I met a guy a few weeks ago and right off the bat he told our mutual friend that he doesn%26#039;t want a relationship. He said this before him and I actually ever had a real conversation so I%26#039;m not sure how much weight I should give it.
Is there any hope in maybe changing his mind after we start talking or has he made up his mind for good?|||If he doesn%26#039;t want a real relationship, nothing you do is going to change his mind. He has to change his own mind. It sounds like he%26#039;s being very honest with you, so good for him. He doesn%26#039;t want to be friends with you and have you think there%26#039;s going to be something more.
If you like him, go out with him as friends and enjoy his company. Don%26#039;t expect anything more than friendship from him though. If he ever gets to the point where he%26#039;s ready for a real relationship he%26#039;ll let you know, but don%26#039;t put your life on hold waiting.
If you can do that, enjoy his friendship! He could be a great friend.|||It could go either way.
I met a great guy on a online dating site...we met in person and he told me that he really isn%26#039;t looking for a relationship. We are still good friends though...just nothing (so far) has come of it.
