Let's say there is a financially-stable couple (who before getting married) agreed that the did not want children, however they wouldn't do anything to drastic (permanent surgery) just in case their minds changed later.
Let's say that out of a sheer accident they become pregnant and they come to the agreement to give the baby up once it's born. What if the husband suddenly decides that he would rather keep and raise this baby ( at about 4-5 months through)? Even though the woman simply does not want kids?
What could the woman say to convince the man that keeping the baby would not be the best option? If you were this woman what would you do?
Changing mind? Convincing? ?
If I was that women...which im sure its you..I wouldn't feel like that.
Poor child. I feel bad for him/her already with a mother like *that woman*
Changing mind? Convincing? ?
If I was this woman I would take responsibility for my actions and let's just say I would take care of my baby that I grew in my stomach with the man that actually wants to be apart of the childs life. Financial stability seals the deal and makes it really hard to try to find other excuses to give up your responsibilities.
Bottom line: If you can't face the consequences, keep your legs closed.
Oh dear, poor woman! your question seems to have upset a few people going on the responses you have had.
i however sympathize. (even though i am desperate to start a family myself, i will try to give some advice)
i would have to sit back and have a long think. im sure the lady in question has already done this. if she really doesn't want to keep this baby, then i would have to consider my husbands feelings. if he is really wanting to keep the baby, i don't think convincing him otherwise would be very fair. i know they agreed not to have children, and im sure the lady feels resentful that he has gone back on his word, but i would consider parting company with the husband and suggesting he raise the child himself. once the baby arrives, she may feel completely different.
i hope this helps you in some way. im sorry i cant offer more advice. a very tricky problem, but i do empathize with you.
claim the child unless you don't have the money then just tell him
%26quot;listen you know that we cant support a child right now%26quot;
Make use of those planned parenthood gift certificates
