-Enron executive John Clifford Baxter, whose body was found yesterday morning with a bullet in his head, leads one to think of the possibility that he may have been murdered in order to stop him from divulging incriminating information to a congressional committee investigating the Enron scandal and in which he was due to testify. Certain facts point to a %26quot;professional hit%26quot; and not to a suicide as the mainstream media is reporting. It appears that he was murdered and the killing made to look like a suicide.



The first statement by the police was the very quick conclusion that it was definitely a suicide. The conclusion was made within a few hours of the find of the body a few blocks from his home. Baxter's body was inside his black 2002 Mercedes sedan. The body was found around 2:20 A.M. and a %26quot;definite suicide%26quot; was proclaimed by the police around 10:00 in the morning. The police captain in charge of the immediate investigation proclaimed that Baxter had taken his own life and ordered the body be taken to a local mortuary without an autopsy. A judge had to intervene, at the request of Baxter's family, with a counter order that the body be taken from a Rosenberg funeral home to the county morgue for an official autopsy instead.



The police has reported that a %26quot;suicide note%26quot; was found inside the car and that Baxter's right hand was gripping a 38 caliber revolver. They said that the car was locked and that they had to break the window. The police has refused to show evidence of the %26quot;suicide note%26quot; and have been silent of what the note actually says. The purported %26quot;suicide note%26quot; will be key evidence to determine if Baxter's death was actually murder. There has been no real evidence to prove that the death was a suicide up to this point. The whole scenario stills looks like a set up to make it look like a suicide.



Some of Baxter's friends and acquaintances do not believe that Baxter committed suicide. They say he had to much going for him. He had just made over $35 million dollars selling his Enron stock at its peak and was living a very happy life with his wife Carol and two children, a high school age teenager whom he called J.C. and his preteen daughter Lauren. He owned a multi-million dollar home in an upscale suburb of Houston, Texas called Sugar Land and was enjoying his family excursions in his 70 foot yacht he named Tranquility.



Baxter's friend Michael P. Moran, once general counsel for Enron's gas pipeline group, said, %26quot;As long as I've known Cliff, I never knew him to be a person who was depressed, who would bring it to taking his own life, he was an idea guy in very substantial jobs.%26quot;



%26quot;I just can't figure it out. This just isn't him,%26quot; said another friend, Lyndon Taylor, a Houston executive search consultant who worked with Baxter at Enron.



John Clifford Baxter was an avid yachting enthusiast and a member of Houston Yacht Club. Chuck Buckner, the Commodore of the club, said that Baxter had sold his yacht in the last few weeks and then dropped out of sight after expressing worries that he was in imminent danger. Chuck Buckner said that Baxter's troubles began when he was subpoenaed to testify before a congressional committee investigating the Enron scandal. He had received subpoenas this month from the Senate Government Affairs Subcommittee on Permanent Oversight and Investigation and the House Energy and Commerce Committee. A partner at Ernst %26amp; Young in Houston, Buckner had not seen Baxter since right before Christmas. The last thing Baxter expressed to Buckner was his desire to take longer trips with his family in his yacht.



If the death was not a suicide, who and why would anyone want to murder John Clifford Baxter? What would be the motive? Can it be simply that he knew too much about Enron's multi-billion dollar international dirty dealings. What powerful people could he have implicated in the scheduled congressional hearing? Baxter did not deal in peanuts! He had negotiated the $3-billion purchase of Portland General Electric in 1997 and had worked diligently for Enron in an attempt to sell it to a California entity. California, as we all know, is where the public was ripped off of over $70 billion dollars by Enron and other energy companies in collusion with the state's corrupt politicians. Also, Baxter as Vice Chairman of Enron was charged with selling the corporations's under-performing international assets. Was he selling %26quot;junk companies%26quot; to unsuspecting international investors? Were the phoney Enron %26quot;paper%26quot; companies recently uncovered in Mexico part of the %26quot;portfolio%26quot; Baxter was charged to sell? What did Baxter know? One thing for sure, we will never know!
No, I don't come here to change opinions, just to see what others opinions are.
Don't think I have.
Not really. Every once in a while someone in the opposition does a good job of pointing out when someone on 'my side' has gone over the edge, or made a good sound case for their way of thinking. It does not change my mind so much as keep it open and moderate. But my sense of who is mostly right and who is mostly wrong does not vary much.




Issues don't change



History doesn't change



Hate doesn't change



I give information and not my opinion

Is "changing your mind" the same as "cutting and running"?

Just asking because it looks like the stay the course thang ain't working and we're finding ourselves in the middle of a nasty civil war. Should we leave then?
Is %26quot;changing your mind%26quot; the same as %26quot;cutting and running%26quot;?
No, Bush doesn't understand the concept of 'changing positions based on more detailed evidence'



He isn't able to admit a mistake.
Is %26quot;changing your mind%26quot; the same as %26quot;cutting and running%26quot;?
No. Yes. Amen.
Times when its good to %26quot;stay the course%26quot; your running a race, and ahead of everyone else, don't slow down now or you might lose!



Times when its bad to %26quot;stay the course%26quot; when you are driving 100 miles an hour towards a 1,000 foot cliff.



The question becomes: does our progress in Iraq more resemble the first example, or the second?
the WMD Georgie the boy president and his uncles were looking for have been located in the DPRK
Changing your mind isn't cutting and running. Unless you just pack up and leave so the opposition to your allies, who are supported by known terrorists and a sworn enemy of yours, can claim victory.



If the US just leaves we will be blamed for he results of the civil war; for not backing the fledgling government we created.
Do the right thing - feel better for it.
I saw a video of a monkey in a tree. This monkey saw two lion's on

the ground. He decided to have some fun with them and came down and pulled there tale and then there ear. Over and over the

monkey teased the two big creatures and got the best of them.

In the end the two beast looked at each other and walked off into

the Bush. I guess they cut and run or they decided enough is enough.
BUSH is insane ,sir you expect such logical reasoning from a crazy sick man like bush,yes leave ,peace be with you brother.
in the early 1970s the US military %26quot;cut and ran%26quot; from Vietnam after 10 years of bloody fighting 58,000 dead Americans and over 2 million dead Vietnamese (north %26amp; south) and now Vietnam, although not a democracy is a major US trading partner. Sometimes %26quot;cutting and running%26quot; is actually a good thing and can have good results like Vietnam today.



Terrorists will never establish a stronghold in Iraq if the US %26quot;cuts %26amp; runs%26quot; because the Iraqi Shia will destroy their long time enemies the Iraqi Sunni insurgents and the Sunni terrrorists/Al Qaeda and because the Iraqi Shia are the majority by far in Iraq and because they actually know who the insurgents/terrorists are they will do a much better job of killing them than the US military.



So if the US military were to leave they wouldn't be %26quot;cutting and running%26quot; they'd be handing over the job to the Iraqi Shia who already run the country. The problem is that Bush may want the glory of winning the war on terror in Iraq and that's a major problem.
Answer #1 is mine too. Thanks Tofu!
changing the plan with new and changing information is smart.

cutting and running is leaving someone else holding the responsibility for cleaning up or paying for your mistake.
It appears that Bush and friends doesn't understand the culture of the Middle East. The only thing that would unite them is to wipe out little Israel. This is certainly Not a rallying call for Arabic democracy. Changing your mind on anything is a mature thing to do

Why does my mum keep changing her mind?

well me and my family have got a 15month Border Collie and my mum and dad said they wanted to get another one for our current one anyway my mum told me to look online to see if there were any pups for sale and look at rescue centres, but everytime i see a pup that are around our area (like half an hour drive away) she just goes no don't think we'll be getting another, and then a couple of days later she tells me to look again. I'm pretty happy having just our one Border Collie but i would love to get another one. I've found pups for sale just down the road from us should i tell my mum? Why does she keep changing her mind?
Why does my mum keep changing her mind?
Next time she asks you to look tell her there's no point as she keeps changing her mind so what's the use in looking.
Why does my mum keep changing her mind?
Well I don't know why she keeps changing her mind, but maybe you should just talk to her about it. Tell her about the pups you found and if she says that you're not getting another one, then ask her why she keeps changing her mind and to decide on getting a new one or not.
I know this will seem strange but maybe she thinks it's the best for you

Why does my boyfriend keep changing his mind?

I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now, we met at college and started dating. When I first got with him I stupidly told him about past boyfriends and stuff I had done with them. I dont know why I did it and I really regret it. Now he gets so down about it that he hates me for it. He wont talk to me, gets angry and aggresive, wont text me or call me, tells me he doesnt know if he can do this anymore. Then he will be fine, apologising, is the sweetest person ever, saying he would never leave me. I can understand all the stuff I told him would annoy him, but he kinda wanted to no in the first place.



I feel so lost, I dont know what to do, he keeps changing his mind about things like, we were going to get a flat together now its as if he isnt interested in that. He wants to go back to college, I dont and I would never stop him, but its just that he says he doesnt wanna go, wants to be with me then says he does..its feels like he doesnt know if he wants me or not. I have asked him but he always tells me i'm being silly and he does love me and wants to be with me.



I know he suffers from depression, but he keeps pushing me away. I love him so much, but it feels like I am fighting every day to keep him and to make him love me.
Why does my boyfriend keep changing his mind?
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Why does my boyfriend keep changing his mind?
Ive told all my boyfriends about my past and only 1 had a major problem with it (the guy im with now but that's a long story) he's a jerk move on find someone that will treat you better

So Bill criticized Obama for changing his mind on the Iraq war...What did Hillary do??

Hillary's past with voting and then changing her mind is very strong. Plus, her remarks about how Obama has no experience to qualify him for President. What are her's? being in congress, so has he. Being the first lady, that HARDLY makes you experienced!



And I am sorry but doesn't it seem to you that Hillary is taking her loss in the polls to Obama like a toddler? She seems to be throwing a little temper tantrum and just fighting with nasty words that are making her look really bad...to me anyway.



I really don't wanna hear anymore of her criticizm and nasty remarks about other Presedential candidates. She needs to slow that up a bit.
So Bill criticized Obama for changing his mind on the Iraq war...What did Hillary do??
Ist

I liked Bill Clinton. I thought he was a good ( not a great ) President.



2nd

I am very disappointed in him. He is not showing any dignity as a former President when he gets involved and attacks other candidates or the current leader. His desire to get back into the White House is clouding his judgment.



3rd

Hillary has shown how insincere she is. First she stole The change message, then she is the candidate for the youth after a strong showing in Iowa, now she is stealing Edwards %26quot;this is very personal to me%26quot; message.



4th

She only has 7 years experience as a Senator. 1st ladies aren't elected nor are they in a cabinet position. Just because you discuss things with your spouse doesn't make you experienced or just meeting heads of states doesn't make you a statesman or states-lady.
So Bill criticized Obama for changing his mind on the Iraq war...What did Hillary do??
Absolutely.
Hillary obviously sucks....I guess not enough, that why her hubby cheats!
I agree 100%.
They criticize him because Obama is going around running simply on the %26quot;change%26quot; buzz word. Yet he is not actually any different from the rest in his level of change. He's just a better manipulator.
She's a senator, not a congressman. Your right, she is not qualified for the position. She did a little %26quot;backstep%26quot; when questioned about the war. She did review the same intelligence that the rest of the world, including GWB, and agreed, as did Bill, that a military approach was the right move. A position by any of the Dem candidates on the Iraq war should really be questioned due to their complete lack of competence in that arena.
This criticism is so interesting because she did vote for the war. Let's use common sense. So you are against the war- but it is launched anyway. It proves to be a big nasty mess and we have troops there who need protection, food, clothes, etc. So what do you do with the reality of the situation? Say no, I won't approve money for the men and women who are risking their lives, just because you didn't approve it? Of course not.



It is possible to be against the war and for taking care of the people who are there.
She is a poor loser. She is a huge fence rider. She has nothing left but name calling and schoolyard like fighting tactics. She just keeps making things worse for herself. I love it that she now is out there saying she stands for change. Yes she changes her position if the lobbyists pay her and tell her to.
Bill Clinton is ruining his name and hard won reputation... Using personal attacks on Obama is shallow and pathetic...

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This Guy I like keeps changing his mind?

My guy friend and I became more than friends. We went out during spring break but broke up when we got back. He said that he wasn't ready for a realationship cus he was still in love with his ex. The fallowing day he asked me out and i agreed. four days later we break up because he want to be %26quot;true to himself%26quot; and didn't want to hurt me. So we agreed to be friends. We still feel the same about eachother and we talk all the time. I told him that an old friend was comming into town and he asked if i could like this old friend. I asked if he still liked me, He said %26quot;I do. But I don't know if I WANT to.%26quot; I asked what the heck does that mean. And he said that we can't be anything more than friends despite the way we feel. He'll be leaving for college and i'll be graduating next year so I see where he's comming from. But when we went to the movies with friends he held my hand. he keeps changing his mind, and I feel he is pushing me away but also keeping me close. What should I do?
This Guy I like keeps changing his mind?
He is a loser.. Forget him

Can Bank Change Mind after verbal agreement?

Last Thursday my real estate agent called and told me that the offer I put on a house was accepted. The bank told my agent that they accepted our terms and will get back to us with a contract but just this morning I receive a phone call from my agent telling me that the bank decided to accept another offer even though they have given us a verbal agreement. My question is that can the bank do that when they have given us an agreement verbally on the phone
Can Bank Change Mind after verbal agreement?
A verbal agreement isn't worth the paper it's written on.



Yes, they can do it and that happens alot. Until you get it in writing, it's not signed, sealed and delivered in the Real Estate industry. It's not %26quot;morally fair%26quot;, but they can do it.



Verbal agreements can be binding under certain circumstances, but you really need alot of proof that real, tangible, or monetary damages were done, and evidence that there really was a verbal agreement.
Can Bank Change Mind after verbal agreement?
You should call a lawyer and ask. I thought verbal agreements were a contract too. Since you were told they would draw up a contract they shouldnt be able to just accept someone elses offer. But since you were told over the phone they may be able to just say they dont know who you talked to. Then again you can prove you called with your phone bill if you know who you talked to...did you try talking to the bank manager? I know I'd be ticked if I was in your situation.
Yes, they can do that, as long as they have not provided an acceptance in writing to you. In fact, ANY seller can do that. You have no accepted offer in real estate until you have the signed acceptance of your offer.
Bring the verbal agreement to court and put on the table next to their written contract and see which one the judge awards.
In the US, verbal agreements are not legal with regards to a real estate transaction....thus the purpose of a contract.
That is no such thing as a verbal contact in the real estate market.
yes you better get a lawyer
yes they can as it was not in writing
yes

it has to be in writing
i don't thinks so

Why does he keep changing his mind?

Ok so i met this guy on a monday and he asked me to go out with him on friday night so i said yes we talked all that week then he txted me thursday night and said that it wasnt gona work between us cuz he didnt feel anything between us. The n he texted me on friday and apoligized and said that he thought i was cute and asked me if i still lied him i said thanks but didnt tell him if i did or did not like him. Then on sunday he said again it wasnt gona work between us and i accepted it. Then he texted me today and said he wanted to start over and i said wut do u mean he said idk so i said well do you want to give i a chance and he said yea so i asked him what we were giving a chance and he said idk forget it. So i said fine. He is so confusing but a little predictable what is he doing? Is he just playing games with me? Why is he changing his mind so much? HELP idk what to do???
Why does he keep changing his mind?
Maybe he doesn't know what he want. You should tell him to make you his mind because your tired of him changing his mind.



Hopefully he'll make up his mind when he see your tired of him changing his mind.

Why is my bf changing his mind about dates?

i planed us a date to movies. i really wanted to go. but on that day he canceled just saying he didn't feel like it. no particular reason.

then i said i'd try to find a friend to go with me or someone else, or go alone. he agreed.

then a few hours before a movie he called me saying if i haven't found anyone else to go with, he'd go. i haven't found but i lost my mood for it because of what he did, and at the end i didn't go with no one. i certantly didn't want to go with him. he made me look desparate.

why is he changing his mind about our dates? did he expect me to say no?
Why is my bf changing his mind about dates?
have you ever thought about if he had other things to do? or other places to be? Or simply, he could be cheating on you. The best way to find out is ask. Just ask him and he'll be truthful and tell you.
Why is my bf changing his mind about dates?
maybe he didn't feel like going, then he felt bad because he didn't want you to go alone or he really doesn't like you anymore.
I know it's hard but DON'T OVER-ANALYZE IT. Kay?

Maybe something happened! So don't worry about it. Give the guy another try. Now, if he does this AGAIN, knock him out a window and move on. ;)
it seems like he just wants ***...im sorry, but no guy who was into would ever do that.
maybe he didn't feel like it but then realized that he was being selfish and that you took time to plan a date so the two of you could spend time together and that's why he said he would go.
Maybe he was just tired and was not in the mood to go out, then maybe he missed you and wanted to go. How can you be in the mood for a movie? I don't mean to be harsh, but it sounds like things didn't go your way so you were upset and refused to go even when he said he could. He did not make you look desparate. You are the one making the situation into something. Is this the first time he changed his mind about a date? If so its really not a big deal, give him a break.
he probably didn't have any money or anything. but then again he could have jus felt like being rude. you don't do that . (you should of really got someone else to go with) it's good that you didbn't end up going with him, it's not just going to be when he feels like it.
yeah, he probly thought you might say no
sounds like he is not into you as much.
That happens to me sometimes, where I'll have plans with someone but when the time comes I don't really feel like doing anything (its nothing against the person I was supposed to hang out with)



but he probably thought about it and realized that it was mean of him to cancel because then he might be ruining your day for you just because he's not in the mood to do whatever you made plans to do. I wouldn't worry about it too much, unless he does it a lot, then that shows that he's reallllly lazy, or just not that into you...

How does ones state of mind change after so long after switiching from a vegetarian diet to processed food?

how long does it normally take for the chemicals ,etc to kick in and start making the person feel disoriented etc?



why is this?



what are the chemicals doing to the brain or nerves?





also, how thought patterns change too?



please explain



btw, which area of the world are you?



and WHY some people just seem to eat crap all the time and not seem to be any different? do they just not know any better?..lol





thanks for your answers!
How does ones state of mind change after so long after switiching from a vegetarian diet to processed food?
Some one who is used to eating a healthy diet full of vitamins and proper amounts of proteins would undoubtly suffer from switching to a processed food diet.



They'd be denying their body proper nutrition and this could lead to a chemical imbalance and feelings of depression, lack of energy, and irritability. This could happen in a matter of days to weeks.



Eventually they might get used to it, but all of these symptoms are a sign that the body is not getting all that it needs.



For vegetarians, going back to meat can cause them to feel sick, guilty, or not have any effect at all depending on the person. It also depends if they eat lean meats, or processed fast food meats.



And for those who %26quot;eat crap all the time%26quot; and seem to have no effect? it's because they're body has gotten used to such a diet that they don't notice anymore. It never goes without effect though. They can still be unhealthy even thought they claim to feel fine, and many drawbacks will effect them later on life that they don't consider at the time. Obesity, diabetes, high cholesterol are some drawbacks that often don't come into play until years down the road.
How does ones state of mind change after so long after switiching from a vegetarian diet to processed food?
Why would one want to go back to processed food?
1. I am American

2. i have no clue what chemicals or anything like that

3. I eat anything i think tastes good, and wont make me sick, The reason for that?

because god put all of these animals and plants on earth for our consumption (with the exception of companion type animals) I would eat a rabbit and not care, i would eat dolphin and i wouldnt care, Did you know that jello is made from bone protein? i dont care i eat it!

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Why does she keep changing her mind?

I'm 14, female, and bi. I know they say I may be too young to be 'in love' but I honestly, truly believe I am. There's this girl, who is now a very good friend of mine, that I've known for almost a year and a half. We became friends quickly. Since the day we first talked I was already flirting with her (my other friend noticed). Anyway, she knows that I have very strong feelings for her, because I told her..exactly how I felt. She knows I love her. In the summer she questioned her sexuality. She's once said I gave her butterflies then took it back. What really is killing me is that a couple weeks ago she told my best friend who is also her best friend that she likes me. I tried talking to her about it because I found out and she said she doesn't know if she likes me. 4-5 other people thought she liked me also before she even told my best friend. She keeps changing her mind all the time. So, I guess she likes a guy again right now. Whats up with her? Why does she keep saying things then taking it all back?
Why does she keep changing her mind?
She's confused. She doesn't know who she truly is. It is perfectly normal, especially for a 14 year old girl, to not know what she wants or who she wants.
Why does she keep changing her mind?
At 14 a person is still searching for who they are and who they want to be. Some days they feel one way and other days they feel differently.

Finding true lasting love at 14 is extremely rare. Don't rush. You want someone who knows who they are, what they want and how they feel about things and this may take weeks, or years.

Focus on you, what makes you happy. If she finds those feelings inside she will come looking for you.

I keep changing my mind! I wan't to find out what's wrong with me. Please help.?

I keep changin my mind n personality all the tym (n a lot of the tyms ...the changes r quite extreme) 4ex. for a couple of months -I was a total geek n then I was an MTV n hevy metal freak, after tht: 4a couple of months I became extremely (sorta fanatic) religious. n then I became a fashion diva (when I had the punk lifestyle , I was quite tomboyish) and then I came sporty/athletic . And each of these styles do leave their marks , 4ex. I still lisen to heavy metal sometimes but not a lot n i still pay attention to the way I dress n i still respect my religion and pray sumtimes. I change my favorite color a lot (right now I dont know what it is) I can't figure out what my style is or what my fav. color is or wether Im girly or a tomboy. I also move from childish to mature. So Im wnderin f it s a split personality (SP). I don think its very serious, jus annoyin. But wht makes me feel tht its nt SP is that my changes happen over a long period of time and not day-to-day.
I keep changing my mind! I wan't to find out what's wrong with me. Please help.?
It sounds like you are just trying to find your way in the world.



You are doing the right thing. We need to experiment with life. Try on some personas and see how they fit.



You'll naturally grow into who you are. Just don't force it.
I keep changing my mind! I wan't to find out what's wrong with me. Please help.?
I have the EXACT same problem ....no, wait. No, I don't.

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First of all, your age would definitely matter.. Have you ever been diagnosed with ADD? If you have not checked I would suggest going to this website and look up the test. amenclinic.com and click on the tab that says Amens's Clinic. At the bottom you will see where you can take a rest to check to see if you have this disorder. You may have a %26quot;split personality%26quot;...can't be sure from here. If you do not either one of these, you may be at an age where you are trying to %26quot;find%26quot; yourself. I found this on a website...a little long but worth the read.



Life %26amp; relationships



A time comes in your life A time, a moment whatever???? comes in your life when you finally get it (REALLY). When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes you begin to look at the world through new eyes. This is your awakening. You realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter). and that any guarantee of %26quot;happily ever after%26quot; must begin with you, and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance. You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect, and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are and its OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself, and in the process a sense of newly found confidence is born of self-approval. You stop bitching and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that not everyone will always be there for you, and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance. You stop judging and pointing fingers, and you begin to accept people as they are, and to over look their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness. You realize that much of the way you view yourself, and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. And you begin to sift through all the crap you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look, how much you shouldn't weigh, what you should wear, where you should shop, what you should drive, how and where you should live, what you should do for a living, who you should sleep with, who you should marry, what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children, or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing, and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with, and in the process you learn to go with your instincts. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry, and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving, and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable, or important because of the man or woman on your arm or the child that bears your name. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes. You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love. and you learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms. Just to make you happy. And, you learn that 'alone' does not mean lonely. And you look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you %26quot;stack up.%26quot; You also stop working so hard at putting feelings aside, smoothing things over, and ignoring your needs. You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK. . . and that it is your right to want things that you want. and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands. You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, and respect, and you will not settle for less. And you allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you, to glorify you with his or her touch. and in the process you internalize the meaning of self-respect. And you learn that your body really is your temple. You begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water, and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear, so you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul, so you take more time to laugh and to play. You learn that, for the most part, in life you get what you believe you deserve. and that much of life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success, you need direction, discipline, and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and its OK to risk asking for help. You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle it, and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your terms. You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve, and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And you learn to deal with evil in its most primal state - the ego. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy, and resentment must be understood and redirected, or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself. by yourself, and you try to make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never ever settle for less than your heart's desire. And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. And you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility. Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can. It's all about timing.



Good Luck Sweetie and don't sweat over the small stuff. See a counselor or a psychologist if this bothers you that bad. Like I said, it could have a lot to do with your age which I do not know. If you are in your teens, I would definitely suggest spending more time away from the computer and television and find yourself whether it be with your friends or time alone....listen to YOUR OWN INNER SELF with out all the outside distractions...You'll be okay...
welcome to being female!!!!your still experimenting with life and who you are..enjoy and go with it..as one day you will find you are bits and pieces of all these things and you'll just mature into a wonderful experinced interesting wowan....

How do I prevent myself from changing my mind?

It seems that every time I set my mind to an idea or a lifestyle, I constantly end up changing my mind in the end. Or, as it would seem, if I convict myself to do just ONE thing and in the end I change it for something else within the same lines.





Ex) A lame example, but one all the same. For those of you familiar with WoW, you are given the ability to choose a class and race for your character, well, after a while, I will decide that the person or class I chose is too boring and switch to another, leaving that one behind entirely, often deleting it, only to regret it at a later time.







If you know of any books, blogs, CDs, etc. that could help, please feel free to list them. That goes double for your own thoughts and ideas.
How do I prevent myself from changing my mind?
Because you lack a sense of adventure. You want some thing new and fresh, which is good in a game but real life not so much. The best thing to do is think about the times you regreted the change...You just have to keep looking back at your past mistakes and learn from them.
How do I prevent myself from changing my mind?
I think it is because you have too many choices. If you limit you options, then I think that that will help this problem.
You can't. It's your nature.



There are personality theories that everyone has a different set of traits. One of these traits, has an impact on decision making. Some people make a decision quickly stick with it. While others take time making decisions and often change it.



So in a sense this is you , you can't change you. I suppose you could perhaps resist the urge to change something.
One can take a right path or wrong path. It is better to change your mind to take the right path instead of wrong path.

Is my crush changing her mind - will she grow to like me?

i have had a crush on this amazing girl for about 3 months now. 6 weeks ago she told me (through a text) that she just wants to be friends. i have not once thought about another girl since then, and i still have a huge crush on her now.

the day after she told me she just wants to be friends she constantly appeared offline on MSN, never left any messages for me on facebook, and didnt try to talk to me through texts (this was before college had started) after 3 weeks at college she has started to leave messages on facebook again, and has signed on to MSN recently. she also sent me an email from a site %26quot;glad we're friends%26quot; with just a smiley face.



what does this mean - is she changing her mind? is she starting to like me more? or is she thinking i will be over her? or is she just trying to make her point that she does 'just' want to be friends?



please help me out?

how chould i respond to the email???

thanks
Is my crush changing her mind - will she grow to like me?
She definitely just wants to be friends. I'd suggest moving on. Find someone else.

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Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?

My husband and I separated about 6 months ago but just recently moved back in together. It was mainly for our baby that is due in a month here. Well, things started kinda rough but hes really seen that I'm a different person and I don't act at ALL like I used to. The past couple weeks we've had a couple big fights and each time we would tell each other we hated each other and can't stand each other... blah blah blah. Also, he had pretty much told me that there was no chance of us getting back together a couple weeks ago, but hasn't said much about it recently. Well, last night he came into the room, I was already asleep and he was crying and said, %26quot;I just want you to know that even though I tell you I don't care about you, I could care less about what happens to you, and I hate you... I really don't. I care about you so much and this movie I'm watching, she died giving birth and when I thought about that happening to you, I realized my life would suck without you.%26quot;



And then after he told me that he had a few beers and came in later and we were talking and he told me he loved me... he hasn't told me that he loves me in probably 6 months. I guess my question is, even though he was drunk, do you think he could have meant it? It just seems too good to be true... and actually at first when we moved in together it felt like we were back together, but he said we weren't. He said were only there for our unborn daughter... do you think he could be changing his mind?
Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?
I think he really cares for, and about you. He is just under great pressure from you being pregnant, and many other things right now. He truly cares!
Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?
I don't know, honestly. Its hard to believe anything that comes out of someone's mouth when they are drinking.

Actions speak louder than words, though. He is there, and that says a lot. Try to be nicer to him, and avoid fighting. If you love him, it is more important to be happy than to be right. See what happens in the next few weeks.

I hope that everything works out well for you, and congratulations on your pregnancy. Children are the greatest blessings in life. Being a parent will change both of you two for the better. It changes your priorities in life, and makes you want to be a better person.

Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?

My husband and I separated about 6 months ago but just recently moved back in together. It was mainly for our baby that is due in a month here. Well, things started kinda rough but hes really seen that I'm a different person and I don't act at ALL like I used to. The past couple weeks we've had a couple big fights and each time we would tell each other we hated each other and can't stand each other... blah blah blah. Also, he had pretty much told me that there was no chance of us getting back together a couple weeks ago, but hasn't said much about it recently. Well, last night he came into the room, I was already asleep and he was crying and said, %26quot;I just want you to know that even though I tell you I don't care about you, I could care less about what happens to you, and I hate you... I really don't. I care about you so much and this movie I'm watching, she died giving birth and when I thought about that happening to you, I realized my life would suck without you.%26quot;



And then after he told me that he had a few beers and came in later and we were talking and he told me he loved me... he hasn't told me that he loves me in probably 6 months. I guess my question is, even though he was drunk, do you think he could have meant it? It just seems too good to be true... and actually at first when we moved in together it felt like we were back together, but he said we weren't. He said were only there for our unborn daughter... do you think he could be changing his mind?
Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?
A drunk speaks the truth... Unless they are an alcoholic...
Could he be changing his mind? Or is it really just for our daughter?
He could be or he could have just been emotional because he was tired and half looped. Get him rested and sober and have a calm conversation about it.
I think you have both started communicating maybe, that migh lead to something.
Sometimes it's takes loosing someone to realize how much they mean to you. maybe the movie was a wake up call. Remember he said he loved you before he got drunk. So you can't blame it on the booze. Take him at his word. Maybe you both can work on how to have a fight so it won't end in such hateful words.
He could be. Either way, I hope that if you two decide to stay together, you seriously work on your communication skills. Staying together for your child is a great idea, but raising your daughter in an environment where her parents are constantly arguing and yelling hateful things at each other is not.
It could be that he really is doing it for the baby, But he is a man and has not much to loose so I dont think that he would move in with you only for that fact. Deep down he cares about you and he could really mean it. Its the ones you reallly love that you fight mostly with.



And dont you dare start thinking that another man will be better, because everyone has thier short comings and no one is perfect, maybe when things start to cool of between you two you will sit him down and express how you feel, in a very light manner say how you hate fighting all the time and wish that if you guys are together for the kid then fighting wouldnt be ideal especially if your raising a kid together. Tell him how you feel and that you want a real relationship. If he still insists that he is only der for the baby then you really need to consider leaving this man, because it will be easier for him to find another girlfriend but harder for you to move on with him in the same house as you.

Try and act adult about the situation, and be the bigger person. If a fight errupts then you need to slow down and maybe not answer to fights when they come up.





Best of Luck
Ya'll have a very %26quot;see-saw%26quot; relationship.

He loves me, he loves me not.

Let me share a story with you. My aunt has been married to my uncle for over 30 years and there is not a day goes by that she tells me some story or another about his bad behavior. Watching porn, spending money, flirting with women and talking down to my aunt..

When he is in a good mood, don't know what it takes to get him in a good mood, but when he is he is charming, sweet and showers her with attention. When he is in a bad mood, and let me tell you one little thing can set him off. Anyway, I have seen him give her beautiful flowers and she just sets them aside because he has been a tyrant for day's and then sends flowers which she doesn't care about at all.

She complains about him all the time and yet stays married to him. I don't get it. She says she loves him but he is the only guy she has ever been with so what is she comparing it to.



When I see how my uncle behaves it makes me realize there is no way I would EVER date, live with or marry a man like that. Mood swings at any given moment, catting around, violence. Forget it. I would rather be alone.
Don't know the reasons why you guys are separated.

But ...You are pregnant. I hope you have friends and relatives to share your joy and support you !

Meanwhile, give yourselves time to see how things work out. Enjoy and Be happy !

May your new born change things for the better .
Well I don't think a %26quot;few%26quot; beers makes any one drunk enough to say things they don't mean. If anything he says things he doesn't mean when he is angry, and so do you. The reason he probably moved back in but said he was there strictly for your baby is because he wanted to see if you had really changed and he didn't want to give you false hope that's all. He is protecting himself from getting hurt, because he really does seem to love you. Sometimes it does take a pivotal moment to open someones eyes to what it really would be like without the other person. Sometimes it is something on tv, sometimes it's something a friend experiences, but it really makes you stop and think and appreciate what you do have. I think it's good that he has opened up to you and made himself vulnerable by telling you his feelings and I don't think you should question it. You both need to stop the unhealthy way you fight with the name calling and telling each other you hate them. Stick to the problem, and the solution and maybe you could actually resolve some issues instead of just trying to hurt each other.

My boyfriend is changing his mind about having a baby?

I am now 8 months pregnant and having a baby girl called Molly Jo Anderson. But my boyfriend is having second thoughts, his parents don%26#039;t agree with him having a baby too young, he IS only 18 and so am i but we both sai we were committed to looking after a baby. He was very excited at first but now he seems to be getting cold feet and saying that he isn%26#039;t sure. It%26#039;s too late to get an abortion and even if it wasn%26#039;t i still wouldn%26#039;t even think about gettin one, i%26#039;ve always wanted a kid and so has my boyfriend, i%26#039;m worried incase he runs away and leaves me single parenting the baby. why has he suddenly started changing his mind? What shud i do?
My boyfriend is changing his mind about having a baby?
Try not to worry, he%26#039;s scared, that%26#039;s all. The reality of the responsibility is kicking in and he%26#039;s worried that he won%26#039;t be a good parent. Talk to him, support him, if he loves you there%26#039;s no reason for him to run off and leave you holding the baby.



If the worst were to happen (but it won%26#039;t, I%26#039;m sure he%26#039;s jsut scared) and he did leave you don%26#039;t panic - I raised my son single handedly and whilst it%26#039;s not easy, it is possible to raise a perfectly healthy and well balanced child as a lone parent.
My boyfriend is changing his mind about having a baby?
he is just getting nervous just wait when he holds that little girl in his arms for the first time he will know then he made the right choice by staying with you its natural to be scared of life altering moments in life yall will be ok
there is nothing much you can do if hes going to run hes going to run just make sure he helps out with the financial side of it

but it sounds like hes getting nervous wait till your little one is bron he will soon change his mind
Hun, this is a really bad situation!! I made the same mistake, I got pregnant at 17 and had my baby at 18 also, the father was excited first just like you said and then he started saying little comments like %26#039;maybe we should have waited%26#039; %26#039;were to young%26#039; %26#039;im not good enough to be a father%26#039; and i got really worried that he was going to leave me. He sticked around for the first 6 months of Jessica being born and then i went to work he was looking after jess then when i got back jess wasn%26#039;t there nor ian the note said %26#039;i cant do it,im too young,haven%26#039;t had my fun yet,sorry. %26#039; I was so hurt broken but guess what. You find other men that will do anything to be a father to your baby. And although thgere not the biological father they are still there for you. So,im not sure what you are going to do, but remember if he leaves then hes not worth it. Maybe give it to your parents to look after until you guys are a bit older?
Its probably just nerves, the closer it gets the more nervous he gets i wouldn%26#039;t worry too much about it just try to reassure him that it will be ok.



Anyway its a bit late now to go changing his mind he is gonna be a dad whether he decides to leave or not
It%26#039;s probably nerves, the reality of what%26#039;s happening is starting to hit him. I have this problem. My baby%26#039;s father broke up with me cos he couldn%26#039;t cope, and even now he%26#039;s changed completely - going out most nights and the like.. it%26#039;s just a last minute panic. Just wait until he sees your baby girl, nothing else will be more important than being there for her.

And if he is a jerk and leaves you, like my baby%26#039;s father has, make sure you get him for child support. Congrats and good luck.
Get used to the idea of bringing the child up pretty much on your own.
I think men get cold feet about the baby- the more time they have to think about it, the more scared they get. My husband started clamming up with me about the subject about a month ago, and still is a little closed about it, even though he was excited and happy at the beginning.

If he%26#039;s a good guy, and if he%26#039;ll be a good father, he%26#039;ll realize how special the baby is and how lucky he is when he holds your little girl for the first time. If he doesn%26#039;t, honestly, you may be better off without him- you can still raise your baby to be a fine girl/woman without him.

Wishing you the best of luck.
i think hes just being nervous...its different for guys cos they cant feel the baby moving and stuff that you feel and so its not real to him until the baby is there to hold.....my boyf was the very same ...kept having second thoughts...we were both 18 and now our lil boy is 5 and my boyf is still with us. as for his parents once they see their lil grandchild i think they will accept that he has a baby and will want to be involved too. dont stress out, it will all come together for you in the end. Just reassure him that even though you are young it doesnt men your life stops, you can both still go out and have fun, im sure you%26#039;ll have loadsa babysitters and ull have a gorgeous baby in a few weeks to hold.
I was a dad at 16 and I was terrified!

I loved my girlfriend but honestly thought I could never be a proper dad at that age and was so scared of committing the next 18 years of my life to bringing her up.

Nevertheless, I was present at the birth and it was the most magical thing I%26#039;d ever seen...

Over the next few weeks I visited my girlfriend %26amp; daughter more and more and eventually after a few months I moved in with them and never looked back.



My daughter is now 23 years old lol and although she%26#039;s left home now, I still have a really good bond with her and a close relationship.



I can%26#039;t imagine what it would have been like if I hadn%26#039;t faced up to my responsibilities.



I%26#039;m sure your boyfriend will see sense too :)
its natural nearer the time for both or one parent to be nervous and have second thoughts, but believe me he loves this baby and he wouldnt do anything to hurt either of you. talk to him about your concerns and im sure he will open up, he is probably just scared of the responsibility and commitment which is normal at any age. when the baby is born things will change, dont panic just suport each other and you will be fine. im due tomorrow with my and my boyfriends baby, were 19/20 and 100% ready for our baby that i was told i couldnt concieve, when you think about the huge responsibility it can seem scary to some but just think about the brilliant future you are going to have as parents, nothing can take that away. good luck.
Adults look after their own babies.

I grieve for our country when I hear of such shirking from youngster who are not gifted in the art of home building.

I lay blame at the door of their doting parents who never allow their kids to experience responsibility but shield them as thought their children are more precious than others... fact is, nobody is more precious than anyone else, many will find this out as this next year in particular unfolds...

Bare up kids shoulder your share, prove yourselves worthy.



A reminder to all parents... YOUR DUTY is to bring up your children in such a manner that they can face the world square on without fear of failure, that is the way to rear successful and happy children as indeed the natural world can show, they must experience the trials and tribulations of life, or, how else can they hope to overcome such daunting things when you are gone...!!!
You should have thought it through before you went ahead with it. He%26#039;s having second thoughts? HA! Too late for that now isn%26#039;t it? You got rooked and as a parent of a 14 yr old girl, I hope your father doesn%26#039;t let him off the hook. Kids don%26#039;t want to listen to reason these days. Sorry, I%26#039;m not so much mad at you as I am the situation. What was the rush to have a kid now? Your finding out at a bad time what kind of man your boyfriend really is. This is exactly the reason why people should wait until they are either married or at least in their early 20%26#039;s Did you two think about how your going to raise this kid? What kind of jobs do the two of you have? I%26#039;m sure at 18 years of age, you two are not exactly making top dollar.
He is probly scared and might be having second thoughts if he is then there is nothing you can do you will have a beafuil baby But if he is just nevrous talk him round it tell him that how do you think you feel your having the baby x
he is selfish only thought of him self
It%26#039;s a bit late for him to be having second thoughts!
It%26#039;s ok sweety. Just about every man gets nervous when their baby is getting close to being here. Especially first time fathers when they are that young. Don%26#039;t worry about anything he%26#039;ll forget about it when he looks at his baby girl for the first time and he will fall in love with her.
Reality is hitting. Once the baby is here hopefully things chance for the better.
tell him he laid down to make this baby now he can help with the responsibility of her. he%26#039;s probably just getting cold feet because you guys are young, but it%26#039;ll all work out when she gets here.
hes just getting scared probably its just hit him what it involves just wait till he holds her and there will be no looking back for him

Could my husband be changing his mind? Does he really want a divorce?

My husband and I are separated right now for about 5 weeks. He's been saying he wants a divorce... but last night we met up to hang out and talk and he was talking about something his friend told him, and he said, %26quot;well, all you have to say is that were separated for right now%26quot;... then I had talked to his friend about something and then my husband confronted me and said, %26quot;matt told me that you are still trying for our marriage... and he said you thought i would stop talking to you if I knew... I'm not gonna stop talking to you becasue you're still trying for our marriage%26quot;... When we were dating something weird happened between us and he stopped talking to me but I kept trying to get in contact with him, and he said if I hadn't kept trying he would have moved on, becasue it showed I cared. Could that be happening right now with our marriage? Then I got on facebook and saw that he was on last night and asked him if he got home okay and then said I was going to bed and for the first time, he said %26quot;=( no, stay and talk to me%26quot;... Could things be changing between us? Slowly? Also I'm 3 months pregnant... could he be trying to be nice because of the baby? I mean, he said he isn't goingto get back together because of the baby, the only way he would get back together is because of ME. So I dont know... any insight? Could he be slowly changing his mind?
Could my husband be changing his mind? Does he really want a divorce?
Wow. What a terrible situation. First of all, my condolences - either way I'm afraid you are in for a bumpy ride.



Its hard to know what his behavior means. My ex was really nice to me when we separated - I thought that meant he wanted to get back together but he didn't. I read this book, Crazy Time by Abigal Trafford which is about divorce and what to expect - it was very very helpful. It said that the husband often gets really nice like that because he's guilty and that the wife often misinterprets this as his trying to reconcile.



What I think you should do is ask him if any part of him is interested in reconciliation and if he says yes suggest you go to marital counseling while you continue to be separated. Its a long tough road back but it seems like couples who have gone through something like this and reconciled are stronger than ever.



Good luck!
Could my husband be changing his mind? Does he really want a divorce?
I am sure he loves you and is confused. I have been through several separations with my husband and its hard. both of us were thinking about how miserable we were together but how we didnt want to live without each other. he may be thinking things out in his head. I would definately suggest marriage counceling.
when he finds out what it costs to raise that kid...he'll leave his girlfriend.



Question is, why stay married to this boy?



edit--%26gt; grow a brain honey, he is seperated from you, is messing with another girl, and telling you he is not having sex?



Let him go then....make him happy. He sounds like a real loser!!
Your marriage sounds pretty bad.

Is he changing his mind?

So I went on a date last Wednesday and afterwards we were texting and he said he had a question for me. I was like %26quot;Yes?%26quot; and he was like %26quot;Wait, I better wait and ask in person.%26quot; So I automatically assumed he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend but then the next day at school he didn't ask me. We talked about it and he said he wanted to date some more and he asked some friends if they thought he should ask me to be his girlfriend and he said they thought it was too soon but we've been on three dates. Now he is on a cruise and I haven't talked to him in five days. Is he changing his mind? He did ask me to prom though which is more than a month away which tells me he is still planning on being with me in a month but I do have slight doubt since we're not official. Am I crazy and blowing things out of proportion? Just for extra backround information, I'm a sophomore in highschool and he's a junior.
Is he changing his mind?
Take a deep breath. Everything is fine. Just relax and enjoy your new relationship...

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Is Pisces male changing his mind about finishing relationship? Does this happen alot? ?

have been dating a piscean for 4months.

We finished just over a week ago. He has been put in an impossible situation by his family and his ex of 4yrs ago has showed up and would appear to want him back.



ive never put any preasure. Im very laid back and its one of the things he said he really liked about me. Said he could either spend every day with me or call me once a week. Also said that I was the most normal person he knew. We definalty still fancy each other %26amp; were still flirting.



I appreciate that he needs to figure out what he wants and he needs to sort out a few things.



Since we finished he's texted me every day. Said that he's cancelled the meeting with his X-girfl as it would appear she is playing mind games.



Is he changing his mind about finishing the relationship?

I have to admit i was expecting a period of non-contact after finishing the relationship.



Any pisceans care to share?
Is Pisces male changing his mind about finishing relationship? Does this happen alot? ?
us pisces chance our minds more then we chance our underwear its quite sad actually!
Is Pisces male changing his mind about finishing relationship? Does this happen alot? ?
Just let him figure out what he wants and who he wants to go to..

i would say Pisces never look back or go back to anyone in the past so i would say you have a good chance but let things just go with the flow for a bit for now until he comes to a decision and either you or her or go solo. I think he doesn't wanna hurt neither of you or his ex though she's playing a lot mind games so the guy will know and cut her off outta of his life, so just take the back seat and let it ride.



In my opinion, anyone plays mind games with me (As PussyCat Dolls Whatcha think about Dat) He Got To go!!
Get away from him,Pisces are masters of manipulation and will give you guilt trips and deny any wrong doing on their part(liars). Deep down they only care about themselves and will use anyone to get what they want.
what sign ar u and what sign is his x??

be careful... iv known many pisces to go back to exes, especially if they were in love...

i thnk u need to make him choose if its gona b her or u, or else ur letting him know its ok for him to straddle the fence. tell him if he can't he should just forget it all then, its hard to do tho! the thing is even though ur laid back and he may like that about you, pisces men need someone who will sometimes take the lead and show them which direction to go in.... if u dont do this then its gona b tons of game playing and he wont really take you seriously.

What is the best way to change mind?

for everyone, there are times of sadness or a feeling of depression, after some issues. it usually vanishes naturally, but what could be some of the ways you can recover instantly....
What is the best way to change mind?
death always brings things into perspective.....

everything else pales into insignificance by caparison.
What is the best way to change mind?
If you're having a rough time of it, focus on your breathing. It calms your body down and helps you not concentrate on bad things happening. Other recommended alternatives are a gentle walk, a phone call to a friend, or the abuse of illegal substances.
it depends on what happened like for example did you lose a love or somthing like that if you did just try to meet and find some one new it help me alot so just try and move on but all i know is that you just cant get over somthing unlles you like kill your self and i am not suggesting that cause you proably have a whotl life ahead of you
Remind yourself that you have two choices. You can either let a situation take control of you or you can take control of the situation.



I'd recommend taking control of the situation. Don't accept unhappiness and do what you can to get yourself out of the rut. If you are lonely, force yourself to get out there and meet new people--even if it means saying %26quot;hi%26quot; to a stranger at a grocery store or coffee shop and going from there. If you are bored, get up and go for a walk and find something interesting to occupy your time. If you are sad, do something that makes you happy.



That said, accept reality. If, for instance, you experience a break up, a job loss or death of a loved one, accept that you are going to be sad for a little while because it is natural for things like that to get you down. Let yourself grieve and cope with it. And work towards getting yourself to a point at which you can move on. Dwelling on negative things rather than trying to get out of the rut will only make things worse for you.



Forcing yourself into changing your perception (from negative to positive) is a good idea, too. Try to look at things through rose colored glasses sounds silly, but it works. Things often mend themselves if you insist on looking on the bright side of things--or at least looking for the bright side.



Good luck.
you don't want an instant fix you have to feel thees things,and day by day you get better quick fixes cause problems in the long run .feel the pain and you will get better in time ,TIME IS A GREAT HEALER
time is the great healer, you just have to hang on in there
well there really is no way you can recover instantly from sadness or depression they are there for a reason ... usually when i get depressed i think of what it is that getting me down and break it down into a philosophical debate with myself ... and if its sadness i usually try to let it out somehow crying, writing, making a song you know stuff like that ... these feeling although they make you feel bad should take their course through you but you shouldnt let them control you ...



well thats all i got good luck to you and anyone else who reads this
believing does that.i have been wrong about some things for years, then when i find out i was wrong, and realise the truth i change my mind, and instantly beieve the new truth.
You could nip over to Sudan, walk around the camps in Darfur and say to yourself.

%26quot;What am I depressed about %26quot;!!
Try to look at the situation in the big picture of your life. If it is something that won't affect your future or change your life in a big way, then put in into perspective and let it go. What's done is done afterwards and if you can't do anything to change it then worrying about it won't change things but will take away your energy and ruin your day. I always try to ask myself %26quot; will this matter a week from now or a month from now? If not, do something to take your mind off of it and focus your attention and mental energy elsewhere. It works for me. Hope it does for you, too.
Answer: To consider an others perspective / take on the scenario / problem.



The old adages ~ Glass Half-full or Half empty: One mans meat is another mans poison are quite valid or tedious, but none the less true.



Being told 'Have a nice day' cane be a 'pick you up' or a 'PAIN in the neck.'



It's a matter of what works for yourself.



It can be a good idea to try to get another persons point of view on a topic in order to get a wider view and perhaps see something more clearly.



Sash.
the best way to change my mind are

1.i will going correction my self %26quot;what wrong to me, what happen to me, how came like that%26quot;

2.if i can't answer, i will share w/ people that can i belive it

3.looking for solution of my problem to stoped sadness or a feeling of depression.

4. if can't change anything so..... i let time to do... ( i will received all, what ever that it make me suffer)

5. just all
Anything connected with the mind in case of depression and sorrow is a slow process and you can't expect instant solutions.
Try to persuade yourself that life is beautiful, no matter what!

>>>>>>:=""=:Mind Changing Questions:=""=:<<<<<<?

1.) If there was a chain of preset explosions, could the Earth be blown in two?



2.) How did life, space, and the big bang come to be?



3.) Is it possible that somewhere out in space, a species more advanced than the US egsiste?





My answers:



1.)?



2.)?



3.) Of course! You dont have to look in space! Just under a rock!
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;:=%26quot;%26quot;=:Mind Changing Questions:=%26quot;%26quot;=:%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;?
1.)no



2.)god,pollution,terrorist



3.)duh
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;:=%26quot;%26quot;=:Mind Changing Questions:=%26quot;%26quot;=:%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;?
Meh...
Tee hee.
1: probably, if they were big enough

2: ummm...who knows...if ur religious: god, if not, who nos..

3: DUH!

Why is he so mind changing, what does this mean and how does he feel about me?

well this boy dumped me about 2 weeks ago now. I still like him, but i asked him how he felt and he said he still likes me but he dooesnt think we should go out. He told me he liked this other girl. But when ever i look over at him hes always looking at me, and when ever i am with another guy he will just keep on looking at me to see if we are flirting. Also sometimes he just comes over and talkes to my friends and stands like next to me, or will randomly give me a hug. However sometimes he wont like even care or look at me, and he will change his mood in about a second. On thursday i walked to the train station with him and when i went he put his hands on my bum and kissed my cheek.Also like last weekend he kissed me on the head and told me i was beautiful. At the weekend he tried to snog the girl he told me who he likes but she wuddent do it. Now i am really confused.



Please help x



Thank you :)
Why is he so mind changing, what does this mean and how does he feel about me?
hes using you. hes putting you on the back burner so if things dont work out with the other girl (or anyone else) then he has you as a back up. honestly hes a jerk so let him go.
Why is he so mind changing, what does this mean and how does he feel about me?
Hey..thanks for answering my question. Now I'll try to help with yours.



Well as a guy...I would definately say that he is confused or scared about the way he feels about you. Maybe he has some commitment issues he needs to sort out.



But if I were you, I would not settle for being sent mixed signals from him (thats what happend with the girl from my question ! lol) I would confront him and say ...what do you mean you don't want to go out , and you like this other girl? So why keep looking at me?



Hope that helps sweetheart.
That's a very compicated situation, ain't it? Maybe you should get another boyfriend because it looks like he's just playing with you. After you grab another guy, while you are dating him, ask your ex if he's interested getting back with you and if he is not, then you got your answer. However, if he is, just clarify that if he's willing to get back with you right then. If he says no, then leave and afterward if he kisses your cheek or something, you know what to do.
A lot of guys go through the after break-up wanting to keep you stage. If you're not with him and he's still acting jealous and weird if you're talking to anyone then he's definitely going through it.



All guys want to have their cake and eat it to. He wants to be single and do whatever he wants, but he also wants to have you to hug and practically be his g/f without really being his girlfriend.



Do you see what im saying? Freedom while still being able to put his hand on your butt and kiss you on the cheek?



He's taking advantage of you.



I don't think this guy is a good guy for you.

How to change mind of your woman for the happy and climax reaching night?

If your lovable lady was not ready to have sex on night and you are very eagar to have it what will you do? ladies can tell what is theirexpectation on same
How to change mind of your woman for the happy and climax reaching night?
First of all stop using the possesive %26quot;my woman%26quot; or %26quot;my lady%26quot;...that implies ownership and no woman likes to feel owned.
How to change mind of your woman for the happy and climax reaching night?
This is pathetic. Sanjay: forget about it. Take a cold shower and don't bother her. Be a nice guy and maybe you'll get lucky some other time. Geez.
if she is not ready then you just need to cool your jets and wait buddy. In my experience I hate it when a man pressures me and it just makes me more sure that I do not want to have sex with him then , or ever so leave her alone. Remember No means NO
Tell them it is your birthday??
Sometimes you just have to take %26quot;no%26quot; for an answer...
when I'm not in the mood my husband cooks dinner and cleans the house that usually turns me on
What world are you from? You have to just deal with the fact that she don't want to be with you there is nothing that you can %26quot;DO%26quot; to make her want to be with you. Give me a break, you have a hand use that and then you won't be so eager anymore.
Probably the single best thing you can do, Sanjay, is to go clean the house and offer her a foot massage.



Other than that you just need to let her sleep and reaquaint yourself with Mother Thumb and her Four Daughters. It always comes down to spanking. Sometimes you get to spank her, sometimes you gotta spank yourself. Sad but true.

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I need to email the admissions office at my chosen college about changing my course. What do I write?

I have changed my mind about the courses I would like to study and have been told to email the admissions office. I have no idea what I should write as I don't want to sound demanding or humiliate myself.
I need to email the admissions office at my chosen college about changing my course. What do I write?
Do you have an advisor or anybody assigned to you yet? If you do, email them and they can help you out. Don't worry about feeling embarrassed, it's natural for people to change their mind. Just email your advisor or if you don't have one, admissions like you said. Just tell them you've changed your mind and would like to pursue a different course. Easy as that. Hope this helped.
I need to email the admissions office at my chosen college about changing my course. What do I write?
say smth like:



after much consideration, i have decided to change my major. pls review my application and give my an answer asap. thank you.