I've been talking to a girl, very nice and all that, but she keeps changing her mind. We were planning on seeing eachother for the first time on the weekend (we've been talking for a month or two now) and one day she says, yeah, let's try this out, i think it'll work, and then the next day she says, i don't know if this works. Why do girls keep changing their minds? I say I give her until this weekend to make up her mind, and if she can't, i'm giving up. So is there anything else that I can do? Is there anything I should do? Why does she keep changing her mind?
Why is she changing her mind all the time?
For one, she changes her mind because that's just what women do. But it sounds like she's over analyzing the situation. Maybe she's nervous, maybe she enjoys the anticipation, but whatever it is, there's nothing you can do about it.
You can just tell her, either this weekend we see each other or forget it. I'll bet she doesn't waffle on that.